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i asked... got TURNED DOWN... ego destruction!!!

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see, now i am reminded of why i do not ask people out... i know some of you say it's nothing being turned down but it sucks... it makes you think you are not good enough...

the shocker, i didnt even see it coming.. honestly, this chick always seems to find her way to me, we hang out and talk a lot... i thought nothing of it.. and then i hear "i'm crazy swamped this weekend"...

blindsided!!!
 
If all she said was that she was swamped this weekend, talk to her again and ask about next weekend or something.
 
fuck that, i heard no once... thats more than enough for me... i'll sit home waiting for the eagles game.. watching 2 dvd's... ah, the life of an inshape 29 year old man child.
 
You might not be out of the running yet bro. She could have been telling the truth. Imagine that eh? :) Good luck.
 
what did you say to her? you should have asked, "What's making you so busy that she can't spend an evening with a good looking gentleman such as myself? IN A JOKING VOICE OF COURSE. Don't forget to through in a smile to sell it more.

It's an 80% NO world. Even John Paul Getty said, I was wrong a lot more than I was right, but I was right big and wrong small.

If you makes you feel better I am trying to get into a chick's pants but she has a butt ugly bf. I usually don't mess with a chick with a bf but I don't give two shits about that clown. She constantly reminds me that she has a bf, but it goes in one ear and out the other. I file it under, "NOT GIVING A SHIT."

Females are shy too, don't forget that. If a fat slob troll pulled in a girl like the one I'm trying to mess around with then you can surely pull it off too.

Let me ask you a question if the girl was really ugly or just average and you asked her out just for the hell of it, would it bother you? Probably not. I know rejection is tough, but you have to keep going. True failure is in not trying.
 
fistfull... you know what that girl said to me??? first, she lifted up her shirt.... showed me this big tatoo that said NY G FAN!!! and then she smiled... oh my god, that gap killed me....

if only i were a giants fan...

actually, i couldnt get a read on the turn down... i was shocked it happened and then thought "hey, did she realize i was asking her out".... i dunno, ball is in her court.. maybe next week i'll just ask her what she's up to on the weekend and if she says nothing then MAYBE i'll ask again... but otherwise, one turn down is one too many.
 
madbomber31 said:
see, now i am reminded of why i do not ask people out... i know some of you say it's nothing being turned down but it sucks... it makes you think you are not good enough...

the shocker, i didnt even see it coming.. honestly, this chick always seems to find her way to me, we hang out and talk a lot... i thought nothing of it.. and then i hear "i'm crazy swamped this weekend"...

blindsided!!!
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You scratched your ass when you asked, didn't you.

Even if she is truly busy this weekend, the least she could have said if she is interested is 'maybe next weekend'. Move on MB.
 
If she doesn't give you a counter offer for another time then the signs aren't good, but fuck her. She probably has a huge fucking ego and thinks she's all that and a bag of chips plus the dip and a bottle of 7'up. She must be orginally from NJ.
 
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strider364 said:



I agree, at least you went through with it. That in itself is a victory.
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To bad I haven't been preaching what I say.:(
 
strider364 said:


Same here bro. I know the feeling.:bawling:
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I'll walk around campus and get head to toe stare, I won't do shit! Then In class I will play the staring games, and I won't do shit again.


Jesus, I really am a pussy. I'll redeem myself on Tuesday.
 
The things that sucks, is after the fact of getting checked out, I then think "I should have smiled" or " I should have said hello."

I just freeze up.
 
ya know, despite the bruised ego i am glad i asked.. i do wish i asked her what she had planned this weekend first, good idea nav.

and fistfull... if she was all that, a bag of chips, AND a cola... i'm missin out!!!! now i'm really hurt.
 
Ok ok, my tip that works for me. DO NOT THINK OF WHAT HER ANSWER WILL BE. In most cases you might have already convinced yourself that she is going to say no, which will cause you to fuck up even more. You can laugh at me but I look at her and I think about her best body part and how much I want a piece of that. My hormones take over and at this point you can't stop yourself from talking to her. You have to do it controlled though, not with your tongues sticking out. :p In essence, KEEP YOUR EYES ON THE PRIZE.

