daeo, I think that is sometimes unrealistic. Sometimes they have all the qualities you desire, except they disapprove of gear. Just because some chick thinks it's cool to juice doesn't mean she is a cool chick.
Alos, what about people that get married, love their wife, and 10 years later decide they want to try gear, even though they know their wife would have a fit if she found out. Divorce her because she doesn't like gear? That is not gonna happen.
On the other hand, if you find someone that has all those desirable qualities, plus she will do your injects for you, you are very lucky. But chicks are fickle, and they hold irrational grudges. And if they have a problem with you, it's like Sam Kinison said, she won't tell you...she'll tell everybody else in the whole fucking world, but she won't tell you.
I think I would use discretion until I knew for sure. Otherwise, I'll be damned if I pick a chick based on her stance on anabolics. I am much more deep than that, I pick chicks based on their hooter size and the ability to suck chrome of a trailer hitch.
