I got so angry at the club tonight

[Nathan]

you should just develop a coke habit and spend all your money on strippers

your quality of life would be infinitely better

This is actually probably some of the best advice so far. I'm not even kidding. If this guy just starts doing drugs and other substances, he might make some calls he otherwise would not, which is exactly what he needs.

 

[the_clockwork]

lol @ encouraging him to do coke

 

[healother]

you have a fetish for never taking the advice that is given to you in your threads. knowing this, i will still give u advice in the hopes that you make something out of it, but if not, well, your loss.

be more assertive. dont just ask, lead them in or pull them in gentley but firmly.



also wait for the right song- a song that girls like to dance to. i mean it will be kind of hard to get a girl to dance during like..santeria as opposed to when my love, or california love comes on (which every club plays once a night, atleast)

thanks. i was given advice by a woman to just comeup and lightly place my hands on them and dance. i think im going to try that next time.

also when i go clubbing next I'm bringing wingmen and maybe a few wingwomen, And no more 18+ clubs!

There is a whole host of stuff that just isn't going right for you in a club. My advice? Stay out of that scene because it BOTHERS YOU.

There are plenty of other places to go to meet wimminz regardless of what your short or longterm objective may be.

I'd say the club and situation I was at in particular was bad. I'm told 18+ clubs tend to be more lame, with stuck up women, especially the one i was at. Also I was there solo.

If i go clubbing again, I'm going to go with some friends and hit up the 21+ places. Also might get more drunk so that im more ballsy and dont give a shit. that night i didnt have any alcohol in me at all.

But yeah, there are better places than clubs to meet women (but not to grind with them, lol). Nevertheless, thats not to say I'm not going to never try clubbing again, but rather I'm just going to be more careful about which ones i pick and make sure i go with people.

use your anger, steve! join me in the dark side, and we will rule the club galaxy side by side, together!!

(read up on social value )

lol, yeah, anger can be good for prompting a change in how you do things. its always good to find ways to be more successful and less angry.

There fixed it for you.

Dude you are coming off like a stalker. You need to go with some friends ( be nice if a few were women) and go to have a good time. Don't be afraid to dis a few, and don't be nice. If you're out to just bang bitches be a cocky asshole basically. Confidence and attitude go a long way.

its funny, i called those 2 girls bitches, and people were dissing me for that (i was dissing myself for that)
and now you're recommending to diss those women? lol Someone mentioned saying something like, "i didnt ask you to dance, i said you look fat in that dress", LOL.

Do you have any pics??? what kind of clothes were you wearing?

I have no pics
I was wearing khakis and a dark dressy button up shirt.

Darling,

I don't know if you read the news, but you can't swear at women if they do not like you. Not liking someone is everyone's right. It is the first ammendment. It sounds like clubs are not the best place for you to meet someone. You should change your strategy and try cafes, bars, or online dating.

yeah, im going to change up my strategy, thats for sure.

Another classic thread lol

Btw if you think you can find the love of your life in a nightclub then you're badly mistaken....

im not mistaken, i was just looking for some pickup practice and women that wanted to grind or makeout.

at least he's getting angry, instead of being all passive aggressive.
that means he may actually try to change

calling the women bitches thing is not cool

lol @ thread crappers. you get money advice on all your crappy threads and never take any of it. people actually want you to get laid, but you just make everyone look like an idiot for helping you in the first place by refuting everything that's said and doing the same thing over and over.

a.) your approach obviously sucks
b.) your physical style sucks
c.) both

i give you credit for going up to that many girls, most guys won't even do that. get some style, some skill and some balls and you might get results

i got to feel up and makeout with a girl the other night, so obviously im getting some results.

now you say that you give me credit for going up to that many girls but then you say that i need balls? arent they the same thing?

the anger is such a good sign you have no idea

so steve, did it piss you off that the girls went all rigid and just pretended you werent there?

did you feel insulted that they wouldnt acknowledge you on a human level, verbally, and instead just froze you out of the conversation until you felt awkward enough to leave, like some stray dog?

did it sting extra hard that the same girls smiled and draped themselves all over some other random guy that you believe youre as good as, or better than?

feeling a tad...irritated...yet?

yep, i was irritated.

Maybe this has been addressed, but....Why doesn't he have any male friends to go out with? Right now, he's "that guy." With other guys around him, he'd still probably be "that guy" but maybe they could be a little bit of a buffer for him? Mask it a little?

im going to make sure i go out with others the next time. the club is too dangerous a place to go alone (no fun being rejected AND lonely).

omg thats the exact vibe i got. One step closer to serial killer

*sigh* you women. way too paranoid.

