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Have you ever cheated on your mate?

Have you ever cheated on anyone?

  • Yes I have cheated before.

    Votes: 13 39.4%

  • No I have never cheated on anyone.

    Votes: 16 48.5%
  • Total voters
    33
GenetiKing

GenetiKing

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Anyone you've ever been serious with...

And yes...just kissing and/or making out with someone else counts too, not just sexual play.

If you didn't, why not?

If you did...why? And did you feel guilty?
 
Ha, I don't consider it cheating, but once when me and my ex were on a break I kissed a girl at a club. That isn't cheating though. If you drunk and in different cities it's not cheating. That is just a given.
 
pushing_fe said:
Ha, I don't consider it cheating, but once when me and my ex were on a break I kissed a girl at a club. That isn't cheating though. If you drunk and in different cities it's not cheating. That is just a given.
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I think it depends on what kind of "break" you guys were having. Did you ever tell her about it? If you didn't, doesn't that make you wonder what she's done that she hasn't told you?

I'm not being nosey...just asking.
 
Hell No! I would never cheat on my wife! I don't care how hot she is! It's not my style!

I have been married for almost 15 years and the notion has never entered my mind. I must admit though that I always seem to point out girls to my wife that I think are very attractive. She doesn't mind though....but she always disagree with me as I disagree with the guys she points out! We are very secure in our marriage.
 
GenetiKing said:


I think it depends on what kind of "break" you guys were having. Did you ever tell her about it? If you didn't, doesn't that make you wonder what she's done that she hasn't told you?

I'm not being nosey...just asking.
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Well we were seperated, and she moved out for a couple weeks. I have never told her about it because I didn't consider it a big deal. I mean it was just like a 5 second kiss. Anyways, right after that she saw my wedding band and said that she doesn't mess around with married guys. So she ended up hooking up with one of my friends.

She was a damn Florida graduate in town to watch the SEC championship at the Georgia Dome. Damn Gator, I wanted to screw her and cum in her face and yell "How does it feel to get fucked by a DAWG!"

:D :D :D
 
I cheated on someone when I was 19. I felt really bad about it, especially when she found out. Since then I have never cheated again.
 
Have never cheated, but have been cheated on..... its the worst feeling, to know that you could have, but had the decency not to, and she didn't even have the common courtesy to admit it for a long time. Bitch. But, I would never cheat on anyone I am seeing, and would never mess with someone who was seeing someone else. Not my style.
 
I am lesbian and have only cheated on a girl once. I made out basically with another girl in a club after being a bit too drunk. I felt so guilty and told my girlfriend the next day. She hit me in the head because she felt so hurt. I was only 18 then (33 now) and i have not ever touched another girl when i was in a monogomous couple with another girl.

Trust is SO important. Dont destroy it.
 
"MAKING OUT" OR KISSING IS NOT CHEATING. ITS WRONG, BUT ITS NOT CHEATING.

CHEATING WOULD BE SOMETHING LIKE CUNNINLINGUS/FELLATIO, INTERCOURSE, OR THINGS OF THE LIKE. HOWEVER, IT ALL HURTS SOMEONES FEELINGS IF YOU DO IT REGARDLESS.


KAYNE
 
KAYNE said:
"MAKING OUT" OR KISSING IS NOT CHEATING. ITS WRONG, BUT ITS NOT CHEATING.
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Maybe you're right.

But if I was dating a girl that I was totally in love with and I found she just kissed another guy, I would be very hurt. That's why I don't have serious ho. If I did have one, I might develop feelings and that leads to the possibility of getting hurt.

So I just have sex with women and try to curb any emotion I feel developing for them.

Alright, I'll answer my own pole. Have I cheated? Yes.
Did I feel guilty? Yeah, but only a little because I knew I loved my girl at the time very much and even though I was fucking this other girl, I knew nothing would change how I felt about my girl.

The girl I cheated on her with was hot as fuck and I found out she wanted to fuck me, so I felt it was my duty as a heterosexual, red blooded American male to service her. I only fucked her twice, however I did feel some guilt both times, it was minimal.

