I found out this morning…

[superqt4u2nv]

That my last living grandfather passed away, not sure if it cause I am at work or what but I haven’t cried. I just feel kinda numb right now. When I found out about my mothers mom passing away I was sobbing I dunno maybe it is cause my dad is also gone and I don’t have to see him go through this. The hardest part of my moms mother passing away was watching my mom grieve. I found out that my dad’s step mother the only grandmother from his side I have know is not doing well either.

 

[Gambino]

that sucks, very sorry to hear that!
RIP Grandpa QT

 

[feisty11975]

Sorry for your loss!

 

[ck2006]

I am sorry for your loss, my prayers go out to you and your family.

 

[jnevin]

I'm sorry for your loss QT. I never know what to say, so sorry.

 

[Lestat]

i'm sorry to hear it

 

[heatherrae]

That my last living grandfather passed away, not sure if it cause I am at work or what but I haven’t cried. I just feel kinda numb right now. When I found out about my mothers mom passing away I was sobbing I dunno maybe it is cause my dad is also gone and I don’t have to see him go through this. The hardest part of my moms mother passing away was watching my mom grieve. I found out that my dad’s step mother the only grandmother from his side I have know is not doing well either.

I'm sorry SuperQT. =-( I only have one grandparent left, too. I'm sorry for your loss.

Never feel bad about the way that you grieve with one death as opposed to another. It all depends on the situation. When I was at my mom's funeral, I had to deliver the eulogy, make sure things went right, etc. I couldn't break down at the funeral. My grandfather died the same month and I was hysterical at the funeral. It isn't that I loved one and not the other, it is just situational.

You are at work. it is UNDERSTANDABLE that you would not break down at work.

Keep your chin up cutie.

 

[Cutiebaby]

Wow hun, I am sorry for your loss.
I was "numb" when my grandfather passed away.It took me a while to open up to the concept that he was gone. I passed by the grief stage and it was turned into anger and stupidity. Of course I was 15 at the time so I was more into drinking the grief away..Be careful and allow yourself to go through stages!

 

[Ilk]

That my last living grandfather passed away, not sure if it cause I am at work or what but I haven’t cried. I just feel kinda numb right now. When I found out about my mothers mom passing away I was sobbing I dunno maybe it is cause my dad is also gone and I don’t have to see him go through this. The hardest part of my moms mother passing away was watching my mom grieve. I found out that my dad’s step mother the only grandmother from his side I have know is not doing well either.

Aww.. sorry to hear that qt...

Its a normal reaction, Happens to many, don't let it get to you...

My thoughts are with you hun

 

[puddlemonkey]

I'm sorry

 

[Gymgurl]

((((hugs))))

 

[fistfullofsteel]

may peace be upon your grandpa. sorry to read about the bad news.

 

[superqt4u2nv]

Thanks all for your kind words still have not shed a tear. I think it will hit me when I see the rest of my family. I am kinda kicking myself I hadn't seen him in over a year I didn't go to that side of the familes Christmas this year I totaly forget what I was up to then but yeah bummed that it has been so long since I seen him.

 

[jh1]

Hug ?

 

[heatherrae]

Dont beat yourself up cutie. Life is like a blink of an eye for those in heaven, and then all his family will be rejoined.

 

[javaguru]

Thanks all for your kind words still have not shed a tear. I think it will hit me when I see the rest of my family. I am kinda kicking myself I hadn't seen him in over a year I didn't go to that side of the familes Christmas this year I totaly forget what I was up to then but yeah bummed that it has been so long since I seen him.

Don't have regrets QT, I feel for you. Remember the last moments you had together and don't beat yourself up.

 

[the_clockwork]

sorry to hear that qt..
i wish you and your family the best

 

[Sassy69]

Awwww D I'm so sorry for your loss. We all process the responses to news like that in different ways and they are never the same. I think its a beautiful thing when people can live a full life and things are "as they should be" even though the loss is painful. But I really believe that the person is just going on to a different place and they are still with you and aware of your feelings and thoughts.

The important thing I think is to be with your family and share in the memories and emotions. Let yourself deal with it as you do and don't feel like you "should" feel or act a certain way. It is what it is. Its a loss. A reminder of our mortality. Watching and how other people are impacted and also feeling for them in their loss. And just processing all of it. There can be a shock aspect. There can be a thousand thoughts that run through your mind at once. There can be a feeling of what you think you "should' feel. There can be an awareness of where you are at the moment and maybe you do or don't have the comfort or freedom to just let it all loose. And your mind is just trying to put it all together in a way that addresses all the stresses you are feeling.

Mark the memories, share with your family, be there for them and they are there for you and your Grandfather is with you all.

 

[SoKlueles]

sorry for your loss QT

 

[BNG]

Big hug from me.

Not every reaction will be the same, and you shouldn't feel bad about the grieving process. It may be you have not accepted his passing yet. Focus on the good times. I don't have any grandparents left, it bugs me that I didn't get to go to my Grandpa's funeral.(deployed to sandbox) Sometimes grieving takes some different stages.

 

[stilleto]

sorry to hear that.