You have professional athletes who will put their own health on the line and maybe even death because they are so focused on the prize that they will almost do anything to have it.
 
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vinylgroover said:

Even if she is truly busy this weekend, the least she could have said if she is interested is 'maybe next weekend'. Move on MB.
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Exactly. Dude, if you ask her out and she says she`s too busy, and doesn`t say maybe someother time. Screw it. You made your intentions clear, if she`s interested she should say something. There are plenty of other hot girls.
- It would definetly suck if you knew her, even more if you liked her. But generally, you don`t know them at the time you ask them out. If she says no. Fine. It`s not the end of the world. I speak from personal experience :)

I remember one time I saw a really hot girl working in sears(right by the exit). I had to go in and out several times to load stuff in my truck. She kept looking at me and smiling. So when I was done I went over to her and said hi. Asked her her name(Nicole), then asked her if she was busy later.
"I get off at 9"(not "I don`t get off untill 9").
I thought, great! Asked her if she wanted to go catch a movie.
"I can`t, I have to study for exams."
:confused: I was fairly sure she was in college but couldn`t understand why she told me when she gets off if she wasn`t interested(and why the hell she kept looking at me). So I figured she was telling the truth. I asked if she was clear for saturday.
"I can`t. I have to study all weekend."
So I said "Okay, you were worth the shot." Then walked.
- That`s about as far as I think you should go. If she was interested, she could have offered another time. Though, I`ll admit this one confused me a little...
 
madbomber31 said:
see, now i am reminded of why i do not ask people out... i know some of you say it's nothing being turned down but it sucks... it makes you think you are not good enough...

the shocker, i didnt even see it coming.. honestly, this chick always seems to find her way to me, we hang out and talk a lot... i thought nothing of it.. and then i hear "i'm crazy swamped this weekend"...

blindsided!!!
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Don't worry bro, it is just a numbers game. You will get the next one. Just don't give up.

ps -- pay no mind to this one that 'blindsided' you and make sure not to give her any attention. If you still want her, do this and she will come back. Guaranteed.

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eh, it's not like i invested a lot of time, effort, or more importantly money... i was just sure i was getting the signs... smiles, light touches, constantly hangin out with me and talkin about things that people talk about when they are learnign about other people... i dunno, i'm not worried about it but i just dont like being told no...
 
One of the major tenants of intelligence gathering:
Know your enemies schedule.


You'll find that all the intelligence (and oddly Art of War) rules apply well to dating.
 
Code said:
One of the major tenants of intelligence gathering:
Know your enemies schedule.


You'll find that all the intelligence (and oddly Art of War) rules apply well to dating.
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I'm very curious what you think will happen in Iraq over the next few months. Can you share some ideas? :)
 
Testosterone boy said:


I'm very curious what you think will happen in Iraq over the next few months. Can you share some ideas? :)
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I personaly couldn't tell you anything more than conjecture & speculation re: Iraq.
 
madbomber31 said:
fuck that, i heard no once... thats more than enough for me... i'll sit home waiting for the eagles game.. watching 2 dvd's... ah, the life of an inshape 29 year old man child.
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LMAO! I've got the same problem. I have more pride than I've ever had at a time when I can least afford it.
 
Q Modo said:


He`s lying! He KNOWS.
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Actually, we'll try the tactic first proposed by the JCS the first time around, which was abandoned for Schwartzkopf/Powell's plan.

It will happen in two months, during the new moon.
 
madbomber31 said:
ya know, despite the bruised ego i am glad i asked.. i do wish i asked her what she had planned this weekend first, good idea nav.

and fistfull... if she was all that, a bag of chips, AND a cola... i'm missin out!!!! now i'm really hurt.
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bro,

you gotta remember that women are ALL victims of the
estrogen roller coaster...
if aunt flo is visiting this weekend of course she dont want
shit to do with you...
the key is to figure out a woman's cycle...
about a week before rag time=ovulation=extra f'in horny...
the downside is that you better double wrap your boy
if you dont want to be a daddy...
and it dont have to be about sex either...
she will be more receptive to any kind of date, so dont
give up man, maybe your timing was just fucked...
 
