I got a problem??? PLEASE HELP

[conundrum]

Well here it is ...I hope this is the right forum...

I'm 31 and I have a 21 year old gf ..just turned 21 in March...anyways....she is just starting to get her wings drinking wise and I am over that phase in my life...I mean I understand it but I'm over it and don't want to deal with it anymore...I have a brother 4 years younger than me and dealt with it then too...and I've also been in the bar industry since I was 20...so I'm all set with dealing with drinking wings...any ways...I work every weekend...AT THE BAR..and she goes out with her friends ...no big deal right?...I come home and she in my bed ready to go..I know you know what I mean.....well the past few weekends I've come home and she's been married to the porslin (forgive my misspelling)...I don't like ..I've told her many times ...I care about her but I'm not going to put up with this!!

My question is what should I do??? Yes, I know there is a significant age differance but I try to educate her on my drinking experience and she does not want to listen...(I guess neither would I ....cause I didn't listen either)..I just don't want to go through having my gf get her drinking wings.....

PLEASE HELP...

 

[bw1]

Hold her hair back so she don't puke in it

 

[layinback]

you guys are at two different stages in life.

A. deal with it, best as you can.

B. move on and find someone who is more mature \ settled.

 

[conundrum]

I know ....believe I know ....but I believe in time and place ...and she happened to be in the right place at ther right time for me right now....right now its convient for me and she's the most low maitenance girl I've ever dated....

 

[conundrum]

she also the most aggressive girl ...sexually ...I've ever dated....and I've dated women 7 years older than me...WOMEN IN THEIR SEXUAL PRIME....I enjoy her company ..but its the little things that get to me..

 

[puddlemonkey]

Low maintenance? She's a keeper!!!!!!!!

 

[puddlemonkey]

She doesn't have a penis does she?

 

[conundrum]

She doesn't have a penis does she?

lol...nope I'm sure of it...

 

[bw1]

She doesn't have a penis does she?

Has to, there are no low maintenance women

 

[conundrum]

Has to, there are no low maintenance women

Nope..like I said before...she's not experieced in the sack ..so it makes me look like a king..... go figure....usually if it wasn't for bad luck I wouldn't have any....but I got lucky with this one....

 

[ponyfitness]

You can still hit it from behind if she's bent over the bowl. What's the issue?

 

[silverstar1025]

you guys are at two different stages in life.

A. deal with it, best as you can.

B. move on and find someone who is more mature \ settled.

Yeah what he said!

 

[rsnoble-im-back]

Personally I would plow her ass while she was passed out.

 

[crazyjoe]

Personally I would plow her ass while she was passed out.

perv! I would too!

 

[needtogetarmy]

you guys are at two different stages in life.

A. deal with it, best as you can.

B. move on and find someone who is more mature \ settled.

what he said!

 

[hanselthecaretaker]

she also the most aggressive girl ...sexually ...I've ever dated....and I've dated women 7 years older than me...WOMEN IN THEIR SEXUAL PRIME....I enjoy her company ..but its the little things that get to me..

Nope..like I said before...she's not experieced in the sack ..so it makes me look like a king..... go figure....usually if it wasn't for bad luck I wouldn't have any....but I got lucky with this one....

So which one is it? Usually it'd be safe to call sexually aggressive girls "experienced".

 

[Megalomaniac]

.....kick up the beat...







sorry, had to

 

[Spartacus]

a porslin dildo?

 

[binö]

2001 and you don't even have 200 posts?
wtf step up your post game

 

[Basic_wonder]

I was in the same boat, give it a year and it calms down some, just gotta get it into her mind that drinking is about having fun and not getting super sick ....

 

[conundrum]

So which one is it? Usually it'd be safe to call sexually aggressive girls "experienced".

No, I wouldn't say that a women who is sexually aggressive is experienced....I would say that a sexually aggressive women is not afraid to go after what she wants....also, women who are sexually aggressive, I find, tend to have more confidence in themselves and are comfortable with the relationship that they're in therefore are not worried about rejection.