homesick, girl issues and feeling bad.....

[doubles1]

Here is my situation.....

i met this girl about a month and a half ago through my class, we talked on the phone for days and enjoyed eachothers company...we have a lot of things in common and have gotten to know eachother tremendously. We had been seeing eachother as many days possible before I left for school which was 1500 miles away from where she'd be....The last two weeks I was home she stayed at my house the whole last week pretty much and I spetn every waking minute with her almost and her the same with me. We talked about almost that we were both falling in love with eachother but just didn't have the nerve to say it to either of eachother. Now im at school as an exchange student in Florida...i know no one have just come in here raw for a semester and its tough because im not always busy and my mind is constantly focused on her and my peoples at home....I've talked ot her a couple times since i've been down here but I miss her soo much and feel like i've blown the best thing i've ever had in the world and that she won't be there when i get back due to a job moving away and or any other reason....shes doesn't always give me the most feedback with how she feels but i know she likes me and feels most likely equivalent to the way i feel....someimtes i just feel like crying and wish i never made this decision to come down to school here for the semester.....i'll be back home during December and almost just can't wait for this as this is girl means soo much to me deep down....i havnet told her how strongly i feel but i know she knows that i feel extremely strong but i just didnt want to freak her out about my feelings...shes 2 and a half years older than me.......what should i do ??????? what do you guys htink will happen.....this stuff just makes me soo sad.......................

sorry for the rant and for whoever listened.....


doubles.

 

[Burning_Inside]

Shit you;ve posted in the wrong spot for advice on stuf flike this.

Look, if you ask anything about shit like that here on Elite's chat board, this following paragraph st what you will get from everyone in summary.. "Fuck that bitch and move on bro. It ain't worth it. It's obvious it's over. Give it up. You came into this world alone, you will die alone. Women are trash and are not worth anything but a fuck. You get emotionally attached, you're screwed. When you gonna learn this bro?"


that sums up what everyone here will ever tell you about a relationship issue. There is never ever any point to asking shit like that on here. Print that paragraph out, and tape it to the side of your monitor.

 

[Creepusmaximus]

Move on, no good solution here.

 

[doubles1]

how do you move on then....how do i not feel attached being so far away...that is my problem i feel like ive killed the best thing in my life and it hurts......almost ot the point of tears......

boubles.

 

[Outtlaw]

There's not much you really can do until you get back to her in Dec. Perhaps hooking up with other girls will get your mind off of her till then. Where are you from, just out of curiosity?

 

[ZKaudio]

u need to go meet new people stat. Take this advice seriously. Dwelling on her will make everything worse.

 

[DepressiveJuice]

hope youre taking some english classes

 

[juiceddreadlocks]

it wasnt 1500 miles but i just got out of a long distance relationship. Buddy youre best off to just live your life and if you get back there and still feel the same way do it. if not it will eat at you all the time. theres just a longing that you allow to control you at times that cant be filled but by that one person and you really have to look inside yourself and find a better reason to be happy and strive to improve yourself in every way possible. use your desire as your motivation to lift and diet and do well in school. im trying that right now. in december ill post how it went. its really funny my relationship ended bc i gave into cheating and ended up giving my v card to my best friend (a fellow EF member who is very awesome btw) pm me for support bro.

 

[doubles1]

thanks for the help jm....

 

[sh4dowf4lcon]

D1,

Bro, sorry to hear you are having a rough time. I think the best thing you can do is be positive, try to locate activities and stay busy. Basketball at the outside court, bike rides, walks, go to the library and look into a few books to help pass lonely times before you go to sleep.

Send her a nice card once in a while to let her know she is on your mind. Write her a letter once or twice a week, not mushy letters that will leave you feeling vulnerable. Just casual letters talking about your day and your plans this week. Be positive and not depressing in the letters. Everyone likes to get letters and cards in the mail. Just keep in touch, be positive and stay busy. 6 months is a l,ong time if you dwell on the time. Just focus on other stuff, and 6 months will be over in no time.

Good Luck,

SF