whats your normal mode of pickup seems to me youre broadcasting too much high value beta stuff
personally i tell everyone im emotionally unavailable in the first place. its a nice filter - the really high quality girls and the absolute skanks are the only ones who dont listen
i havent told her shit actually, she just kinda takes things on her own, and cuddles and holds my arm as we walk, granted this is the second time ive see her in 4 yrs.
If you fuck her thats not helping your cause of pushing her away. Unless heatherrae is right and you suck shit in bed or something. that would actually work nicely to repel her from you.