I can't do it :(

[OMEGA]

Ok I seem to have a way with women when I go out, so its no too hard to meet seem nice good looking women who seems to be nice.

BUT


I can't do one night stands with them, I can't use them for their bodies, and I can't lie to them, and I can't just go out with a women unless i see my self being with here for a long time/ marry

it really sucks

everytime I see a woman I see a fathers daughter, or a mother to be one day, and my heart can't use them as a means to an end

when I see groupies, or women who live from one man to the next, and who use there looks and ways which are temporary as a means of power of others I get this gross feeling , and I feel sorry for them, compassionate pity almost.....

 

[Olsen Twins Banger]

u are joking rihgt

 

[OMEGA]

no

 

[The Terminator]

Ok I seem to have a way with women when I go out, so its no too hard to meet seem nice good looking women who seems to be nice.

BUT


I can't do one night stands with them, I can't use them for their bodies, and I can't lie to them, and I can't just go out with a women unless i see my self being with here for a long time/ marry

it really sucks

everytime I see a woman I see a fathers daughter, or a mother to be one day, and my heart can't use them as a means to an end

when I see groupies, or women who live from one man to the next, and who use there looks and ways which are temporary as a means of power of others I get this gross feeling , and I feel sorry for them, compassionate pity almost.....

That attitude might keep you celibate for awhile...

 

[Pamela]

You will make some lucky woman a good husband.

 

[JBRO]

hey chicks, heres that guy you were looking for!

 

[F117A Active Stealth]

Ok I seem to have a way with women when I go out, so its no too hard to meet seem nice good looking women who seems to be nice.

BUT


I can't do one night stands with them, I can't use them for their bodies, and I can't lie to them, and I can't just go out with a women unless i see my self being with here for a long time/ marry

it really sucks

everytime I see a woman I see a fathers daughter, or a mother to be one day, and my heart can't use them as a means to an end

when I see groupies, or women who live from one man to the next, and who use there looks and ways which are temporary as a means of power of others I get this gross feeling , and I feel sorry for them, compassionate pity almost.....

I somewhat feel the same way, but not for the exact same reasons. I feel that to have one night stands with women is meaningless. Sure it satisfies the physical need, but the emotional need to have a woman by your side who loves you is not there...

 

[Fonz]

Ok I seem to have a way with women when I go out, so its no too hard to meet seem nice good looking women who seems to be nice.

BUT


I can't do one night stands with them, I can't use them for their bodies, and I can't lie to them, and I can't just go out with a women unless i see my self being with here for a long time/ marry

it really sucks

everytime I see a woman I see a fathers daughter, or a mother to be one day, and my heart can't use them as a means to an end

when I see groupies, or women who live from one man to the next, and who use there looks and ways which are temporary as a means of power of others I get this gross feeling , and I feel sorry for them, compassionate pity almost.....

One day out on the town...take your pick Barcelona or Madrid and you won´t care....you´ll be having the time of yiur life.

Fonz

 

[Raina]

I think that's a personal decision. If you aren't comfy with it, then don't do it. But you never know-- maybe something will happen and you'll meet someone and it won't seem so wrong.

 

[IvanOffelitch]

Ok I seem to have a way with women when I go out, so its no too hard to meet seem nice good looking women who seems to be nice.

BUT


I can't do one night stands with them, I can't use them for their bodies, and I can't lie to them, and I can't just go out with a women unless i see my self being with here for a long time/ marry

it really sucks

everytime I see a woman I see a fathers daughter, or a mother to be one day, and my heart can't use them as a means to an end

when I see groupies, or women who live from one man to the next, and who use there looks and ways which are temporary as a means of power of others I get this gross feeling , and I feel sorry for them, compassionate pity almost.....

It's called having a conscience and morals, which is a good thing. Don't be down about it.

It's nice to see there's other men out there who don't regard women merely as penis parking.

K for you dood.
*edit*....after I spread it around first

 

[gonelifting]

I understand what you`re saying BUT Why do you think that the woman would be "cheated" with a one night stand? Of course there are women that would want more than that but there are a lot that would just want the sex as well. They may not be looking to get "involved" or a long term commitment etc.

So you would`nt really be misleading anyone if you were to have sex with an adult with the intentions of a one night stand. What I`m trying to say is not all women want to marry you if they have sex with you.

 

[Gymgurl]

Gonelifting.....you have got a good point

 

[OMEGA]

hmm?

well for me I feel like a part of me try's to bond on to the other, and I think everytime you share something speacial of that nature a piece of you goes with that person

but that MAY be just me

 

[ZKaudio]

i smell a nervous breakdown

 

[Deleted member 33117]

I understand what you`re saying BUT Why do you think that the woman would be "cheated" with a one night stand? Of course there are women that would want more than that but there are a lot that would just want the sex as well. They may not be looking to get "involved" or a long term commitment etc.

So you would`nt really be misleading anyone if you were to have sex with an adult with the intentions of a one night stand. What I`m trying to say is not all women want to marry you if they have sex with you.

Right. I would love nothing more than to meet the right woman, fall in love with her and get married. Its something I desire more than almost anything else.

However, I love sex, and have needs. If a woman wants to fuck me, then hey we are fullfilling each other's needs. I have a moral delima about not getting her off though. If a woman doesn't cum, then I feel like I used her, but otherwise, you both got what you wanted, so what is the problem?

 

[big4life]

There is nothing wrong with that omega. It's all about being comfortable in your own skin. You live your life by your own rules, and as long as you're not hurting others or yourself then you're ok.

