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Had a bad day again
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needtogetaas
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same here bro.theoak01 said:
theoak01
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im in the middle of a bad spell,its really not just a bad day,I hate my job and ive been revaluating it and this job will allow me to survive,but it will take me years to get out of debt so that means living at home with mommy and daddy for 2-3 yrs until I can then afford to work towards my career.
Im just spinning my wheels and its depressing,but I guess your right it could be worse
Im just spinning my wheels and its depressing,but I guess your right it could be worse
GoldenDelicious
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think on the brightside. make your day better today. call up some buddies and go out. staying home rotting of boredom never helped anyone out of a hole before
theoak01
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Sassy69 said:Always nice to have someone put things in perspective for you.
Hope the sun brings a better day for you Oak. I've always noticed that the shittiest parts of my life usually make pretty good stories at a later date...
ya thats the truth sassy,thanks for the kind words
gd its 3ambro all my friends have normal day jobs or school,i work afternoons
GoldenDelicious
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oh. lol. well...youre screwed. have an ambien, goodnight!theoak01 said:
GoldenDelicious
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lol have a big glass of water. helps it kick in fastertheoak01 said:
i hate days like that. its when i palm everyone out of the way - even people who arent IN the way
- and go to my bed
Scotsman
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Just hold your head high Oak. I'm not going to blow smoke up your ass and tell you that when life gives you lemons you should make lemonade or any of that shit. I know what you're going through, I was on the verge of total ruin four years ago, I could barely afford ramen noodles and tuna. I've actually had to make the decision whether to eat or put gas in my car that's something no one should ever have to decide. I had a mountain of debt, my bro bailed on our apartment sticking me with the rent, I got fired from one job, I had to resign from my other job, I had a six week spell of unemployment, the brakes went out on my car, and I was in the staves of becoming an alcoholic. Then out of nowhere my job fell in my lap. I struggled for a long time trying to pay off bills. I finally within the last year have nearly erradicated my debt. All those times I wanted to give up I had to look in the mirror and deal with my shit.
The real test of a man is not how he gets knocked down it's how he gets back up and tries again. I know I am a much stronger person for it. So keep your chin up and fight it man everyday.
Cheers,
Scotsman
The real test of a man is not how he gets knocked down it's how he gets back up and tries again. I know I am a much stronger person for it. So keep your chin up and fight it man everyday.
Cheers,
Scotsman
Itsadeepburn
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Dude bad days are the worst, especially the ones where it seems like everyone hates you.....and none of your bros are answering or can hang out....and its always for good reasons but it seems like its because of you....I am having one of those right now....The girl that i have been dating and am absolutely head over heals about, decided to break things off yesterday because i didnt believe her about something. Life sucks right now, but this is how i look at it.....1) She will come back, because she knows how good she had it, and will immediately regret her decision. or 2) she wont come back, and that frees me up just intime for the summer, and not to seem like a pig, but there are lots more ladies where she came from. As long as you keep busy, and have that dont give a fu*k attitude, you will be fine. My favorite thing to do when im having a bad day...Take a long drive into the country (or if you dont live around the boonies just drive somewhere where traffic isnt bad) this gives you time to think, then go murder your body in the gym, lift hard and get sweaty as sh*t, come home and drink a few ice cold brews and watch Snatch or Fight Club, sure its not gonna help you with your gains or anything, but every bro has to escape sometime.
theoak01
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thanks scots and itburns, you guys offered up some good advice,I wish today was better but its looking like shit too.
just been a shitty few weeks I guess you could saw,girl I was seeing called it off,money issues blah blah ,and then having my job where I can sit and think about all the shit makes it worse.
anyway im done bitching,thanks lads
just been a shitty few weeks I guess you could saw,girl I was seeing called it off,money issues blah blah ,and then having my job where I can sit and think about all the shit makes it worse.
anyway im done bitching,thanks lads
sublime35
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dang man, sorry to hear. I've been having a really shitty time lately, on top of the last 3.5 years ever since I had to move here. Right now i'm hating my job, trying to get the 2nd car that's died on my in the past 2 yrs, completely fixed and sold. Haven't had a g/f in over 1.5 yrs....and the girl I do like, could care less about me. I never go any where or do anything other than work. All I have is lifting and that's getting depressing because my body sucks at building muscle...fuckin' genetics. Some days I just wanna say fuck it all.
Oh and deepburn, I know the exact feeling you're talking about.
Oh and deepburn, I know the exact feeling you're talking about.
T
The Shadow
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...wait until a family member is diagnosed with cancer...then we'll talk bro
Scotsman
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The Shadow said:
Been there a couple of times, that is truly one of the worst feelings ever, ranks right up there with learning your father may have ALS (Lou Gherigs disease).
I empathize with you very much and wish you and your family all the best that can be had.
Cheers,
Scotsman
