Help, going thru major anxiety

[skywalker66]

guys,

we all know how fucked up am i and all, but right now I'm having some serious problems.

Like you know how I could get obsessed about little stupid things and think about the all the time until my mind was lost from the rest of the world, and I was lost in a world of confusion not knowing any answers to my original questions, extreme anxiety attacks, and leaving myself with big headaches afterwards.

when i get into these anxiety attacks i cant think or do anything else at all. sometimes my life stops for like 3 hours while i think about something and i can never find answers or resolve what im thinking about. Actually usually I will, but it will happen much later on, and then a new problem comes up in my head.

For example, earlier it was my diet that I always thought about. I was constantly going back and forth between ideas, couldnt figure out what was wrong or right, and I'm very glad that I've finally settled on something.

Now my new issue is girls. I can't decide how I would go about dating them and in what situations and what not.

like i dont know if it would be my style to ask girls out that u see in public vs. whether I should just wait and just ask the girls out that are apart of my regular life.

i dont really know what the point of dating is anymore. some ppl do it to find someone they like, but it seems like others just do it for kicks, and im wondering if it would be worthwhile for me to do it for kicks, and if that is possible without having sexual stuff involved, etc, etc, etc,

as you can see im in a big fuckin mess.

 

[BO-CEPHUS]

Go see a damn doctor or something!

Do you really believe that us here at elitefitness chat board can solve your problems?

Get help fast

From your posts, I see a bullet and your head meeting in the near future.

 

[vinylgroover]

guys,

Now my new issue is girls. I can't decide how I would go about dating them and in what situations and what not.

like i dont know if it would be my style to ask girls out that u see in public vs. whether I should just wait and just ask the girls out that are apart of my regular life.

i dont really know what the point of dating is anymore. some ppl do it to find someone they like, but it seems like others just do it for kicks, and im wondering if it would be worthwhile for me to do it for kicks, and if that is possible without having sexual stuff involved, etc, etc, etc,

You new issue is girls? As i remember, every one of your posts under the name P60 was about girls.

The point of dating is to meet girls. Don't you like sex. I mean there is something to be said for holding hands and idle banter, but waxing one's lance is quite enjoyable as well.

Sexual stuff is good, trust me.

 

[skywalker66]

Go see a damn doctor or something!

Do you really believe that us here at elitefitness chat board can solve your problems?

Get help fast

From your posts, I see a bullet and your head meeting in the near future.

i cant get a visit with a doctor for a month,
because i'm moving off to college in a month, and i have to schedule appointments up there from now on.

and even if i wasnt moving, it would still take a damn month to get an appointment.

 

[BO-CEPHUS]

i cant get a visit with a doctor for a month,
because i'm moving off to college in a month, and i have to schedule appointments up there from now on.

and even if i wasnt moving, it would still take a damn month to get an appointment.

Thats a bullshit excuse. There is no reason you can search around for a doctor than can see you much sooner. It is possible.....trust me!

 

[creep]

Thats a bullshit excuse. There is no reason you can search around for a doctor than can see you much sooner. It is possible.....trust me!

I agree, just tell the receptionist what you posted here. I'm sure they'll give you an appointment ASAP or send someone to pick you up.

 

[skywalker66]

Re: Re: Help, going thru major anxiety

You new issue is girls? As i remember, every one of your posts under the name P60 was about girls.

The point of dating is to meet girls. Don't you like sex. I mean there is something to be said for holding hands and idle banter, but waxing one's lance is quite enjoyable as well.

Sexual stuff is good, trust me.

yea it feels good,

but i have morals. and i dont believe that people are supposed to be having sex with tons of ppl all the time,

infact i say save it for one person! i dont want to get side tracked into dating for sex, if im dating someone. and i dont like the idea of rushing other sexual stuff.


but like people are telling me that i should date girls anyway this summer, even though i only have 1 month before college starts, and im outta here.

i mean i thought the whole point of dating was to find someone to get involved in a good relationship with, right?
it sounds like some ppl will date, for reasons that relate to appearances only. and then they 'get to know the persons personality later' thru dating? wtf?

how the hell do you keep all of that straight? like how do you know who you are really interested if your dating 5 different girls that you all met at the beach,
and say there's this fine chick that goes to the same school as you, that you talk to everyday??

and how the heck do you decide how much time you should alot to dating? like how much is too little and how much is too much?

I know this one guy who basically isnt close friends with anyone at all, but he's also a player, who has a date literally every night of the week!

Everything is so dang confusing!!

 

[vinylgroover]

I can't believe i'm hearing this. THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH YOU.

Fuck, since when is a bit of shyness suddenly a mental disorder. Get off your PC and get out and start meeting or at least talking to women.

Get a grip on yourself. The 'problems' you're talking about such as diet, girls etc are so trivial that it's insulting to those out there who really have problems. There are people out there who don't know where their next meal is coming from or who have bombs landing within 5 metres of where they stand, and you say you need to go and see a doctor because you're anxious about diet and girls.

You need to get some perspective, and start thinking and doing more positively. LIFE IS GOOD.

 

[thermo]

I can't feel my face.

 

[BO-CEPHUS]

The first thing you need to do is stop asking all these question and thinking about this shit. You will fuck up every single time if you are thinking all these situations out and trying to figure the perfect way to go about this. Just be yourself and just let things happen the way they happen.

It will all workout in the end.....

 

[Lifter4Life]

Quit whining you pussy take some xanax! Lifter

 

[skywalker66]

I can't believe i'm hearing this. THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH YOU.

Fuck, since when is a bit of shyness suddenly a mental disorder. Get off your PC and get out and start meeting or at least talking to women.