I can't see myself going off with someone I don't have an emotional connection with, that's just the way I am. It doesn't mean that my way is any better or worse than another person's. It's what I am comfortable with.

 

[kho]

sometimes i feel like that, but then i end up hitting it anyway. oh well, its not my wife to be.

 

[BileStew]

Ok I seem to have a way with women when I go out, so its no too hard to meet seem nice good looking women who seems to be nice.

BUT

I can't do one night stands with them, I can't use them for their bodies, and I can't lie to them, and I can't just go out with a women unless i see my self being with here for a long time/ marry

it really sucks

everytime I see a woman I see a fathers daughter, or a mother to be one day, and my heart can't use them as a means to an end

when I see groupies, or women who live from one man to the next, and who use there looks and ways which are temporary as a means of power of others I get this gross feeling , and I feel sorry for them, compassionate pity almost.....

We found Tuc's alter!!!

 

[calveless wonder]

you're viewing things as if the woman has no interest in the one night stand.....

of course as a man, more often than not, you're gonna have to initiate it but it's not like you're putting a gun to their head. Women love sex, too....and most good looking women are too stupid to deserve LTR status.

the woman is just as responsible for a one night stand.

There's a difference between something consensual and manipulation. If you are against manipulating girls, that's fine...but don't cheat yourself out of good pussy if the chick wants to fuck.

 

[strider364]

My friend, it is hard to live by the decsions of your heart, but it speaks to you wisely, follow it my brother.

 

[GoldenDelicious]

OMEGA your decency speaks well of you, although as others have said not all relationships between men/women are about getting married

hopefully you will find a woman who is very up front with you and says "i like you as a person, but all i want is sex right now and thats it, no strings attached for either of us" and maybe youll be able to get comfortable with the idea

on the other hand your current attitude is very conductive towards you being a very good and loyal partner, and so the above scenario might spoil that

cheers mate

 

[MFMan]

Bro you are being to sincere. Honestly, who gives a shit about their feelings and wants? Women in general are pychotic and wouldn't think twice about screwing you over. So who gives a shit about what they think or want. As far as I am concerned women have been put on this planet for one reason. To fuck up men's lives. You have to jade yourself. Practice over and over of feeling nothing for the parasites. Assholes always win. Don't know why or how, but they always do. Sure they are somebodys daughter, sister, etc... but God still put a hole between their legs for something. I have reached the point where I could give two shits about what women think of me. I played the part of the shy nice guy only to get beat out by some other prick who had more confidence or nerve to talk to the bitch. Heed this advice. The less respect you treat women with, the more respect you'll get. Fuck em all. Don't be concerned about using them. They wouldn't think twice of fucking you over. So why not get to them first?

 

[Dial_tone]

I can handle the "fuckin part" of one-night stands but my thing is if I like them enough to sleep with them once, I like them enough to sleep with them ten times. I wouldn't not call someone back after the first night unless they just totally did something weird.

 

[Fonz]

I think that's a personal decision. If you aren't comfy with it, then don't do it. But you never know-- maybe something will happen and you'll meet someone and it won't seem so wrong.

Get Raina to teach you her feminine tricks.

hehehehe...

Fonz

 

[Taps]

I respect this outlook, but I think it's somewhat immature and illogical.

 

[cccp]

i don't want to read replies of other people, because I don't care of thier opinions. All All I care about is ...well it's not somethoing these little biches can understand. so fuck off. j/k.

 

[cccp]

wow! did I get fucked up last night or what? I don't remember any of that crap I posted last night. gotta stop drinking

 

[ChefWide]

Virgin.

 

[Deleted member 33117]

Virgin.

I was thinking the same thing. Once he gets his first piece, his attitude will change.

 

[PIGEON-RAT]

if you're always looking for a chick to marry, you will face a lot of disappointment. you just have to realize that most girls you date are just life experiences when the relationship is over and done with. you can still be respectful and have fulfilling relationships even if they weren't meant to last.

 

[RADAR]

nothing like helping a gal out,and she will let you know if you're using her,because you will probably get something like this...(my sample) OHH!!! God "! RADAR don't sttoopppp!!! see! nothing like doing a good deed!


RADAR

 

[JuicePimp]

I respect this outlook, but I think it's somewhat immature and illogical.

Actually, I was going to say the exact opposite. I think it is a more mature outlook. As you get older, you are less concerned with getting your next piece as you are with things like long term happiness.

 

[OMEGA]

um I have had some woderfull interactions

but my heart got involved with this German girl, I think it was my first brush with Love

so after that it has proven difficult to be with women just for "fun" I have tried.........


also I had a one night stand once and I felt AWFULL and I cheated on someone while at it a double wammy.......

that will be the first and last time I do any of the two
and overall I was ashamed at my self for doing it for something inside of me said not too the whole time, and I still did it, and its proven hard to forgive my self


"the narrow path" in life is more narrow than I evenr thought it to be......


I say this with a shred of happiness for it makes me more sure of an internal mechanism that tells us whats good, and I choose to not ignore it again................



also every ex groupie, bar fly, womanizer, stud etc........

has told me one universal in their old lonely age.......

"that they wish they never did those things, and that they wasted time, energy, and hurt themselves and others"


they siad this in more or less words and me being a youngen' I will listen to their experince and the voice inside of me that says no

I have to say GOD has had a major factor as well, but I have never been very religiuos, but I know it to be a motivating force that compells me out of love and respect for humanity, not fear or a heavanly place, I could care less if I go out in a poof of smoke never to be consciuosce again, I cannot oppress or use my brothers and sisters of humanity for my own ends even if they hate me for it for explaining why........