how bad is this

[cindylou]

My birthday is this week and I dont even care.

Some people want to get together at a Mexican Restaurant this weekend for Mexican food (that I dont really care for) and drinks (I cant drink) for my bday

This does not sound fun but I dont want to be a poop head because Im fat and depressed. Normally I'd just order a bunch of drinks and eat chips and salsa...but this Friday the best thing sounds like just going home and sitting in my air conditioned house with the blinds drawn

Should I just go anyway? lol Saturday I have a huge 30th bday party planned for my husband so its not like Im being totally antisocial. I'll see everyone there.

The Q is: Am I being a butt and should I suck it up and go even though Im not feeling so well?

And also Im worried about eating fattening foods. Ugh. Im like, developing an eating disorder being pregnant! lol

 

[Bikini Mod]

First of all it is YOUR birthday so that means you automatically get to do whatever the hell YOU WANT and if these people love you - they will respect and accept it whatever it is without making you feel badly. (They shouldn't make you feel badly regardless).

If a body can't see that you are out of sorts because of your very obvious life-changing condition then FUCK THEM. (there I said it for you CindyLou so you don't have to feel badly. LOL)

If anyone dares to give you shit, I will PM you my cell. Give the number to them and tell them to call me so I can tear them a new asshole. But don't worry Cindy - I will do it with a smile!

 

[jnevin]

You're a truly bad person.

 

[75th]

I haven't cared about a birthday since I turned 15.

It's no big deal, IMO.

Also, jnevin is spot on.

 

[redsamurai]

I give a shit about my birthday anymore either. People want to make this big deal out of "days".....who gives a fuck? It's a big to do over nothing. Christmas is the same way to me. It's all so "ego related". I dunno, I might be over analyzing just a tad...


Anyway, pics of your fatness bish!

 

[jnevin]

Plus, you're super preggers. They don't want your water to burst in their chimichangas. They were just being polite.

 

[cindylou]

lol I know its not even a big deal birthday (28)

I dont want to be ungreatful Im glad they wanna get together

cool. Sometimes I need an outside perspective to make sure Im not just being selfish

 

[KillahBee]

personally, i'd go. but then again, i want to get into heaven.

 

[Bikini Mod]

lol I know its not even a big deal birthday (28)

I dont want to be ungreatful Im glad they wanna get together

cool. Sometimes I need an outside perspective to make sure Im not just being selfish

My dear Ms CindyLou - here is a newsflash - you are in the last trimester of pregnancy. You will NEVER be able to be *selfish* again.

So guess what - BE SELFISH FOR A MINUTE. THOSE DAYS WILL SOON BE GONE FOREVER. (Well not until you are senile, like me, and even then you can't be truly selfish. You will second-guess and question your every thought and deed until the day you leave this earth.)

 

[Scotsman]

If you aren't feeling up to it just tell them that and bow out gracefully.

Personally I absolutely hate my birthday. Has nothing to do with the getting older part either. Something bad happens every year on my birthday. I think the last time I had an actual good time on my b-day was when I turned 16 (I'm 32).

Cheers,
Scotsman

 

[Sub-Zero]

My birthday is this week and I dont even care.

Some people want to get together at a Mexican Restaurant this weekend for Mexican food (that I dont really care for) and drinks (I cant drink) for my bday

This does not sound fun but I dont want to be a poop head because Im fat and depressed. Normally I'd just order a bunch of drinks and eat chips and salsa...but this Friday the best thing sounds like just going home and sitting in my air conditioned house with the blinds drawn

Should I just go anyway? lol Saturday I have a huge 30th bday party planned for my husband so its not like Im being totally antisocial. I'll see everyone there.

The Q is: Am I being a butt and should I suck it up and go even though Im not feeling so well?

And also Im worried about eating fattening foods. Ugh. Im like, developing an eating disorder being pregnant! lol

if your pregnant you get a free pass to anything.

just say

"dont feel like doing anything, cuz im pregnant"

 

[Sub-Zero]

If you aren't feeling up to it just tell them that and bow out gracefully.

Personally I absolutely hate my birthday. Has nothing to do with the getting older part either. Something bad happens every year on my birthday. I think the last time I had an actual good time on my b-day was when I turned 16 (I'm 32).

Cheers,
Scotsman

sounds like depression

 

[Scotsman]

sounds like depression

Yes because everyone loves getting great b-day presents like tearing my pec last year. Oh no I'm just depressed because that kind of thing is fucking awesome to have happen I wish you the same kind of joy on your b-day.

Why don't you maybe find out why someone said something before making baseless accusations?

Cheers,
Scotsman