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daised

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my friends and I were out one night and we met this guy, lets call him, ummm donny. OKay so we meet this guy and my friend ummm let's say her name is laura gives him my phone number. Now he keeps calling me. i can't just be like look - you disgust me! i'm supose to met him at 7:00 tonight, at a place that is 45 miin. from my house! i'm not going to show up but he is really scary
 
hell you better call him and tell him your not going to be there...Just say that you and an Ex boyfriend are getting back together
 
but i am so scared, i am literally shaking. this guy seems scary. i don't know his last name, or his phone number. but he knows my phone number and name. ( plus i'm sure he knows more about me too)

i don't have caller id so it's either pick up the phone or don't
 
jennifer said:
Thats not cool at all......not only are you waisting his night, your going to make him feel horrible (if he really does like you)
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yup

call him and tell him your getting back with your ex, or that your a lesbian. eitherway let him down gently but be fair
 
he also knows where i use to work b/c she gave him both numbers ( i use to work a lot and the only way to reach me was at work)
 
Maybe your friend Laura is a stupid bitch and you should at least be decent to Donny and let him go, just explain what happened.
 
tell him you are seeing someone. or tell him that you heard he has a little dick.
 
gymtime said:


Because ummm laura gave him her phone numer. Aren't you listening?
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I guess it's been a while since I was single, But I do remember getting phone numbers that did not imply a 7pm date. My mistake.

YD
 
Frackal said:
Maybe your friend Laura is a stupid bitch and you should at least be decent to Donny and let him go, just explain what happened.
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this is a good idea, but once agian , this guy frightens me.
 
I am sure the guy will get over it. If you are that afraid have"laura" call and cancel for you. She did get you into this mess in the first place.
YD
 
Just get some guts and tell the poor guy your not coming--don't give him any excuses because that will just piss him off even more----

How does he know where you live?

Maybe you should just meet him and get a free dinner, lol

j/k
 
i dont know about anyone else

but i dont know what other possible answer you are looking for that isnt already here

is there some detail you have missed out?
 
take laura's number and write a adult services card. place this in the telephone booth next to the sex shop where you live. i dont see why she would hav given out your number to a creepy guy unless she wanted too, so repay the favour :)

as for him, tell him you just got backwith your bf and hes really possesive so he shoulnt call again. if he does then tell him more sternly your with someone and you dont want to talk to another man. and buy some mace
 
Stop being a stupid bitch and go have dinner with the guy.

What do you think is gonna happen?

If anything, IF he really were dangerous and wanted to kill you, don't you think he would do it much more slowly if you stand him up??? I think so.

Is there any reasons he's given you to be scared? And, from the sounds of it you set up this little dinner date, and now you want out of it, because you are a bitch and he "disgusts" you.

DISCLAIMER - You are normally pretty levelheaded, take the *bitch* term lightly.
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I gotta go w/ Jenn on this again. After all the threads about how fucked up guys think girls are????? WTF??? Its due to 2 things:

1) People don't communicate - dont' have to be mean, but for God's sake just tell the guy where you stand -- it was a mistake, your friend gave him your number and she shouldn't have. sorry.

2) Not having the guts to just say it.

Guess what - if you blow this guy off, he may end up feeling really bad about himself, he'll hate you and probably start bitching to all his friends about you. If you ever run into him again, you will probably do everything you can to not be seen by him.

Wonderful. No wonder guys think women are fucked up. No wonder you are scared of him -- he keeps calling because you haven't been clear that you are not interested. And now you are on a Chat board asking how to avoid this weird guy who makes you feel like you are beign stalked. Everyone ends up drawing their own weird conclusions because nobody was giving straight
answers.

This guy "donny" could be Frackel, madbomber, I think Furious had a thread about how fucked in the head women are ..... Shit - no wonder. He could possibly be a really cool guy. He's taking a chance on gettign rejected just trying to get an answer from you.

Welcome to the dating game.
 
