help with women

[i be kiz]

aight so theres this girl i've had my eye on for a while, and she's on the rebound so i wanna make my move as i think she may be a bit above me. Im only 16 but she's got a license so i guess its ok. my friend is going out with her best friend right now, but i've only talked to her a few times in passing. I'm wondering what the best attack plan would be as I don't wanna fuck this up and I've never reached about my league before. BTW she has a shit personality but thats not why I'm going for her so what do you bros have to say?

 

[boscoe wilson]

Aight. Well, first of all, I'm not a bro, but as a girl who's had her share of being on the 'reboud', I'd love to make a contribution.

First of all, I'm making the assumption you do want to be the rebound guy whose in it for sex alone, and understands she will toss you away one day very soon.

Now that's outta the way, find out what kindof guy her X was. If he was too lovey w/her, then to get in her pants you'll need to be the cool tough guy who doesn't need a relationship. If her X was a badass who dumped her, then be the sensitive guy who cares about her needs. It really is that simple.

 

[Testosterone boy]

Good lord.....we all need that brother.

 

[i be kiz]

hmm well im pretty sure all she wants is rebound action, and i'd be ready and willing to provide, but wouldn't mind either if it led to something. I don't really know how to find out what her ex was like without revealing my intentions to her best friend

 

[boscoe wilson]

In that case, play it cool. Not too tough, but don't go the sensitive road unless you know for sure. Also, if you want more than sex, then don't be the rebound guy. The rebound guy is only good for one thing...making us feel better about the fact that our relationship has ended. Thats it. Once we feel better, your otta there.

 

[jerkbox]

if she's just looking for rebound action......a few compliments, heavy flirting, if she's attracted to you....shouldn't be a problem

 

[i be kiz]

hmm...how long does one wait to avoid being the rebound guy...i think this thing ended a week ago or so

 

[boscoe wilson]

I don't know. If she's as young as you, probably not too long.

 

[i be kiz]

aight...so just start casually talking to her and all and see where it goes? don't wanna blow this chance

 

[boscoe wilson]

Definately. Sounds to me like you aren't trying to get in her pants. Sounds more like you really like this girl. Good luck.

 

[Testosterone boy]

Definately. Sounds to me like you aren't trying to get in her pants. Sounds more like you really like this girl. Good luck.

 

[i be kiz]

well i found out that HE dumped her and said it was cause of distnace ...supposedly he wasnt too great looking either

 

[boscoe wilson]

If he was ugly, then the cat's in the bag.

 

[n1tro]

Just feed it to her already....