Man its the other way aroung for me. I trust my girl but she has never trusted me for some reason and we have been together for 7 years this August but even now she hates me going out with my mates. It got to such an extent that I stopped going out with my m8s for over 2 years but I stated to feel lonely and depressed so recently I have started going out again on Fri and Sat nights.
She doesnt like going out and drinking and stuff whereas I do. She goes out cus she thinks im gonna cheat on her. I've never been able to convince her otherwise. When Im getting ready to go out she insults me and tells me im not as good as I think I am which is a fuckng annoyance to say the least. She instults me all the time before I go and even resorts to sleeping on the sofa to make her point that she aint impressed.
It gets so annoying at times that she thinks im gonna crack onto another girl. I have the opportunity almost every week but Im not looking to cheat on her! She even accuses me of cheating with m8s girlfriends which is a complete pain in the ass and has caused friction between myself and my m8s in the past.
She has very low self esteem which is the main point to here untrust towards me and ex-boyfriends have fucked her around in the past and even used to beat her up.
Man, I love her and all but sometimes I feel this problem is gonna split us up sooner or later. Sex aint really the same any more either... seems more like an ordeal lately than enjoyment. There is no longer any passion from her and so that has changed my attitude towards sex recently. Her jelously and lack of passion should drive me to be unfaithfull but still I wont and dont want to. But whats a man to do.
I also find my only good times now are at the GYM and out at the weekends...
I dont think my situation will change now since its been too long so I either live with it or do something now before im too bloody old
STUBS