Anyway, it's worse for a girl to be promiscuous than a guy.

Before anyone jumps my ass, I'd like to say that I have been cheated on too...more than once with different girls. It is a horrible feeling.
 
I consider making out with another girl cheating definitely. Believe me, if your significant other found out you made out with someone else they would think its cheating as well.

And in answer to the question: Yes. I got a blow job while I was dating this one girl. But she was in a different state. So oh well.
 
I voted NO but I'm still debating a Business trip to Denver when at a Bar with friends, I was pulled into a Bachelorete party and danced with the DRUNK as hell Bride to be and some of her maids....

Yes, there was kissing(1-2) and no tongue's were involved...
 
magdelana said:
Why is it worse for us to cheat?? :confused:
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Because men have more cheating urges than women. We are geared that way through biology.

Mother nature has placed most of the burden of human procreation upon the shoulders of the male. Men are innately programmed to fuck, and fuck as much as they can, until the day they die.

A woman will typically seek emotional and physical security in a man and, for that reason, women are usually more monogamous-minded than men as long as their needs are met. In a steady relationship, a satisfied male is more likely to be unfaithful than a satisfied female.

Also, all men subconsciously fear rearing a child that isn't one of his own (it happens more than you think) through the actions of a promiscuous female. Why invest scarce resources (i.e. money, time, emotional involvment, food, clothing) in an offspring that doesn't even contain your genetic makeup?

That's why it's worse for women to cheat than men.
 
For me personally I don't think I have the guts to do it. I was always raised to respect and to honor women at an young age, so I can honestly say I wouldn't cheat at all.
 
I don't mean to hijack this post but here's another thought:


Is it considered cheating if you were engaged in some type of sexual activity online with somebody else beside your S/O?

Of course, it's only Internet but the person you're doing it with is actually a human being, not a figment of your imagination.

Just a thought.

Back to the topic.
 
Mysterio said:


It's wrong!
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Mysterio,

Of course it's wrong...but I would like to know if people that have cheated felt guilty. And those that never have, why not? Never had the opportunity? Don't want to abuse trust?

I'm just interested in the psychology surrounding the behavior, not on the morality of it.

BTW, you named after the wrestler or the Spider-man villian?
 
Interesting replies.


No one seems to have mentioned emotional cheating.....
 
Parrottrifle said:
Is it considered cheating if you were engaged in some type of sexual activity online with somebody else beside your S/O?
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I think depends on the relationship you have with your mate. If you feel significantly guilty about a particular action, and you also think your mate would be hurt if he/she found out...then you have cheated. Right?
 
GenetiKing said:


Mysterio,

Of course it's wrong...but I would like to know if people that have cheated felt guilty. And those that never have, why not? Never had the opportunity? Don't want to abuse trust?

I'm just interested in the psychology surrounding the behavior, not on the morality of it.

BTW, you named after the wrestler or the Spider-man villian?
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Haha! :FRlol: Man if I got a dime for everytime someone has told me that I'd be a rich man right now. My name is related to my favorite wrestler of all time Rey Mysterio Jr. BOYEE!!!!!! :D

And if someone dosen't feel remorse for cheating they are heartless with no morals at all. :mad:
 
GenetiKing said:


Corn,
What do you mean by "emotional cheating"? Can you define that?
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Sure. It's a new term thrown around by psychologists. Basically it means confiding personal issues with someone other than your SO. When this happens the two people tend to draw closer outside of any physical contact. The two cross into a nether region of more than friends but less than lovers. Two co-workers who work closely and spend a lot of time together would be a possible example of this happening, etc.
 
Cornholio said:
Sure. It's a new term thrown around by psychologists. Basically it means confiding personal issues with someone other than your SO.
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Hmmm...interesting. I really don't know about that.

But I can honestly say that if I was married and found out my wife rode another dude's cock, I would be more upset than if I found out she cried on another's guy's shoulder. Wouldn't you?

Since you brought this up I have to think that almost no one is truly monogamous in a pure sense of the word. I'm sure some people would even define fantasizing about someone else as cheating. If that's the case, nearly everyone has cheated.
 
