Please Scroll Down to See Forums Below
How were you caught?
- Thread starter Stefka
- Start date
DannoMight
New member
havent cheated so haven't got caught.
calveless wonder
New member
Never cheated on a girl....but been cheated on twice
First time i was cheated on when i was younger by a girl...i was talking to one of her friends and she basically slipped and let the cat out of the bag.
Most recent ex and the one i was with the longest.
Myspace.........i wasn't even on myspace at the time and she had her profile private...but i just had a very deep intuition some shit was going down. i knew some of her friends and was able to see comments she posted on different people's pages. Some of the comments were very sketchy...
eventually led me to the guy she was cheating on me with, and i saw pics of them together.
those images are fuckin imbedded in my memory
First time i was cheated on when i was younger by a girl...i was talking to one of her friends and she basically slipped and let the cat out of the bag.
Most recent ex and the one i was with the longest.
Myspace.........i wasn't even on myspace at the time and she had her profile private...but i just had a very deep intuition some shit was going down. i knew some of her friends and was able to see comments she posted on different people's pages. Some of the comments were very sketchy...
eventually led me to the guy she was cheating on me with, and i saw pics of them together.
those images are fuckin imbedded in my memory
Stefka said:
you sure they weren't his? jk
I caught my X on TV, red fucking handed.. tongue down the throat. I punched him in the mouth and I knocked his tooth out. the MF. he ended up with a "pass" though because it was part of his "job", but long story short.. he lied about the whole thing from the beginning.
hmmm. let me count the ways....i've got some classics....ever get busted by a fucking dog barking? i called my gf at the time from her best friends house. she recognized the fucking dogs bark. called the across the street neighbor and had her tell her what cars were parked in the driveway. i was circumstantially pwned.
all the whey
New member
Someone read her Pm's and K messages and told me. 
InquisitivePsyche
New member
Never cheated and never would. 
Not my character.
Not my character.
biteme said:
Go ahead pass judgment, you don't know jack about the whole of it. he couldn't press charges, he was physically trying to keep me from leaving, the only way I was able to get away was to punch him... it worked.
i had a TRO against this guy at one point.. he was a MF.
oh, and I'll add... I didn't give a rip about "getting even" it's never crossed my mind, I cared about being lied to. I trusted him.
S
Scentsofhumor
Guest
Never cheated, never will hang with cheaters, I dont glorify or take anthing but disgust from people who do. They have of lack of boundaries in their life, they usually are just trouble and will hurt people at the drop of a hat in their selfish pursuit of gratification. I would never hire or promote a person that has cheated either if it makes it to my desk
GoldenDelicious
New member
ive never cheated
however when you have multiple relationships with girls taht you said you couldnt meet up with because "you didnt feel like going out" (didnt feel like going out = another girl is coming over) i have some interesting tales lol
"golden you bastard why didnt you tell me the truth?!!?!!?" "it was the truth, it was a fucking euphemism!! who the hell doesnt feel like going out on saturday night?!!?!!"
however when you have multiple relationships with girls taht you said you couldnt meet up with because "you didnt feel like going out" (didnt feel like going out = another girl is coming over) i have some interesting tales lol
"golden you bastard why didnt you tell me the truth?!!?!!?" "it was the truth, it was a fucking euphemism!! who the hell doesnt feel like going out on saturday night?!!?!!"
InquisitivePsyche
New member
*Slowly raises hand.* LOL!GoldenDelicious said:
S
Scentsofhumor
Guest
GoldenDelicious said:
look BOSS!! De Greek! De Greek!!
