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I just did it!!! What a release!!!!!!!!
- Thread starter biteme
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needtogetaas
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that is grate biteme.hope you get some pease of mind.
Excellent dude!! I hope for the best maing.
I had'nt seen my sister in about 25 years. I just saw her last year for the first time. Better late than never bro. Good for you.
gonelifting said:
I see him frequently, I just haven't been able to call him dad since I was 13. It all happened in one day. He slapped me to the ground and at that instance, I hated him in my heart. It was hard for both of us, the teenage years. Over the years, I've been able to talk to him, but I've kept this bitterness and lack of trust in my heart that I haven't been able to let go of. The time has come to let go of it.
biteme said:
Awesome, go be a family now and show him what a great son can do for his dad. Do it!
KillzwithPillz
New member
Great first step bro, congrats
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Gambino
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gonelifting said:
25 yrs? damn i can't imagine going that long without seeing my sibling
Inspiring and courageous..
it's never too late to do the right thing... i hope you can get some absolution from this event. i also hope he can overcome as well. As much as i am not religious bitme... i feel like i know you and i have never said it was a bad thing to be spiritual... always remember that.
What made you decide to do this? What made you pick up the phone and call and call him "Dad"?
DieselGunz
New member
Good 4 you biteme, i am happy for you
I have not talked to my father for 4 years, i can not get up the courage to do it
I have not talked to my father for 4 years, i can not get up the courage to do it
JayC9
Well-known member
Wow! Interesting stuff Biteme, I can relate with you on this but nowhere near the time span you're talking about. 27 years!!! Shit man that's half a life time.
Must be more to it than you're letting on but I'm happy for you that you're making steps to resolve your differences.
Don't have any wise words for you but I'd say that whatever the situation is/was I'd want to know my father even for curiosity's sake...I'm going on 30 and I'm just getting to know my father after him being a stranger all my life. It feels good!
Hope it all works out well for you bro.
Must be more to it than you're letting on but I'm happy for you that you're making steps to resolve your differences.
Don't have any wise words for you but I'd say that whatever the situation is/was I'd want to know my father even for curiosity's sake...I'm going on 30 and I'm just getting to know my father after him being a stranger all my life. It feels good!
Hope it all works out well for you bro.
biteme said:
Great. Well, this act has not only opened up a communication with your father, it has also allowed you to become more open in other areas of your life that you may not even know yet. "It has set you free" so to speak. Clearing this "hurdle" has given you confidence that you may not have had before. You may not feel it now/yet, but it's there. It can give you strength in other areas of your life such as going on a job interview, meeting new people, taking a risk on a business venture, etc...etc... You've taken a big step! You are empowered.
Signed, Oprah
