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How Do You Get Rid Of A Stalker

Like your mother alwayts said...honesty is the best policy. First, ask her why she is so intent on talking to you, what is it that she really wants, and tell her not to be afraid to be honest.

Then...make your intentions (or lack there of) readily clear. Don't minnce words, beat around the bush, or be polite. Just be honest--brutally if need be.

If that fails...download some animal porn, hand it to her, and ask her if she would be interested in posing for some pictures for your internet site. You could make her a star, baby!
 
In light of what Wodin said, I would send her the link to EF, tell her what handle you post under, and then tell her to do a search read all of your posts.
 
Stalkers are not funny business. I know this. You can say ignore them and such... but that is not the case.

After getting rid of my ex, he was such a bother and pest that I actually had to move from Atlanta to get rid of him. He would show up at the gym parking lot (he didn't even work out), cruise Ansley mall looking for my car and check out Blockbuster or Publix to try to find me, drive by my condo 4-5 times per day, he had even stolen my email password when he was living with me, and therefore knew everything I did and everywhere I went/was going If I told someone via email, for about a year before I figured out what was going on. I would go to NYC, guess who would be in the museum at the EXACT time I went? I went to London, guess who was on the EXACT flight I was? I would go to movies with friends and guess who would show up with his trick of the hour trying to make me jealous. I would go to theater, opera, the mountains, etc.... and he would always be there trying to make me jealous or hurt enough to take him back. He had two tactics. The first one was to have a date and try to make me jealous. Actually, I would just laugh after seeing what his date was like. His next tactic was to follow me around staring at me with puppy dog eyes. So to get rid of him, I moved to Ft Lauderdale.

Guess what? He now comes down here for 4-5 weeks at a time. Still follows me around, still goes out to bars, resturants, the beach and tries to find me. I wish there was something I could do, but everyone says "oh he is harmless... he is still in love with you...(he tells everyone this).... he just misses you (he says this to everyone too)....etc....etc...." But the point is... I don't CARE what he is... I would not care if he were dead - as long as I had an alibi for that night. I just want to be left alone and not have my eyes violated by the sight of his face anymore.

Until you have been stalked, you can't just sit there and dismiss it.
 
I tried to get a restraining order... but he :

#1 Has not touched me
#2 Has not spoken to me. (he just talks to everyone else about me and it is never anything spiteful or malicious.. just how much he still loves me and misses me and the places we used to go to and the things we used to do, etc...)

So I have no case. The police officer said it could be just extreme coincidence that he shows up all the time.


If I tried with a video camera, all I would be doing is setting myself up for a restraining order should he claim I am following him around.
 
Flat out tell her that you're not interested. If she keeps bothering you after that, tell her you'll get a RO.
 
You said shes fat right?

LIne up a smorgasboard of fast food, a couple bottles of listerine and some real hard booze....

Tell her she can have you or whats behind door #1... the smell of the greasy burgers should hint her off as to what it is...

She'll definitely go for the food and booze...
 
SofaGeorge said:


Hence I stress... TIME.

That's the only thing that resolves stalkers... short of shooting them.


So, the best way to get rid of a stalker in a hurry is to take the time to shoot them.;) :o

But seriously......

There are two thoughts on the subject. You can ignore them and hope they go away, or you can take a proactive approach.

You could always try turning the tables on them. Try getting information on them. Stalkers seem to relish the idea that they know something about you, that they could turn up when you least expect it. However, if you know things about them or their personal life, that they don't want you to know, that puts them on the defensive.
 
just get real close to her with bad breath and some shit on your hand then ask her if your hand smells like shit or if its just your breath....she might ease off on you
 
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