hey BIKINIMOM

[madbomber31]

a few questiona.. no argument coming... just a few questions

did your oldest enjoy living with their father? why not allow her to go back with him if she did?

 

[Ilovetolift]

what the f...

 

[Bikini Mod]

a few questiona.. no argument coming... just a few questions

did your oldest enjoy living with their father? why not allow her to go back with him if she did?

Any child would enjoy ruling the roost - staying out till all hours, wearing makeup like a 2$ ho, wearing clothing that is waaaaaay too tight and sheer, not caring about grades, IMing on the computer all day/tying up the phone, disrespecting her younger sisters.... And actually having expensive gifts bought for her if she did those things while the others got no such treatment.

Just because a child "enjoys" eating ice cream for breakfast that does not mean that you allow them to.

I am not being sarcastic - just being straight up honest.

 

[Bikini Mod]

I didnt even tell you about the verbal and physical abuse the child suffered at his hands... but hey, she got to run the show so I guess it wasn't so bad afterall, eh?

And I am soooooooo not trying to be a bitch because you dont know these things.

I do get very angry though when I think about how I actually trusted him to care for the children.

He was an ass to me but I was so fucked up that I didnt realize he would be that way to them to. It took a lot of therapy for me to get over the feelings of anger and resentment I have TOWARDS ME for not understanding all of this. It took me a long time to forgive myself for dropping the ball like that. And that is why I fight so hard now.

I fucked up once.

NO FUCKING WAY WILL I LET MY KIDS DOWN BY TRUSTING HIM EVER AGAIN.

 

[madbomber31]

Any child would enjoy ruling the roost - staying out till all hours, wearing makeup like a 2$ ho, wearing clothing that is waaaaaay too tight and sheer, not caring about grades, IMing on the computer all day/tying up the phone, disrespecting her younger sisters.... And actually having expensive gifts bought for her if she did those things while the others got no such treatment.

Just because a child "enjoys" eating ice cream for breakfast that does not mean that you allow them to.

I am not being sarcastic - just being straight up honest.

i understand your point, but at what point do you say this isnt worth it to have DYFUS called on me for not allowing my daughter to do whatever she wants? at what point do you say you can no longer discipline your daughter without having 2nd thoughts about what actions she may take?

what happens if her little stories become bigger? what if a teacher doesnt give her what she wants and she claims he touched her or something along those lines?

my not being a parent may make this easy for me to say but at what point does a parent say "fine, have it your way and live with him"? what would be so wrong about taking the younger ones and letting the older one live with dad? it would seem the young ones would lose a very negative influence.

i have a co-worker who's brother in laws ex (ya, lets stick with "some guy i know") just lost 2 children 29 and 25 because of an O.D. they opened up some pain patch and ingested the drug and both died.. directly due to the older one getting the younger one involved in drugs at a younger age...

when do you say fuck it, i'm risking the younger ones and i'm not willing to do that anymore?

 

[madbomber31]

I didnt even tell you about the verbal and physical abuse the child suffered at his hands... but hey, she got to run the show so I guess it wasn't so bad afterall, eh?

And I am soooooooo not trying to be a bitch because you dont know these things.

I do get very angry though when I think about how I actually trusted him to care for the children.

He was an ass to me but I was so fucked up that I didnt realize he would be that way to them to. It took a lot of therapy for me to get over the feelings of anger and resentment I have TOWARDS ME for not understanding all of this. It took me a long time to forgive myself for dropping the ball like that. And that is why I fight so hard now.

I fucked up once.

NO FUCKING WAY WILL I LET MY KIDS DOWN BY TRUSTING HIM EVER AGAIN.

you should have started with the verbal and physical abuse... that stops any questions after you say that.. disregard the rest.