Code said:


Actually, we'll try the tactic first proposed by the JCS the first time around, which was abandoned for Schwartzkopf/Powell's plan.

It will happen in two months, during the new moon.
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Now that IS interesting. Two months......hmmmmmmm. Better make that a HMMMMMMMMMMM.
 
Golfer18 said:



I'll walk around campus and get head to toe stare, I won't do shit! Then In class I will play the staring games, and I won't do shit again.


Jesus, I really am a pussy. I'll redeem myself on Tuesday.
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LOL I get the head to toe shit alot to bro, and the staring games, and Ive always been a puss about it till lately, but look at my thread, itll make you feel better
 
supernav said:
>"Okay, you were worth the shot."

Totally bad delivery dude.

She's a hot chick, so she doesn't need to resort to going out with Strangers she's met 45 seconds ago. She thinks of herself more highly than that. Like she should.

There's no substitution for "wooing". It's a lost art form i swear. You should walk up and say hi and just talk to her. Make HER do the conversation. You ask simple direct questions that involve more than a yes or no answer. Keep the conversation about learning more about "her". Make her open up. Then tell little fragments about you. Seem "down to earth". The key is to make her feel comfortable with you, warm, and genuinely interested in you. Be "cool" and make little observations about the surroundings, her clothing, etc.

Keep your body relaxed. Look into her eyes. Be suave. Make HER want YOU. Then do this...act like you're about to go. Well I gotta go, i got to the run to the gym, whatever. Then at the last second, when she's worried you're not even going to leave a # or something --- go for the kill asking what she's doing this weekend, or go to some club ou already talked to her about. Blah blah blah.

Just practice in clubs first, and use the same pickup method. I always say "pickup lines are for losers..pickup CONVERSATIONS are for winners".

Women like to be wooed, and picked up by a strong, confident, cool, unique, demure and interesting personality. Your job is to present that. Even if you sit at home most nights and eat pizza and drink beer on the couch.

-= nav =-
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LOL. Okay bro, I admitt I could have handled it better. But I didn`t overly care if she said yes or no. She was hot, yes. But so are alot of other girls. I`m hardly afraid to talk to someone. I actually was busy, and I didn`t have the time to talk to her for half an hour before asking her what she was doing later. I thought she was interested, so I asked. I guess I was wrong, but that`s hardly a once in a lifetime thing.
I told her that just incase she felt bad about saying no. I hate having to come up with an excuse for not going out with a girl and always feel bad about it. So I wanted to let her know the rejection wouldn`t kill me. :)
 
bro you never ask a bitch out, you just find yourself and her in an uncompromising situation that allows you to fuck the shit out of her, then she starts calling and asking you out!
 
Ok, first off I am your best friend so you must answer this question!

If a hot girl asked you out and you were busy would you make time so you could go out with her?

I'm guessing you would...and i would have trouble asking her out again. I would maybe try one more time but if she said she was busy one more time i'd just call it quits.

Secondly, she has Giants Tat?? BUDDY WHAT ARE YOU THINKING? Your kids will look retarted! Giants+Eagles = RETARDED!

Thirdly, Eagles will win hands down so you will at least have a happy weekend thinking these thoughts! Good luck on Monday!!
 
Golfer18 said:



I'll walk around campus and get head to toe stare, I won't do shit! Then In class I will play the staring games, and I won't do shit again.


Jesus, I really am a pussy. I'll redeem myself on Tuesday.
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glad im not the only one......:(
 
madbomber31 said:
see, now i am reminded of why i do not ask people out... i know some of you say it's nothing being turned down but it sucks... it makes you think you are not good enough...

the shocker, i didnt even see it coming.. honestly, this chick always seems to find her way to me, we hang out and talk a lot... i thought nothing of it.. and then i hear "i'm crazy swamped this weekend"...

blindsided!!!
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yeah tell me about it surely its time for girls to get with the the times and ask us out i'm sick of rejection and i aint getting any younger
 
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