Holy shit I've never dated a girl this conservative before

[Frackal]

Well - I picked her up at 11pm lol... she had been up since 5am and had already played 2 softball games and taught athletic camp at our old highschool.... (though she just graduated and I did 2 years ago, we didnt know each other)


Anyway, I wanted to go out tonight vs she wanted to go out tomorrow, but I have to work early Sunday morning so she was nice enough to go out tonight

Anyway my buddy from work, who was in her graduating class agreed on her beauty but told me she was really conservative sexually.

Her father is 60 (late baby) and was raised Amish...(yes genuine Amish, the kind who live in solitary and ride in carts) ..she is not amish however.

Anyway we have a reasonably good time even though the poor girl is about ready to pass out and trying to be a trooper about it...

So after the date I pull up to her house and I was at a loss because I've never seen a chick so shy in bodylanguage..so I told her I'd kiss her but she doesnt seem the type to kiss on a first date... and she said she never has.

Her entire demeanor is very sexless... she ALWAYS dresses to wear shes really covered up (fucking Amish!) ..in fact, she used to go to my gym, and shed ALWAYS wear a sweatshirt and sweatpants.... and tonight she wore a jacket, pants and some shirt ..no bare midriff or anything like that

Anyway I am a little blown away by this... last three dates I went on: fucked one in her hotel room (pre-planned) fingered one at her house, and made out with third....



I dont' want to hear any bravado fuck about "ida gotten in her pants dude."


Anway... I think I'm just going to have to be like :

"Hey.. you need to be upfront with me... I've never had a girl not kiss on the first date before....is it because you weren't into me or do you really just not do that."

 

[Paulos]

I'da gotten in her pants, but you would have probably fucked it up for me, dude.

 

[2Thick]

What you will need to do is build up the sexual tension to the point where she attacks you.

This can be done by doing things purposely that get you two close enough to feel each other's electricity without touching....or even touching a little bit when siting together....girls dig that shit.

 

[Hannibal]

What you will need to do is build up the sexual tension to the point where she attacks you.

This can be done by doing things purposely that get you two close enough to feel each other's electricity without touching....or even touching a little bit when siting together....girls dig that shit.

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[Citruscide]

Dude... I've not kissed on the first date... most of the time by my choice... sometimes, by her choice...

It all depends on the situation... you know? IF you want something MORE with this chick, she might have to take it slow... you know this going into it... she has never kissed a guy before... just give her some room.. .let her be comfortable... talk about it... communicate... I find, that it really opens up alot of doors... you know?

Don't start talking about doggie style or favorite sexual positions... just get her to open up... get her to talk about what she is thinking about, or what might bother her??

It's a good start to always be open... and just because she didn't kiss you, don't think for a minute that she isn't into you bro...

C-ditty

 

[Frackal]

So you think mentioning that she freaked me out with her sexlessness is a bad idea...

 

[plornive]

I never understood what's so special about kissing on a first date... some people aren't really into kissing and it can really break stride.

I suggest you to NOT ask her to be "upfront". Do what 2Thick said. And depending on her, you could make some bold physical moves. I bet she just needs to be taught a few things.

 

[plornive]

So you think mentioning that she freaked me out with her sexlessness is a bad idea...

If I were you, I would recognize her personality and it wouldn't really phase me. I would just go into "outwardly-asexual-girl-mode".

I think when you are trying to get into a girl's pants, words mean fuck-all. Just aim your chisel at her sweet spot and tap it until she breaks.

 

[Frackal]

How would you work it.

If I were to do this it would be for a gf as she's one of the more special girls I've met in the past few years... personality and beauty... if I was simply looking for ass I'd go elsewhere

I should probably hook up w/ her next weekend too for a date huh...I was thinking of trying to go out w/ this girl I was supposed to go out w/ last week but she had something happen...there would be a good chance of sex there.....but I only have 1 day free really...so I'll give this girl a shot again and if no kissing we'll have to call it quits.

Also it's hard talking to chicks w/o talking about sex.

 

[plornive]

How would you work it.

If I were to do this it would be for a gf as she's one of the more special girls I've met in the past few years... personality and beauty... if I was simply looking for ass I'd go elsewhere

I should probably hook up w/ her next weekend too for a date huh...I was thinking of trying to go out w/ this girl I was supposed to go out w/ last week but she had something happen...there would be a good chance of sex there.....but I only have 1 day free really...so I'll give this girl a shot again and if no kissing we'll have to call it quits.

Also it's hard talking to chicks w/o talking about sex.

I think I would do the same thing whether I wanted a girl to be my gf or not. Until a few months ago, I was mostly used to moving pretty quickly with girls (1st or 2nd date sex). If you aren't into the game of breaking conservative girls, maybe she's not for you.

But I think you should reallize where she's coming from. Talking about sex will probably make her feel uncomfortable at first. I highly doubt she is really asexual, as I'm sure you agree. She is probably Very subtle. You need to work from her level.

A perfect example is a girl I went out with recently... 1st date, I worked the body language a lot, talking about non-sexual things. 2nd date, brought her close, like I was going to kiss her, didn't... 3rd date, same as 2nd date, but at the end she asked to come home with me, and we had some crazy sex. I kissed her for the 1st time 5 minutes before I fucked her.