how long till you married? or moved in with your not so better half?

[madbomber31]

i know we got lots of boys and girls here living with someone or married to them... how long did it take you to:
A. get engaged?
B. move in together?


whichever applies to you let us others know... feel free to elaborate on why it went so quick or why you waited so long...

 

[The Shadow]

We dated for ~4 and a half monthes before we were engaged. Married that same year.

 

[havoc]

Been engaged twice, took around 6 months for both of them, lived with one about 4 months into it, didnt go through with either of the engagements and thank God for that.

 

[Bikini Mod]

Started dating in July, moved in late Nov/early Dec, got engaged Valentine's, got married in May about 1 1/2 years later......

 

[BackDoc]

5 years then married...I was a T-MAC...Typical Man Afraid of Commitment

 

[Phemomena]

here comes the "information i don't often share" post...

i moved out with my last fiance to move in with my current fiance! (that was three years ago, we got engaged just over a year ago)

 

[HappyScrappy]

IslandGirl is moving in with me on Aug 12th.
So I'm getting all of my drinking and whoring out of the way now.

 

[kat]

Fiance #1 (I was 18 and stupid)
dated for 6 months before I moved inwith him only because life at home was unbearable, and agreed to marry him out of guilt. Lived together for 2.5 years and I left.

Serious Boyfriend #2 (aka second guy I ever slept with)
Dated for 4.5 years, moved in after 4 years, were broken up after 6 months of that.

Fiance #2 dated for a year before we moved in together, left me for anothr woman on our 2nd year anniversary.

After that, I was single for a year, happy as a pig in poo, and swore I would never move in with a guy again. I had my own place, my ownstuff,my own rules.

Then drummerboy came along. He was basically homeless and would take turns staying at our houses. We had already started dating in secret and he more or less begged me to let him movein with me. That was after 2 months, but he still took off every now and again, so we've now beendating 3 years this month and hes been living here roughly 2.5 years of that steadily.
No intentions of ever getting married.

 

[Milhouse]

Got engaged once after 5 months, split up by the seventh month.

Moved in together with the last serious one after 7 months, lived together 3and a half years before splitting. Lived in separate rooms and lives(still friends nothing more) for 4 more months until lease on house finished, Moved out 3 months ago, happy as a pig at a buffet, gonna stay single as long as possible, hopefully forever, and never get married lol.

I have net way too many women the past few months that are trying to put a shackle around my ankle within a day or so, so I give them the boot right away. Sorry this fella has a mom already, doesn't need a second one. I tell em I just want to be casual up front, and still they want a relationship after even though they agree with me up front. I don't get it.

 

[Cleaner]

Moved in together after a couple months.
12 Years before we got married.
Will be together 15 in March.