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I agree. You would be suprised at how well honesty works. It also gives you a good reputation for being forthright, and a strong person. Not to mention I think many guys find it sexy to find a chick who doesn't play those games. Get in the habit, it will work out well for you in the end.
 
if it's a dude with a wooden leg with a kickstand and an afro with a chinstrap that would be me you're calling scary. and you're late. I was gonna buy you some big mac's and some milwakees best.
 
daised said:
my friends and I were out one night and we met this guy, lets call him, ummm donny.
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Wait a minute! Is this "donny" really Donny Walburg? Marky Marks Walburg's brother? Holy shit! his career is dead. ditch him. now.

Sorry I'm not being serious.
 
ver funny everyone, i'm back. i sucked it up and went. he wanted to go "driving around" but i was like ummm no. so we had a quick dinner at Arby's (i paid for myself) then i told him, i thought he was nice but i'm currently dating someone. so we shook hands and left. he said he was going to call me this weekend.

He creeps me out because he just pounces on me. like we'll just be sitting there and he'll start kissing me & i'm like umm hello i have to breathe. i don't know him that well and he'll try to do something. i stop him then about 5 minutees later he tries it again. i guess he's just the typical male, i really can't hold it agianst him, but there will be no second "date"
 
Just fuck him and be done with it. Once he get that pussy, he will never call you again. :)
 
BO-CEPHUS said:
Just fuck him and be done with it. Once he get that pussy, he will never call you again. :)
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thanks for the advice, but 1) i'm not into one night stands and 2) i don't know if he has an std

ps 3) i love puc
 
dazed, your posts are amazing...you don't really believe you'll get much sympathy from the predominantly male crowd on this board?!?

Based on the little info you gave, I feel bad for the dude.

And if your seeing puc, why are you going on dates with other guys?

shady story...
 
okay, so i guess i won't get sympathy.

secondly, puc and i are currently in some legal shit so we are not allowed to "have contact" with one another, therfore we are dating other people also.
 
daised said:
okay, so i guess i won't get sympathy.

secondly, puc and i are currently in some legal shit so we are not allowed to "have contact" with one another, therfore we are dating other people also.
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What kind of legal shit could you two be in?
 
i'm not allowed to talk about it right now, but it'll be over with in about a wekk and then i'm sure puc will start a thread and tell you all about it.
 
Good job daised -- just say it and get it overwith. The guy probably has lots of insecurities around women. I had a guy do that to me -- I met him at my gym and we had lots in common and he was very nice and all. But as soon as I spent any time w/ him he got annoying. Then when he tried to suck my face off during an attack kiss that was pretty much it. Shit - he was like 37 and acting like a fucking 15 year old. Next.
 
Thats because women are babies, first off your sitting there useing him for your little ego trip. If you and your friend din't like him, don't use his attention. Then when he calls, tell him the truth.

Whats the worst that could have happened anyway you got a good meal, a free movie...


what has happened to woman these days
stop crying, there are people dieing in this world, and your stupid mind is stuck on how to get out of a free dinner.
 
Preach on brudda - It's time for the hoe killa revolt against the oppressive vaginas that really rule the world.

Hey check your email BTW
 
hey I'm a typical male and maybe one of the biggest pigs in the world but I would never pull that shit, especially if it's the "first date" ( i know it wasn't a date). Honestly you should have never met up with him alone in the first place. don't ever do that again because there are many many sicko's in the world.

Arbys? please. Change you phone number and never let your friends give your digits out without your permission. unless it's to the nature boy.

seriously, be careful. i don't know the stat but 1 out of 3 women are raped in their lifetime. I may be wrong but don't become a statistic.
 
yeah and post your f-ing tits!

(typical male :D )

seriously, if he tries to call you again tell him youve got back with your bf.....i wouldnt have gone personally as now he'll be banging at a door he thought was open for him
 
thanks nature boy it's good to know at least one male is on my side.being raped was kinda what i was afraid of.


danielson, i made it clear that the door was closed
 
i dont think they can see each other for legal reasons or something....:D

i hope you did make sure of the....the fumbled kisses and actually meeting him might create a different picture in his mind. if you need to be cold to him do it straight out, on the off chance he keeps calling dont keep the 'let him down gently thing on for too long.
 
thanks everyone for the advice, next time he calls me. i'll just straight out tell him no- even though i did this last night
 
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