My family gets aggressive when they drink, yes, on both sides. I can be fairly aggressive being sober. So I still don't care to get my ass whipped or go to jail because I drank and got stupid. Anyone who just has a good time when drinking, enjoy!! Just have fun. Honestly I have friends who are dicks when sober but are nice when drunk.
Never mattered to me. Always had an easy enough time meeting people at parties.