How to fix a broken heart???

[Perfection]

Guys, this is the roughest thing I have ever went through. My girlfriend of 3 years is asking me to move out. She wants me to change some things she says. She said that all she wants are for things to get better, she does not want to see other people and shereally wants things to be better.
What in the hell do I do? I have not ate in like 2 days, I can't work out or sleep. i am really upset fellas. I just need some advice to get through this horrible time. Thanks all!!!

 

[Jae]

Try a little novacaine and duct tape. It works wonders.

 

[Kakdiesel]

i'm right where you are bro...i guess i take comfort in knowing that I have plenty of potential to find another soul mate..

she's the one fuckin up..trust me..she'll realize..at least i hope i take comfort in thinkin my ex will too

 

[Jae]

Now seriously, how can anyone give you advice if they do not know the circumstances and situation? What is she hoping to change? She is asking you to change somethings to make it better, so obviously there must be (for her) some flaws or frustrations to the current arrangement.

What is she asking you to change? To cut your long nappy hair? That would be simple, to dress better, that would be easy. On a different level, if she is asking you to discontinue A.S. use that is one thing you have to weigh in the overall content. But something like not going to the gym is just plain bullshit. Do not let her "changes" and "wants" compromise who YOU are as a person. People can change to a certain extent.

It is nice that you love her, but after reading this, you are bordering on obsessive love. Which is not healthy at all. It is manifesting itself in you through lack of eating, confusion, insecurity, and lack of sleep. Do not let anyone have this control over you. Maybe you should hear her out and still move out. Find time to like YOURSELF first and then worry about finding someone who likes the person you already ARE and not their idea of who you should be.


come on, tell us more about the changes. But first, get something to eat.

One the bright side, at least she has said she doesn't want to see other people. You have that going for you. She obviously still has something there for you.

 

[Big Buck]

go get some pussy....works wonders...

 

[supersizeme]

nothing fixes things like this except lots of ultraviolence, dirty whores, good drugs, and other forms of debauchery. take your frustrations out on your family so they disown you and you spiral down into insanity.

seriously...TIME. nothing else fixes broken hearts. in the mean time while you are waiting, get your ass in the gym and work off some of the stress and keep looking better and feeling somewhat better about yourself. nail a fine personal trainer in the ass and tell your other gym buddies about it.

 

[MattTheSkywalker]

You know what works?

Figfure out what you want to do for yourself, and then get busy doing it. Because with or without her, you have dreams and goals too.

Sure it would be better if she were with you and went for the ride as well, but if she doesn;t, you need to do your thing.

Not easy.....I know.....the hard way I know.....but you gotta keep going forward.

 

[Buld0g]

Did she do this because she thinks your obsessed with the fitness lifestyle. My girl has been giving me shit lately about this.

 

[NinjaX]

Damn fellas, my girl hates the fact that im so into my workout and grappling, Im not sure why she gives me shit, Perfection bro I feel you, at this point bro the best advice i can give you is to not stop your training and to definitely be around your boys. When i went through this I put my time in my training and being with my friends. Your friends will prove to be your biggest asset in time like this. All the best to you bro!

 

[da big thinker]

i feel for ya buddy...you stated your g/f wants change...well,unfortunately for her,this will NOT happen.bottom line,is that she hasn't accepted you for who you ARE.whether you think so or not,YOU WILL NOT CHANGE AND NEITHER WILL SHE.YOU MUST ACCEPT SOMEONE FOR WHO HE OR SHE IS AND EITHER GO FOR IT OR TURN AWAY.hope you feel better soon,but remember that nothing is easy,when it comes to feelings of the heart.but don't sell yourself short now,for a quick FIX,because you will regret it later on...you have some decisions to make for yourself...don't rush...take your time and hang around people who are truly there for you and have the best of intentions.KEEP YOUR HEAD UP HIGH.