how much and how indepth do you talk with your current GF/BF about your past GF/BF s?

[madbomber31]

how often and how indepth do you guys talk about past relationships?

 

[Frackal]

Too much.

 

[WODIN]

The Cardinal RULE...

Of every relationship is...Don't talk about past relationships. Seriously, this person is a unique individual you are seeing and has nothing to do with your past experiences. Leave your garbage at the curb.

 

[slickdadd]

I try, but get pestered into talking about the past ones always. In great detail. Not the funnest.

 

[plifter]

I avoid this at all costs. I used to have an annoying habit of talking about the ex, but I learned after a while that it turns the ladies off. I try to focus all attention on the new lady in my life.

 

[strengthmonster]

Re: The Cardinal RULE...

Of every relationship is...Don't talk about past relationships. Seriously, this person is a unique individual you are seeing and has nothing to do with your past experiences. Leave your garbage at the curb.

Easier said than done when you have a kid with an ex. My ex is a complete psycho bitch and an alcoholic but unfortunately will be in my life until my son gets old enough to support himself. My fiance and I don't argue over though as we both have a mutual feeling for her - we both hate her.

 

[Gilbyag]

very, very rarely... and not in depth AT all... I dont think thats cool. I think it might be ok and expected at the very begining of a new relationship, but after awhile I dont think its a good idea.

 

[MattTheSkywalker]

At first, she asked a lot about past stuff - typical insecurity. After some time she got comfortable in her situation and now it hardly ever mentioned.

 

[smallmovesal]

i know everything that's happened in my bf's relationships... over six years i've learned bit by bit.

we're not too concerned about the whole don't talk about it because we know or know who the exes are...

 

[HappyScrappy]

you guys talk to your girlfriends?