 

[HiDnGoD]

i understand your point, but at what point do you say this isnt worth it to have DYFUS called on me for not allowing my daughter to do whatever she wants? at what point do you say you can no longer discipline your daughter without having 2nd thoughts about what actions she may take?

what happens if her little stories become bigger? what if a teacher doesnt give her what she wants and she claims he touched her or something along those lines?

my not being a parent may make this easy for me to say but at what point does a parent say "fine, have it your way and live with him"? what would be so wrong about taking the younger ones and letting the older one live with dad? it would seem the young ones would lose a very negative influence.

i have a co-worker who's brother in laws ex (ya, lets stick with "some guy i know") just lost 2 children 29 and 25 because of an O.D. they opened up some pain patch and ingested the drug and both died.. directly due to the older one getting the younger one involved in drugs at a younger age...

when do you say fuck it, i'm risking the younger ones and i'm not willing to do that anymore?

They are your kids. You should fight, until you can't anymore. & you can't choose one over another.
My brother went through some of this when he was separated. My niece was 14, hanging out downtown with friends, 'til after midnight, etc. She was staying with bro because Mom's boyfriend was a lecherous drunk. So bro went downtoen to get her, he went to put her in his truck, & she started fighting. She started screaming that she was being assaulted, people came running & a cop almost arrested him. She went back to Mom. It was a bad coupla years after that. she's a princess now, but he never forgave himself for losing those years, & not fighting for her.

 

[Bikini Mod]

i understand your point, but at what point do you say this isnt worth it to have DYFUS called on me for not allowing my daughter to do whatever she wants? at what point do you say you can no longer discipline your daughter without having 2nd thoughts about what actions she may take?

what happens if her little stories become bigger? what if a teacher doesnt give her what she wants and she claims he touched her or something along those lines?

my not being a parent may make this easy for me to say but at what point does a parent say "fine, have it your way and live with him"? what would be so wrong about taking the younger ones and letting the older one live with dad? it would seem the young ones would lose a very negative influence.

i have a co-worker who's brother in laws ex (ya, lets stick with "some guy i know") just lost 2 children 29 and 25 because of an O.D. they opened up some pain patch and ingested the drug and both died.. directly due to the older one getting the younger one involved in drugs at a younger age...

when do you say fuck it, i'm risking the younger ones and i'm not willing to do that anymore?

In my language there is an expression, "I have five fingers. Which one should I bite so that it will hurt me less?"

I understand what you are saying and MANY have said the same - even my attorney who is a mother of 3 daughters herself. My sister who is mother to my children after me had said the same in the past when my oldest had done some pretty fucked up things (that I so kept off the boars and from every place else).

I dreamed about, carried, gave birth and raised every single one. It is my happy obligation to guide this one as the other three to become everything she never even thought she could be.

A mother NEVER gives up....

 

[Bikini Mod]

They are your kids. You should fight, until you can't anymore. & you can't choose one over another.
My brother went through some of this when he was separated. My niece was 14, hanging out downtown with friends, 'til after midnight, etc. She was staying with bro because Mom's boyfriend was a lecherous drunk. So bro went downtoen to get her, he went to put her in his truck, & she started fighting. She started screaming that she was being assaulted, people came running & a cop almost arrested him. She went back to Mom. It was a bad coupla years after that. she's a princess now, but he never forgave himself for losing those years, & not fighting for her.

I know my daughter better than anyone. SHE WANTS ME TO FIGHT FOR HER.
The harder she fights me, the harder I will fight back.

She may be stubborn but look up that word in the dictionary - and you'll find THIS MANUGLY BITCH's picture!

She used to say, "You only fight so hard for custody because you want the money." <----her father and his family's words parroted.

Well I haven't gotten a FUCKING DIME LEGALLY (Nope, that judge aint biased) since January and I am fighting harder. So there goes that bullshit lie that her father and his family have been perpetrating since the beginning.

She is rude, spoiled, rotten, disprespectfully and downright nasty on occasion (which gets her REAL FAR with me LOL). Just yesterday she said, "Why dont you just marry some guy (they dont meet ANY man I date but know that the guy is the one that is paying for me to live and be able to keep them) and then I can live with dad?"