Probably had nothing to do with left overs, I'm sure he thought he was gay. Guys don't approach guys in the club...unless it's a different type of club, then by all means approach some dude whose moves catch your eye healother.

i think this guy responded better around other dudes, i dont remember, too long ago now.

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Hell, I'm not sure you won't become a serial killer one of these days.

some of you women, always quick to point the finger at someone and accuse him of becoming something he wont.

i know some guys on here are worried about me becoming a serial killer, but it hurts more coming from the women, especially women i thought i was cool with.

If only you were good looking like me, you could be creepy and still pull tang.

I am goodlooking. if only that was enough.

i never called girls bitches, tho. thats classless. what i said was "baby, what i meant was...you look FAT in that dress", and then when they started going bananas at me, id give them a crooked smile and say something like "i tell you what. ill LET you suck my cock...but only after i fuck you up the ass"

press my buttons, ill fucking press yours lol

anyway im a tree hugging hippy now, i dont care what chicks do to me in clubs. i just laugh because i have hotter chicks waiting all over the city

lol, so I'm not the only one who has insulted women who rejected me. I dunno if i should insult them period even if i do it in a classy way. whats the point of it? it will piss them off just the same right?

Healother/Steve ............

... But what did you change for? Pussy? Come on lets be real here. Even pussy isn't gonna magically make you happy if you ain't being honest with yourself. ................
...... If you aren't happy with yourself, you can bet your ass no one else will be.

I think in order to learn that pussy doesnt make me happier, I at least need to get pussy first.
Also, I agree on the part that I need to be happy with myself in order for others to be. So I will try to do things every day that make me happy, so that im at least somewhat cheerful when i go out.

SPIN was a haunt of mine for the last year when we used to get VIP every weekend, that place is alright. You don't strike me as a dance club goer, go somewhere that has a dance floor but somewhere that isn't ALL dancing. Downtown isn't scary, just gotta get used to it, Valentinos is a cool place in South Saint Paul.. I brought Kakdiesel there lol funny story.. But yea stay away from shit clubs like star gate, way more a chance of getting mugged in that neck of the woods then downtown to be honest. Rice Street sucks

SPIN, ive been there, a few years ago. the women were just as stuck up there too! maybe if i went there again though with more experience that i have now, id do better.

Clubs are fun cuz you can grind with women while dancing. I am trying to get used to downtown more. I went there a couple times this last month. I'm going to try valentino's sometime, I heard that place was good.

Ironically I live pretty close to Rice street, LOL, but up north on it more. the closer you get towards the city on Rice, the worse it gets.
The Hogsbreath on Rice street is a nice bar though, dance floor too.

 

[manny78]

I was dead serious when I suggested ravin' and rollin'....

 

[BNG]

The correct response is " I said, You look fat in those pants!" LOL and you thought I wanted to dance?" Not that this will work or get you laid but the look on her face will make you laugh.

If you put the pussy on a pedestal it owns you, simple as that. I'll say it again, go with friends, some of which should be women, dance with the friends. If you look like your desperate, you are desperate. If you look like you have the approval of another woman then the "bitches" don't have to make a decision, someone else already approves of you, and if they are acting flirty half the time a competitiveness comes out. If it does,...What ever you do.....DON'T abandon you female friend!...take them both home or whatever but if you let the new arrival in, in place of the other one to fast... she is in control of you. You have to be in control a bit, show her your not going to dump the other chick just because she showed up. Let her know that "IF" you hook up with her she should know you generally go out with more than one at a time unless things get serious.

 

[Smurfy]

"just looking for some that want to grind or makeout"

I think your only chance involved having this printed onto the front of a t-shirt

 

[the_clockwork]

"just looking for some that want to grind or makeout"

I think your only chance involved having this printed onto the front of a t-shirt

hahahha

 

[TanOsaurus]

Definitely bring the wingman, next time....

Seriously though, you should've left the Club after the first 15 minutes of rejection & cooled off at the titty bar the rest of the night.

 

[fistfullofsteel]

clubs can be difficult because it's hard to have a conversation and the women have their super bitch cunt shields at a maximum. they go mostly by looks alone. dressing like you have lots of cash can definitely help.

 

[the_clockwork]

OMG he said CUNT!