InquisitivePsyche
New member
I agree. I believe most people do. Not all, but most.HumanTarget said:
Also - there are MANY other reasons minus infidelity, that people get divorced for.
calveless wonder
New member
caligirl said:
that's not true. I had a similar situation. Me and my girlfriend were both really drunk and had a terrible fight. We had a fight while we were out..and then came home and it started back up
She wanted to leave and i refused to give her purse and keys because she was wasted. She managed to get the keys and i wouldn't let her drive drunk. so she started punching me, throwing her shoes at me and eventually picked up a glass cup and threw it at my head. She literally looked possessed...it was only when i was on the ground bleeding and screaming in agony that she snapped out of it and tried to help
top of my head split wide open, i was bleeding everywhere...neighbors heard the commotion and called the cops. condo security came up...i was on the ground still
cops came, put in her cuffs....i had to beg them for about 15 minutes to let her go in the other room. i didn't want her going to jail...because she had no one to bail her out, except me...but they were ready to haul off her to jail
InquisitivePsyche
New member
Damn. Psycho woman. Throwing glass at your head?! Geeze..calveless wonder said:
S
Scentsofhumor
Guest
InquisitivePsyche said:
Well, as you know the average IQ is 100 (as a setpoint), so everyone does it, doesnt make it right, just makes it lowclass.
A higher standard of people actually do exist, who have morals and ethics
InquisitivePsyche
New member
Agreed. I never understood cheating. You don't want to be in a relationship? Just get out.. don't cheat and humiliate the other..Scentsofhumor said:
fistfullofsteel
Well-known member
not my style. i rather dump her and move onto the next one.
Unattractive people are less likely to cheat I believe. So they give themselves a badge of honor when the real reason is often that they are insecure and just happy to have someone. I think most people will cheat if they let themselves get put into certain circumstances, such as being under the influence of alcohol around the opposite sex and attractive women get hit on all the time.
InquisitivePsyche
New member
I guess I see this point. But, guys act like it's impossible to control themselves and from what I am told, that is not particularly true. Like the whole "blue balls," thing... how a guy says "Well you lead me on and so I couldn't stop," is BS. I know that isn't true.biteme said:
S
Scentsofhumor
Guest
InquisitivePsyche said:
Im committed for life, the walls are too high to scale to get out and I cant tunnel out.
But I will never cheat for I am in true love/psychosis
all the whey
New member
biteme said:
OMG!!
I think we know the same guy!
Because, surey there can't be that many guys who's wives don't give them the sekz.
S
Scentsofhumor
Guest
biteme said:
Yes, there will be no other woman for me and if she ever becomes like Christopher Reeves or similar God forbid. I will take care of her for life as she would for me.
I guess we just differ on the great things life can offer. I will never entertain another thought of any other woman. If she left me, then I will still not date, this is it. FIN
S
Scentsofhumor
Guest
HumanTarget said:
*note to self* dont leave HT alone with the chessboard when taking a piss
heavy_duty
New member
LOL you have very little experience. that's like healother saying he has never cheated
InquisitivePsyche said:Never cheated and never would.
jh1
New member
Never cheated.
Caught my wif cheating because she started accusing me of cheating, which I immediatley took as a huge indicator she was.
I did some sneaking around and found the proof. I confronted her about it, she said it wasn't anything but talking - and that it would stop. I figured out a way to keep an eye on the situation, and heard a voicemail she left him over a week later refering to him as 'lover'.
Caught my wif cheating because she started accusing me of cheating, which I immediatley took as a huge indicator she was.
I did some sneaking around and found the proof. I confronted her about it, she said it wasn't anything but talking - and that it would stop. I figured out a way to keep an eye on the situation, and heard a voicemail she left him over a week later refering to him as 'lover'.
heavy_duty
New member
why cant I red you?
where is your karma button?
where is your karma button?
Scentsofhumor said:
H
heatherrae
Guest
I always seem to find out they were cheating after I have already broken up with them. With my ex, I found bank statements where he gave her $350/week spending money and presents and things.
heavy_duty
New member
why would a bro need to cheat on HR?
hmmmmm----more to the story.
hmmmmm----more to the story.
H
heatherrae
Guest
Thanks. That is sweet. Some people are just cheaters. I don't cheat. I want that perfect relationship.heavy_duty said:
jh1
New member
tonyroma said:
Yeah, not real well, but I knew him.
He lives a few houses down from my one of my best bros... who is married to my wif's older sister. I wish I could get into all the details here.. other than the fact that he pwned me by fucking my wif... I fucking pwned his ass good...