I said, "Because baby - I dont NEED to be married to anyone. I NEED to be with you. I can wait four years to be with whomever and if they loved me they would wait the same four years. - Feel me? When I have done my job raising you to be the woman I KNOW you can be, then I will worry about MY life. Till then YOUR ASS BELONGS TO ME."

So this kind of also blows the theory that her and her father's family have perpetrated from the getco that all I care about is me and my pussy and chasing and fucking random men. Who THE HELL would put up with a fraction of this shit to claw to be with an unruly, spoiled, bratty kid?... except a parent that knew that that kid was kicking and screaming for THAT PARENT'S ATTENTION?

It would be sooooooooo easy for me to find some dude to take care of me in diamonds and furs, travel the world, whathaveyou - hell, even WITH my kids these guys line up - and I say sorry, "We can play but I will NOT yield the time I have with my kids. You need to adjust your schedule around the schedule I have with them." If they dont like it - I say, "Buh-bye". So it costs them EXTRA to make arrangements to suit me because I have field trips or I have to babysit my sister's kids or it happens to be "my day with my kids."

They are just men.

I only have a few more formative years to be mother to my children and I will do whatever necessary to make fucking sure that NOT ONE has a pic that ends up on a milk carton, on the coroner's slab in the county morgue, in and out of drug rehab, or pregnant by ANY asshole, let alone one that is as an abusive jerk - just like dear old dad.

Hey Swole - Biteme - or whomever the hell else has had the HYGUE BALLS to sit behind his little computer and THINK they have a clue with cutting/pasting/editing whathaveyou..... where THE FUCK is my red? LOL

 

[tokebloke]

I took a lot of therapy\.

take more

 

[Bikini Mod]

take more

*yawn*

You just sit in your corner and keep toking.

 

[digimon7068]

at what point do you say you can no longer discipline your daughter without having 2nd thoughts about what actions she may take?

I'm planning on stopping when they're around 36. You're a parent it's your job. The children and youth services issue obviously makes things a little more tricky but, if you've done nothing wrong, you don't have anything to worry about. If you fight the good fight and still lose the child, I guarantee you'll sleep a lot better than if you stop parenting. Your actions have to be pure and consistent, both in appearance and in actuality.

 

[HiDnGoD]

I'm planning on stopping when they're around 36. You're a parent it's your job. The children and youth services issue obviously makes things a little more tricky but, if you've done nothing wrong, you don't have anything to worry about. If you fight the good fight and still lose the child, I guarantee you'll sleep a lot better than if you stop parenting. Your actions have to be pure and consistent, both in appearance and in actuality.

And the appearance part really only has to be for the child. They have to know your intentions & motivations, whether they like them or not.
Everyone else can go take a flying fuck at a rolling donut if they think I care about their thoughts on my parenting. I've learned that no one knows my kid like I do. And I almost learned that too late.

 

[Bikini Mod]

My 2nd daughter ( she is 12) just told me that the reason (latest reason - last year - he "just wanted to share" when he was busy jacking the legal bills past the 100K mark) that he wants to take them from me is because I only ever want to take them ice-skating/bowling/the zoo/hang and play with their cousins that they grew up with. Clearly he cant say that I want them for the money as I GET NONE and I am still fighting for them.

I didn't know that I was a bad parent because I didn't book weekly trips to Tahiti, the Grand Caymans and the space shuttle.

Amazing....

 

[madbomber31]

I know my daughter better than anyone. SHE WANTS ME TO FIGHT FOR HER.
The harder she fights me, the harder I will fight back.

She may be stubborn but look up that word in the dictionary - and you'll find THIS MANUGLY BITCH's picture!

She used to say, "You only fight so hard for custody because you want the money." <----her father and his family's words parroted.

Well I haven't gotten a FUCKING DIME LEGALLY (Nope, that judge aint biased) since January and I am fighting harder. So there goes that bullshit lie that her father and his family have been perpetrating since the beginning.

She is rude, spoiled, rotten, disprespectfully and downright nasty on occasion (which gets her REAL FAR with me LOL). Just yesterday she said, "Why dont you just marry some guy (they dont meet ANY man I date but know that the guy is the one that is paying for me to live and be able to keep them) and then I can live with dad?"

