how many people in relationships...

[smallmovesal]

work out problems before walking away?

show real concern for and don't demean their partner's feelings?

admit their mistakes and hope to be able to find solutions together?

what is important to everyone?

 

[La0Tz3]

hi smallmovesal
i'd hope most people in relationships do the things you mentioned.. surely thats what makes it a relationship
its the very least i expect of myself and my partner
i know not everyones perfect but if what you described is what you're looking for and you're not getting it already from your current partner then my best advice is to move on, because it takes two to tango

 

[Kahn]

better yet, how many people try to figure out how to deal with a partner that won't do the things you hope for

 

[smallmovesal]

true.

i just wish feelings weren't treated like a joke... that things could get resolved before walking away at least.

i feel humiliated. i feel unimportant.

 

[Taps]

I do (and have done) all of the things you mentioned. Although, I must agree with what Kahn said...too bad about that.

 

[MoneyBags]

i feel like bitches just use me for sex without any consideration for my feelings!!!!

 

[smallmovesal]

hell, even addressing it didn't work though... pointing the avoidance out...

this is stupid.

 

[Kahn]

Ah the good old days huh money?

 

[MoneyBags]

Ah the good old days huh money?

yeah man, this past fucking weekend. what the fuck!!? am i some kind of piece of fucking meat!!?

 

[smallmovesal]

i feel so pathetic for wailing over my keyboard about this.. but i had to let it out..