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smallmovesal

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work out problems before walking away?

show real concern for and don't demean their partner's feelings?

admit their mistakes and hope to be able to find solutions together?

what is important to everyone?
 
hi smallmovesal
i'd hope most people in relationships do the things you mentioned.. surely thats what makes it a relationship
its the very least i expect of myself and my partner
i know not everyones perfect but if what you described is what you're looking for and you're not getting it already from your current partner then my best advice is to move on, because it takes two to tango
 
better yet, how many people try to figure out how to deal with a partner that won't do the things you hope for
 
true.

i just wish feelings weren't treated like a joke... that things could get resolved before walking away at least.

i feel humiliated. i feel unimportant.
 
I do (and have done) all of the things you mentioned. Although, I must agree with what Kahn said...too bad about that.
 
i feel like bitches just use me for sex without any consideration for my feelings!!!!
 
Kahn said:
Ah the good old days huh money?
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yeah man, this past fucking weekend. what the fuck!!? am i some kind of piece of fucking meat!!?
 
smallmovesal said:
i feel so pathetic for wailing over my keyboard about this.. but i had to let it out..
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i thought your relationship ended a while ago.
 
Did something bad happen smalls?

Many years ago, I was into this girl who absolutly could not deal with the problems we were having. She had to have everything her way, and "compromise" was not in her vocabulary. Add to that her generall selfishness, and I was not having good time.

Took me a while to figure out that none of it was my fault. It was all hers. I did everything I could have done to communicate with her....but she just couldn't (or wouldn't) put in any effort. It really sucked too, 'cause we were close friends for years...and now we don't haven't spoken in a long time.

Some people are just like that. Can't live with 'em, can't kill 'em. :)
 
yes taps... i was talking to someone (guess) who i don't think either knew or cared that he was hurting my feelings...

then he walked away before we could resolve it even though i said let's get this sorted out..

he just didn't want to deal

and that made it 100x worse. it was no big deal to begin with... but his actions spoke way louder
 
Just playing Devils advocate here, but maybe he really didn't know he was hurting you. Guys are stupid like that. :) Or maybe he was just having a bad day or some shit.

Sorry kiddo, I'm not sure what else to say. :(
 
i asked him to stay and talk and he left. i think he knew i was hurt and he didn't want to deal with it... i made it pretty clear.
 
A good relationship to me is being able to talk out problems to eachother, be able to talk to each other about anything at all. A good relationship is a trusting one. I don't like it when my man doesn't trust me.
 
that's funny, you don't look like one.

jeez i'm showing up in a lot of avatars these days
i can count three on this thread alone ;)
 
SeXKiTTen_CanDy said:
A good relationship to me is being able to talk out problems to eachother, be able to talk to each other about anything at all. A good relationship is a trusting one. I don't like it when my man doesn't trust me.
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I wouldn't trust you either...Aussie chicks are trouble.
 
I'm just singing a song. Worry not, few people know what's going on in Smalls' threads. Very exclusive!!!
 
smallmovesal said:
work out problems before walking away?

show real concern for and don't demean their partner's feelings?

admit their mistakes and hope to be able to find solutions together?

what is important to everyone?
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1. i try to, if doing so will leave either or both of us better off in the long run.

2. yes & no i don't. i have an aloof manner. i am half & half on that

3. yes. doesn't work w/o a willing partner though

4. knowledge of how reality works
 
i just want someone who shows their feelings without being afraid,my current gf is great she lets me know what shes thinking and loves being with me because u care,she went out with one of my friends about a year ago they broke up in the spring and he kept using her for sex all summer knowing her feelings for him were there and then after sex he said she seduced him ,anyways she use to cut herself and tried to kill herself twice,but enough about that
moral of the story guys treat your women right and dont play with there feelings
 
People, people, people!

Time to wake up! Get out of the "I need to be in a relationship to be happy" mindset and into the "I just wanna have fun" mindset. Sure there comes a time when you wanna settle down, buy a house, have some kids etc.. THAT'S when you look for someone nice you can stay with forever. In the meanwhile if you know you don't want any of those things, WHY FUCKING BOTHER getting into a relationship when you KNOW you don't want to eventually marry him/her?! WHY OH WHY put yourself through all the emotional pain and suffering, just to feel a little more secure. I personally think (feel free to correct me) many just have low self esteem and they need a "permanent" partner to make themselves feel better. This is total crap, you gotta love yourself before you can love someone else. I learned this valuable lesson in my last relationship, and now I just go out and have many "partners". No commitments, no you-forgot-my-fucking-birthday, no you're-spending-too-much-tim-with-your-friends, and no more Valentines! I feel freer now than I have ever before. Can't we all just get along and have fun?

thanks for listening. now hook a brother up with some karma :D
 
smallmovesal said:
*blush*

how did you know they called me muffin head in grade one becaues my mum made muffins for me all the time? :D
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Because your mom used to make 'em for me too every morning :)

just kiddin muffin.
 
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