I said, "Because baby - I dont NEED to be married to anyone. I NEED to be with you. I can wait four years to be with whomever and if they loved me they would wait the same four years. - Feel me? When I have done my job raising you to be the woman I KNOW you can be, then I will worry about MY life. Till then YOUR ASS BELONGS TO ME."

So this kind of also blows the theory that her and her father's family have perpetrated from the getco that all I care about is me and my pussy and chasing and fucking random men. Who THE HELL would put up with a fraction of this shit to claw to be with an unruly, spoiled, bratty kid?... except a parent that knew that that kid was kicking and screaming for THAT PARENT'S ATTENTION?

It would be sooooooooo easy for me to find some dude to take care of me in diamonds and furs, travel the world, whathaveyou - hell, even WITH my kids these guys line up - and I say sorry, "We can play but I will NOT yield the time I have with my kids. You need to adjust your schedule around the schedule I have with them." If they dont like it - I say, "Buh-bye". So it costs them EXTRA to make arrangements to suit me because I have field trips or I have to babysit my sister's kids or it happens to be "my day with my kids."

They are just men.

I only have a few more formative years to be mother to my children and I will do whatever necessary to make fucking sure that NOT ONE has a pic that ends up on a milk carton, on the coroner's slab in the county morgue, in and out of drug rehab, or pregnant by ANY asshole, let alone one that is as an abusive jerk - just like dear old dad.

Hey Swole - Biteme - or whomever the hell else has had the HYGUE BALLS to sit behind his little computer and THINK they have a clue with cutting/pasting/editing whathaveyou..... where THE FUCK is my red? LOL

it's comments like this entire essay that make me think you are one whacked out lady.. sometimes you seem very normal and down to earth, then you go on a rant about how you could get guys to do anything you want.... obviously you think extremely high of yourself, much higher then you come across in words online.

you also make yourself sound extremely calm with all your conversations with the daughter... never do you make it sound like you yell or act with emotion like people do, you always calmly say "the right thing" if you will...

 

[Razorguns]

I didnt even tell you about the verbal and physical abuse the child suffered at his hands... .

and he blames u for doing the same thing.

he said/she said. yawn.

you're no different than him with all your claims and desire to use the kids as pawn in your tug of wars.

you picked the wrong man to procreate with. Now suffer and pay the price. Should've dated that nerd.

 

[Bikini Mod]

it's comments like this entire essay that make me think you are one whacked out lady.. sometimes you seem very normal and down to earth, then you go on a rant about how you could get guys to do anything you want.... obviously you think extremely high of yourself, much higher then you come across in words online.

you also make yourself sound extremely calm with all your conversations with the daughter... never do you make it sound like you yell or act with emotion like people do, you always calmly say "the right thing" if you will...

LOL

Why is it so hard to believe that I AM calm with my children? Just because you can't imagine it, doesnt mean that it does not exist.

And yes I do have a high opinion of myself and no I can not "make any man" do anything that I want. Bottom line is that if a guy wants to spend his time with me HE MUST accomodate my schedule with my children or he doesnt. Not my loss... it is his.

Why is it so hard to believe that a mother would actually place a higher value on her time with her children than on time with some guy that she barely knows?

And I am VERY passionate but rarely lose my temper. I was raised in an environment with yelling and screaming and DETEST it... so I work doubly hard to make sure that when my kids are with me that same environment does not exist.

 

[Bikini Mod]

and he blames u for doing the same thing.

he said/she said. yawn.

you're no different than him with all your claims and desire to use the kids as pawn in your tug of wars.

you picked the wrong man to procreate with. Now suffer and pay the price. Should've dated that nerd.

