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how would you get your msg that you are mad

foreigngirl

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across to a man without causing drama? I never really found a nice way, it always has to be with me throwing tantrums...
 
by walking up to the s.o.b and kickin him in the nuts....
no really i used to yell
but now i choose to ignore-maybe he'll go away!!!!!!
 
Angel said:
by walking up to the s.o.b and kickin him in the nuts....
no really i used to yell
but now i choose to ignore-maybe he'll go away!!!!!!
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even ignoring sometimes dont work. Then they get irritated WHY you ignore them
 
foreigngirl said:
even ignoring sometimes dont work. Then they get irritated WHY you ignore them
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i feel at peace instead of yelling...do they ever fuckin listen because you yell????
 
Angel said:
i feel at peace instead of yelling...do they ever fuckin listen because you yell????
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nope....and if you act normal and just say: yeah I'm mad cause of that and that, they dont care, cause you dont bug them and annoy them. Thats why I was wondering HOW would you be able to let them KNOW that something is really bothering you
 
GrandMaster said:
no, when u yell... it bounces off of us.
sac clinching should be more effective....
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I've been doing that for years and all it does is get me more and more upset. I dont want to get upset, but it seems that if I just say that I'm mad and keep on going around as nothing is bothering me - than it seems like I've been talking to the walls
 
i say what needs to be said then i ignore...really you get to a certain point where you wont even want to talk or yell any more cause they wont listen...well hopefully you dont.......i did and today i have been home alone and at peace.....he came home i said nothing and it felt good......had a good day too imagine that
 
it makes them even madder when you dont say anything
arguing with the rodent is like arguing with a stump
nothing you say or do is right
hes the only one thats right
 
be a woman... and TALK ABOUT IT!!!!
lol

we sometimes dont give 2 shits about y your mad. open your mouth and speak up....thats all i can honestly suggest
 
GrandMaster said:
be a woman... and TALK ABOUT IT!!!!
lol

we sometimes dont give 2 shits about y your mad. open your mouth and speak up....thats all i can honestly suggest
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but you guys always find a good reason (in your opinion only) why you did what you did and you are not reggretting it. We wanna see that you say - yes, sorry, I was wrong



Klu - just the same here....if I dont speak, my husband is mad why I dont, if I do speak, then I talk too much
 
right i think all men are like that...if i say any thing i am crazy lunitic botch blaa blaa blaa.......if i yell it is worse.....but if i am silent i get the you never talk about things with me maybe "if you came up to me and said hey hun when you do this it bothers me instead of yelling" blaa blaa f'n blaa.....lol
us girlie feelings dont matter expecially to the prideful...
and yes it is true we enjoy hearing sorry but after a few sorry's for the same reason it becomes a joke!
 
Set his pet on fire. Sleep with his best friend. Add Nair to his shampoo bottles... those are my usual tactics.
 
AAP said:
Set his pet on fire. Sleep with his best friend. Add Nair to his shampoo bottles... those are my usual tactics.
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the Nair is too funny...he wouldnt mind it - his hair is way too short :)
 
lol
i straight up admit i was wrong ( if and when-never happened tee-hee)
seriously, if im wrong, i say sorry, before theres conflic... and that whole " im not talking to u, im mad and u should know y" bullshit... ladies. get rid of that crap!
cuz when that shit gets pulled, i cant speak for other guys,.. but i dont give a shit! lol
i laugh at it, and go about my buisness... if things cant be discussed like humans.. then someones being immature, or its nothing worth making a scene over
 
If you yell and rant, even an argument that proves that you are 100% right gets lost in all the other dramatic shit....making it very easy for it to write you off as a raving lunatic and feel that we are right. The only...and I do mean ONLY effective way is to calmly walk up to us, get eye contact, and in a very normal voice say: "I'm upset, and the reason that I am upset is ______________." This is called being direct...I know that this is a foreign concept to most of your gender, but it really does work. Try it.
 
GrandMaster said:
lol
i straight up admit i was wrong ( if and when-never happened tee-hee)
seriously, if im wrong, i say sorry, before theres conflic... and that whole " im not talking to u, im mad and u should know y" bullshit... ladies. get rid of that crap!
cuz when that shit gets pulled, i cant speak for other guys,.. but i dont give a shit! lol
i laugh at it, and go about my buisness... if things cant be discussed like humans.. then someones being immature, or its nothing worth making a scene over
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ok, so every single one of you is basicly the same....
 
Too many people wind up getting more pissed off that their significant other isn't psychic and can't figure out what they're upset about. I'm against that whole "psychic" mindset in general.

You're either open and honest about your feelings (good or bad) or you drive yourself crazy being too scared to be yourself.
 
canadianhitman said:
If you yell and rant, even an argument that proves that you are 100% right gets lost in all the other dramatic shit....making it very easy for it to write you off as a raving lunatic and feel that we are right. The only...and I do mean ONLY effective way is to calmly walk up to us, get eye contact, and in a very normal voice say: "I'm upset, and the reason that I am upset is ______________." This is called being direct...I know that this is a foreign concept to most of your gender, but it really does work. Try it.
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thats what I did today and it felt good - I'm not upset and there was no drama. But still feel like he didnt get it
 
I've responded to "I shouldn't have to tell you what I'm thinking, you should know." with the reply "If I was a psychic, I could have seen what a nutjob you are and would have run the other way when I first met you". Seriously. (I had already decided to end it earlier that day)
 
canadianhitman said:
I've responded to "I shouldn't have to tell you what I'm thinking, you should know." with the reply "If I was a psychic, I could have seen what a nutjob you are and would have run the other way when I first met you". Seriously. (I had already decided to end it earlier that day)
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lmao....thats a good response
 
Tantrums! That's how you have to get your point across. If my S.O. threw a tantrum, this is what I would do: first, I would laugh at him; then I would say, Are you kidding me?; third, I would keep laughing.

I don't understand all of this: tantrums, withholding of sex, grudges. What happened to having an adult conversation? What happened to expressing your feelings (good or bad) in a mature manner?
 
nycgirl said:
Tantrums! That's how you have to get your point across. If my S.O. threw a tantrum, this is what I would do: first, I would laugh at him; then I would say, Are you kidding me?; third, I would keep laughing.

I don't understand all of this: tantrums, withholding of sex, grudges. What happened to having an adult conversation? What happened to expressing your feelings (good or bad) in a mature manner?
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What if your SO forgot your favorite condiment?
 
Just explain it to him clearly and argue it

Tell him you feel he has disrespected/ insulted you by doing/saying whatever it was and explain to him why it angers you. make it inmistakeable and clear
 
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