GenetiKing said:



Anyway, it's worse for a girl to be promiscuous than a guy.
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Oh hell no GK. I have never understood the reasoning behind this moronic logic. If a girl is promiscuous, she is a slut. If a guy is, he's just making a name for himself in this big bad man's world. Yeah, that makes so much damn sense to me. That doesn't make him highly respected because he has so many screws under his belt. Would you like to pull out rulers and start measuring next?


Anyway, now that I have ranted on guys vs. girls, I'll shut up.
 
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"eatin' ain't cheatin" ???

my broly/best friend/partner in higher acts of stupidity believes that if he kisses and licks......down there......then he is not cheating on his wife b/c no penis insertion is taking place.

he believes this because:

now that they have 2 kids, his wife sez she is done with sex, and

he views himself as the pussy eating champ of n.e. tennessee.



i disagree with all of the above.
 
Re: "eatin' ain't cheatin" ???

rnch said:
my broly/best friend/partner in higher acts of stupidity believes that if he kisses and licks......down there......then he is not cheating on his wife b/c no penis insertion is taking place.

he believes this because:

now that they have 2 kids, his wife sez she is done with sex, and

he views himself as the pussy eating champ of n.e. tennessee.



i disagree with all of the above.
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I'M NOT INTO CHEATING BUT IF I WERE MARRIED AND MY WIFE SAID SHE WAS DONE WITH SEX, I'D CHEAT ON HER ASS EVERY DAY BEFORE I DIVORCED HER.


KAYNE
 
JayBro said:
If your not cheating on your mate your cheating yourself
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LMFAO


Seriously no I have never cheated nor am I concerned that I would as I have excellent self control and despise hurting other people.
 
Never cheated .......never will. If I want someone else then that means I don't want the person I am with.... It's so much easier just to break it off.

Star
 
Once you have been cheated on, there is no way you could do that to someone you care about. At least I could never do it to anyone.
 
Yes, As often as I can.. wouldn't you if your spouse didn't give you sex for over 1 year and she started growing dark hair on her arms?


-LMFAO
 
CrimsonKing said:
Yes, As often as I can.. wouldn't you if your spouse didn't give you sex for over 1 year and she started growing dark hair on her arms?
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Hell yes, I would cheat then. That's friggin' nasty. If your spouse she has no more respect for your relationship than to let herself go to that extent, then you are fully entitled to show your disrespect for the relationship by finding some strange ass to tap.

JMHO
 
Never cheated. i think once you get to the point of feeling the need for someone else's attention, emotionally or sexually, it's time to let go of the relationship and not waste eachothers time. Cheating will only lead to problems and heartache, i think it's just unnecessary.
 
YUP

and every time I didnt do it I regretted it later. I missed ouit on some absolutely amazing women out of some warped sense of honor. stupid.

You only live once. Make the best of every opportunity.
 
Re: YUP

Milo Hobgoblin said:
and every time I didnt do it I regretted it later. I missed ouit on some absolutely amazing women out of some warped sense of honor. stupid.

You only live once. Make the best of every opportunity.
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amen

I have noticed that most of the females who have responded say they would not cheat while the men seem more divided on the issue.

I think this just reinforces the society's unspoken generalization that is natural for a male to be promiscuous, yet it is immoral for a woman to have multiple sex partners.

Although I think there are valid reasons this double standard exists.
 
I've never cheated on any of my bf's. I dated two guys at the same time, but I don't think that counts.

I have been cheated on though. My first real bf cheated on me 5 times with his ex-girlfriend. When I first found out, they had already been together 3 times. She came to my house the night before my prom and said, "I just want you to know that I still fuck your bf and I still suck his dick."

Yeah... that was nice of her. Love, first love, made me blind. We went to the prom together, and he cheated on me again afterwards. Live and learn, right?
 
Have i cheated? No

Have i been cheated on: Not that i ever found out about, but it wouldn't worry me greatly. I pick my things up and move on. No one person is more important than my own happiness and self respect.
 
I cheated on her with 4 different girls in the beginning of the relationship. But as soon as we got serious, I was faithful all the way to the end.
 
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