WHAT PART OF "I SHARED CUSTODY EVEN WHEN THE COURTS TOOK IT FROM HIM AFTER HE BEAT ME AND THREATENED TO VICIOUSLY KILL ME IN FRONT OF THEM" DIDNT YOU UNDERSTAND?

doh

 

[Razorguns]

WHAT PART OF "I SHARED CUSTODY EVEN WHEN THE COURTS TOOK IT FROM HIM AFTER HE BEAT ME AND THREATENED TO VICIOUSLY KILL ME IN FRONT OF THEM" DIDNT YOU UNDERSTAND?

doh

more accusations. and u blame him for doing the same.

lol @ the emotional drama queen trying to act logical like a male.

 

[Spartacus]

Bikinimom used to hang out in Cherry Hill Park
The game she played lasted all day to way after dark
Now all the girls they criticized her but all the guys just idolized her
‘cause bikinimom was such a thrill after dark, in Cherry Hill Park

Bikinimom loved to ride on the merry-go-round
All the guys got eager eyes watchin’ 'mom go ‘round
Now in the daytime Bikini Mom was a teaser
Come the night she was such a pleaser
Bikini Mom was such a thrill after dark, in Cherry Hill Park

Whoa bikinimom sure was fun down at Cherry Hill Park
Playin’ games with everyone ‘till way after dark
In Cherry Hill Park, in Cherry Hill Park

And then one day, BIKINIMOM, she married away
A man with some money said “Come on honey” and she said “Ok”
She went away to play a one man game
And since that day it ain’t been the same
‘cause Bikini Mom was such a thrill after dark, in Cherry Hill Park

Whoa Bikini Mom sure was fun down at Cherry Hill Park
Playin’ games with everyone ‘till way after dark
In Cherry Hill Park, in Cherry Hill Park
In Cherry Hill Park, in Cherry Hill Park
In Cherry Hill Park, in Cherry Hill Park

 

[Bikini Mod]

more accusations. and u blame him for doing the same.

lol @ the emotional drama queen trying to act logical like a male.

Not accusation darlin - documented FACT.

They do not hand out final orders of protection because someone is "an emotional drama queen". I was the one with the order against him, not the other way around. He was only allowed to see the children one day per week (on sunday) for seven hours. I OFFERED, "Come get them on a Friday and bring them back on Sunday night."

Then he took me back to court to see them for dinners only two days per week. (Tue and Thr). I VOLUNTEERED IN COURT WITHOUT CONSULTING MY ATTORNEY - DONT NEED AN ATTORNEY TO TELL ME WHAT IS "RIGHT" - KEEP THEM OVERNIGHT... offering him a true shared custodial arrangement. Again, with very little support.

I have had to claw and fight tooth and nail for EVERY second with my children. While I freely shared regardless of the fact that he dragged me into court ad nauseum and gave me little to zero support.

That judge (who classically HATED women, but loved me because he could see that I clearly was NOT using the children as pawns even though the law was on my side - I have his words in transcripts) said, "Do NOT deviate from the schedule." And I shared any way and didn't listen. I only did what I thought was best FOR MY CHILDREN. Any time he wanted to take them to a family function or to the fair or whathaveyou that I could NOT afford to take them to because he gave me very little money while I was busting my ass trying to take care of us as a dancer (a job that I was looked down upon for and called "whore" to my children for but it was the only one that I could do where I put in the least amount of time and made enough money to take care of us - the rest of the time I was volunteering in my kids' classes and helping them with homework, taking care of my household, etc so in the end - I WAS PAYING MY BILLS SO EVERYONE COULD KISS MY ROCK HARD ASS) I said, "Sure, go ahead. Be with daddy." While it ate me up alive that I couldnt afford to take them anyplace fun regardless of the fact that I missed out on that time with them, I was happy that at least he was spending money on the kids and not some trick ho. So what did the bastard do?

Keep a calendar of all the times I let the kids go with him on MY TIME and said, "See - she doesnt want those kids. She is always giving them to me!" Meanwhile on "his time" he paid sitters to watch them or took them to work (he is an electrician) and let TOTAL STRANGERS watch them while he worked never once ringing my phone to tell me he needed a sitter.

I NEVER left my children with a sitter to socialize - only to work.