Get a grip on yourself. The 'problems' you're talking about such as diet, girls etc are so trivial that it's insulting to those out there who really have problems. There are people out there who don't know where their next meal is coming from or who have bombs landing within 5 metres of where they stand, and you say you need to go and see a doctor because you're anxious about diet and girls.

You need to get some perspective, and start thinking and doing more positively. LIFE IS GOOD.

if my problems are so trivial then how come i dont know the answers???
how come i sit around for hours feeling really shitty because i have no clue what to do or anything?

I'm not shy, i can talk to ppl just fine, provided i dont have a headache and am not in a really fucking confusing anxiety frenzy!

 

[creep]

I don't understand????
Just go with the flow.

When I was 18 I was so busy thinking about having fun and getting laid that the REAL problems in my life didn't matter.

Try to relax, smoke a joint, go out and have a good time.

 

[skywalker66]

I don't understand????
Just go with the flow.

When I was 18 I was so busy thinking about having fun and getting laid that the REAL problems in my life didn't matter.

Try to relax, smoke a joint, go out and have a good time.

i dont even know what my flow is!?!?!

it IS a real problem, when you cant be natural, when you have no clue what u want to do to have fun,etc.

 

[vinylgroover]

if my problems are so trivial then how come i dont know the answers???
how come i sit around for hours feeling really shitty because i have no clue what to do or anything?

You just answered your own question. Get out, keep yourself occupied. Sitting at home thinking about shit will send you nuts. It sounds like you have way too much time on your hands. Get outdoors and get some air and clear your mind, 'cause there is nothing wrong with you.

We all think about shit, but it's how you deal with shit that matters. You are not dealing with anything by sitting around moping. It's all about having a positive mindset, because i can tell you know, chicks and people in general can pick a negative, pessimistic attitude from a mile off and people don't want to be around negativity.

 

[BO-CEPHUS]

checkout this message board.

sliceofpeach2 will help out will all your problems.



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[skywalker66]

You just answered your own question. Get out, keep yourself occupied. Sitting at home thinking about shit will send you nuts. It sounds like you have way too much time on your hands. Get outdoors and get some air and clear your mind, 'cause there is nothing wrong with you.

We all think about shit, but it's how you deal with shit that matters. You are not dealing with anything by sitting around moping. It's all about having a positive mindset, because i can tell you know, chicks and people in general can pick a negative, pessimistic attitude from a mile off and people don't want to be around negativity.

problem...

right now my job isnt giving me hardly any hours at all, so i've been around the house thinking way too much.

also it doesnt help the fact that 2 really good friends of mine and me got into a big argument and we pretty much hate each other now.
not like it really mattered tho, since those guys never really had any respect for me.

and the fact that i dont have any hobbies that really interest me.

I can get hobbies, but getting friends takes longer, and getting hours at work is something i've fought for, without success.

 

[vinylgroover]

Just hang in there, but find some interests. Surely there is something out there you can do with your time.

 

[HappyScrappy]

I'm not even gonna read all of this post.
this guy asks for help - people give him several different solutions.
he then ignores them all and does the shit anyway, then comes back here whining about it again.

all in all, he needs to just fucking deal.

I used to be more understanding - but dude, you have made no fucking effort at all in this shit.

 

[vinylgroover]

That's what frustrates me the most. I have tried, but unless he wants to help himself, there's no use me trying.

 

[skywalker66]

I'm not even gonna read all of this post.
this guy asks for help - people give him several different solutions.
he then ignores them all and does the shit anyway, then comes back here whining about it again.

all in all, he needs to just fucking deal.

I used to be more understanding - but dude, you have made no fucking effort at all in this shit.

happy scrappy,

FUCK YOU!

I listen to every single fucking piece of advice that ppl give me here! I'm always following someone's solution and trying to solve my problems!

The fuck do you know about anything??!?!?!?!?!??



What the fuck about me helping myself Vinyl???

The fuck do you want me to do??>????

the hell, i dont even know what i want! which makes it a hella lot harder for me to know what to do

 

[BO-CEPHUS]

All I can do is laugh.

I am truely sorry.

 

[skywalker66]

That's what frustrates me the most. I have tried, but unless he wants to help himself, there's no use me trying.

tell me what the fuck u want me to do.

and no, i will not hoar myself around or get laid.

 

[BO-CEPHUS]

Can you not understand the point here? WE cannot tell you what to do or solve these problems. This is something you must solve on your own. If you cannot, well you better find some great drugs to get you through the rest of your life.

Go buy a dog or something.

 

[creep]

do you have access to a gun or a rope?

 

[skywalker66]

do you have access to a gun or a rope?

i sit around waiting for more decent responses to my question.

this does not qualify!!

 

[creep]

well then why are you still here? go out, make an effort to have fun and enjoy life. Or are you expecting it to come to you? You have to make things happen in life. If it were as easy as you'd like we'd all be happy. I'm not always happy but when I'm down I find something that makes me feel better.

 

[BO-CEPHUS]

read the bible

pray

 

[HighIntensity]

BO is actually dead on find god, family anthing but this board, this is a playground not a fuckin help center.

man the fuck up

 

[BO-CEPHUS]

beat your meat

build a sand castle

 

[Evloks]

STOP MARINATING IN YOUR OWN SELF PITY,GET UP OFF YO ASS, TRY TO HAVE SOME FUN.

if u don't know what u want, then FIND THE FUCK OUT. Find out what the fuck U want U to do, find some hobbies, find some friends, and stop whining like a BITCH.

If all else fails, get some counseling

 

[Bullit]

Holy Christ.
Sad.

How many times I gotta say it.... BOOZE