His entire family... parents, grand parents, aunt, uncles, cousins, everyone at his place of work all found out about the fact that he was abusing cocaine and supplying my wif, the mother of my 2 y/o child, with cocaine whilest cheating on his long term g/f.... I made sure of that with the USPS...
GoldenDelicious
New member
youd make a great wednesday night. ill let you know when a gap opens up in the rosterInquisitivePsyche said:
GoldenDelicious
New member
if i had a gloryhole like yours id probably stay at home on saturday night too loljavaguru said:
GoldenDelicious
New member
lol youll laugh ill have at a conversation i had last night when i was breaking up with one of my girlfriends!Scentsofhumor said:
her: theres an expectation about what a guy like you is supposed to be like with a girl like me
me: what?! what do you mean, "guy like me"
her: you know what i mean. a guy like you. you greeks are all the same
me: wtfffff how fuckin racist are you! plz explain
her: (under breath) i knew id get totally fucked over
me: *glares*
her: greeks dont exactly have a good reputation you know
anyway bleebleebleeblablabla she got over it, but i put her on a sex ban for being a pain in the ass
stupid white chicks wtf
Longhorn85
New member
biteme said:
Fuck that, I'd take my chances and start over
Longhorn85
New member
Stefka said:
Did you confront him? What did he have to say for himself? Did you break up?
Longhorn85
New member
biteme said:
Of course I'm only hearing his side, but I can't understand why a woman would punish a man who decided to get married and raise a family by not giving him great sex.
Women like her help to justify why many men would rather be players than responsible fathers.
InquisitivePsyche
New member
That's fine. But it doesn't change the fact that I would never cheat. I know myself pretty well and that is definitely not the type of person I am. That's quite embarassing (IMO) if you're a cheater.heavy_duty said:
InquisitivePsyche
New member
Yeah - pass but thanks!GoldenDelicious said:
LOL. Great wed night. Wednesday... what makes Wed night great. You are funny.
sardonicone
New member
biteme said:Liar.
Everybody lies.
It's just a matter of what it is they will lie about, and to whom.
T
The Shadow
Guest
I was online paying the cell bill.
Bikini Mod
New member
HumanTarget said:
Just because you have such a cavalier attitude towards fidelity that doesn't mean that EVERYONE else does.
With my ex, the first time I didn't realize until I did a rewind years later. How many men do you know who are "too tired" to have sex with their wives out of the blue for seven months. The second time I looked into his gymbag for something and found toiletries and a towel that I had never seen. I bought all of that stuff. So when I called him on it. He made up some cock and bull story about how he decided one night to shower at the gym because he and his training partner decided last minute to go out after the gym. We were married for 11 years, together for 13 and had four children together. This man had NEVER showered at the gym in all the time I knew him.
It was a few weeks later that I found the hidden camera he had on me at home because "he was convinced" I was cheating. I still remember one discussion we had several weeks prior where he looked at me and said, "How can you possibly trust me THAT much?"
People who do not trust others are this way because they themselves are deceitful individuals.
I have been cheated on by two men who I loved very much yet I have ZERO trust issues with my husband. My husband had been cheated on by MANY women yet he has ZERO difficulty trusting me.
DannoMight
New member
I've been tempted but know she wouldn't cheat on me. But I do tease her of having drunk guys at her work hit on her.
heavy_duty
New member
I want to cheat but nobody wants to cheat with me
Bikini Mod
New member
biteme said:
Sorry but that arguement is WEAK.... "My wife wont give me any pussy so OF COURSE I have to cheat. I am only staying with her for the sake of the kids but will leave her as soon as they are out of high school. Of course, my oldest is only 7. So until then, can you give me YOUR PUSSY for free?"
If I had a dime for every asshole that perpetrated that line on me.
Of course, they all sorta forgot to leave the last coupla sentences out. LOL
sardonicone
New member
BIKINIMOM said:Sorry but that arguement is WEAK.... "My wife wont give me any pussy so OF COURSE I have to cheat. I am only staying with her for the sake of the kids but will leave her as soon as they are out of high school. Of course, my oldest is only 7. So until then, can you give me YOUR PUSSY for free?"