But by then our case got handed to the judge who has been ruining our lives ever since and it didn't make a damned bit of difference what I said or did.

When did you EVER hear that it was the other way around?

Your comments makes ZERO sense.

 

[Bikini Mod]

Bikinimom used to hang out in Cherry Hill Park
The game she played lasted all day to way after dark
Now all the girls they criticized her but all the guys just idolized her
‘cause bikinimom was such a thrill after dark, in Cherry Hill Park

Bikinimom loved to ride on the merry-go-round
All the guys got eager eyes watchin’ 'mom go ‘round
Now in the daytime Bikini Mom was a teaser
Come the night she was such a pleaser
Bikini Mom was such a thrill after dark, in Cherry Hill Park

Whoa bikinimom sure was fun down at Cherry Hill Park
Playin’ games with everyone ‘till way after dark
In Cherry Hill Park, in Cherry Hill Park

And then one day, BIKINIMOM, she married away
A man with some money said “Come on honey” and she said “Ok”
She went away to play a one man game
And since that day it ain’t been the same
‘cause Bikini Mom was such a thrill after dark, in Cherry Hill Park

Whoa Bikini Mom sure was fun down at Cherry Hill Park
Playin’ games with everyone ‘till way after dark
In Cherry Hill Park, in Cherry Hill Park
In Cherry Hill Park, in Cherry Hill Park
In Cherry Hill Park, in Cherry Hill Park

LOL Maybe not too far off the mark......

 

[juiceddreadlocks]

jerseyart said you were quite a thrill

 

[Bikini Mod]

jerseyart said you were quite a thrill

I am a thrill in the dreams of many! LOL

 

[juiceddreadlocks]

I am a thrill in the dreams of many! LOL

I'm sure I could get farther than him.

 

[Bikini Mod]

I'm sure I could get farther than him.

That would be quite a feat as in all my time on elite only ONE MAN has gotten remotely closer.

 

[juiceddreadlocks]

That would be quite a feat as in all my time on elite only ONE MAN has gotten remotely closer.

oh baby you dont stand a chance.

 

[Bikini Mod]

oh baby you dont stand a chance.

LOL Then feel free to email me your resume.

 

[Razorguns]

Yeah yeah, his words against you. your anger against his. You married an equally pissed asshole. That complements you, now reap what you sow.

American Women. Pfft.

 

[Spartacus]

I want to fuck a girl named Helen
haven't done that yet

 

[Bikini Mod]

Yeah yeah, his words against you. your anger against his. You married an equally pissed asshole. That complements you, now reap what you sow.

American Women. Pfft.

Ummm nope - I had a final order of protection and I shared custody anyway with ZERO childsupport at the time. FACT.

What was that? Did I hear a crickets chirping. Sure the shit wasn't an apology. LOL A man would have zero difficulty owning up to being wrong.


I am only American because my mother gave birth to me in this country. I didn't even learn to speak English until I was five. But thanks for the compliment.

I predict that most of our troubles will be ancient history in the next several months as my daughters are FINALLY beginning to open their eyes. Our custodial case is up for review and it will NOT involve this imbecile judge (who I WILL sue civilly if I find a lawyer to do it. I have the proof I need that he was biased from the getco, based all his rulings on falacy and NOT fact and has all but ruined the lives of my children and nearly driven me to the brink of suicide.) - One never knows for sure what will happen but I predict the tides will be changing.

 

[SlimJim52]

Any child would enjoy ruling the roost - staying out till all hours, wearing makeup like a 2$ ho, wearing clothing that is waaaaaay too tight and sheer, not caring about grades, IMing on the computer all day/tying up the phone, disrespecting her younger sisters.... And actually having expensive gifts bought for her if she did those things while the others got no such treatment.

Just because a child "enjoys" eating ice cream for breakfast that does not mean that you allow them to.

I am not being sarcastic - just being straight up honest.

Mmm, but you have to admit, Chocolate Ice Cream on my morning waffles would be OH SO GOOD ! Mom served em up like that or with confectionary sugar and Maple syrup. either way, Thanks mom.