If I had a dime for every asshole that perpetrated that line on me.
I don't think it's weak at all if the other girl knows that relationship wise, there isn't much potential there.
IF I were to cheat, it would come with the caveat that anyone I cheated with would know that I was married, and that above all, my Child comes first.
That means, at least in my mind, staying married and doing the whole "happy home" schtick.
I've pulled that off quite well thus far; and hey, I've learned something, I actually DO love the girl.
InquisitivePsyche
New member
sardonicone said:
I'm glad my parents didn't do that. Most people who end up "staying marriages for the children," actually hurt the kids more in the long run.
My parents didn't get along and while I was devasted once they divorced, I learned quickly that if my parents are happier that way, makes less grief for everyone - including my brothers and I. Now, everyone is happy.
sardonicone
New member
InquisitivePsyche said:I'm glad my parents didn't do that. Most people who end up "staying marriages for the children," actually hurt the kids more in the long run.
My parents didn't get along and while I was devasted once they divorced, I learned quickly that if my parents are happier that way, makes less grief for everyone - including my brothers and I. Now, everyone is happy.
That's because your parents were weak.
I could do 15 years with just about anyone, and have it seem that I'm happy, and make sure the other person, for the most part, is happy.
It's not hard; people have been doing it for hundreds, if not thousands of years. Most marriages used to be pre-arrainged anyways, we're quite lucky to be in the society we are today, where you actually get to choose your mate.
ponyfitness
New member
Let's see, which story should I tell....
I was caught because I was with two girls at the same time, one knew, one didn't - decided to break up for good with one and she decided to track down the other and tell her everything. They ambushed me together one night after work. It was pretty disturbing but I learned my lesson.
Karma caught up with me when my long distance girlfriend seemed to be spending all of her time with another guy when I wasn't around during the week. I decided to see what was up and read her journal and got her email password. Found out it was not only that one guy but four others, so she was sleeping with up to three guys at once including me.
I think cheating is so commonplace these days it is ridiculous, which is why I'm never bothering to get married.
I was caught because I was with two girls at the same time, one knew, one didn't - decided to break up for good with one and she decided to track down the other and tell her everything. They ambushed me together one night after work. It was pretty disturbing but I learned my lesson.
Karma caught up with me when my long distance girlfriend seemed to be spending all of her time with another guy when I wasn't around during the week. I decided to see what was up and read her journal and got her email password. Found out it was not only that one guy but four others, so she was sleeping with up to three guys at once including me.
I think cheating is so commonplace these days it is ridiculous, which is why I'm never bothering to get married.
Longhorn85
New member
Stefka said:
Much worse than leaving some other biatches drawers in your car? Wow, you must have really been in love with him.
Guys get away with a lot of shit these days.
Its like those stories you always hear of guys being actually caught in the act: "baby, I know what this looks like, but trust me, I wasn't fucking her..."
Bikini Mod
New member
sardonicone said:
So then in your estimation if the guy treats his wife like shit and she subsequently doesn't feel particularly frisky towards him (as is very often the case when the woman wants to sleep with her man no longer) then if he decides to cheat it is justified?
Just askin.
sardonicone
New member
BIKINIMOM said:
Where did I state that? Can you provide the direct quote, or link to the quote, where I stated that?
biteme said:
And usually the biggest cheaters are the ones who say they would never do it in a million years.
seaking420
New member
Thats what I was thinking. I dont think everyone cheats, however more do than not. I have, and probably still would. I figure your only here once, so enjoy the ride. People will ask why do you cheat, just leave the person your with, your right to a point but the way I look at it is if you drive a corvette everyday for years and you get the opportunity to drive a ferrari once or a few times why not. Then you still have the vette at home, you get the best of both worlds. Its selfish, I know but thats me. Who know's' maybe one day Ill meet someone and I won't want to cheat on her.....
Maybe if you find your true soul mate you would never want to do that.
Similar threads
