Guys! Why do we do this? I have regular sex with my wife, yet...

[biteme]

Did you prefer doing it in private, or with the wife looking on?

Both. I had her masturbate me frequently and we did it mutually. When I was fantacising about other women, I preferred to be alone.

 

[Longhorn85]

Yeah, it's the alone stuff that I'm talking about. I don't think it is masturbation if someone else is doing the "handiwork".

 

[jumanji]

guys have to

there's even an article in cosmo about it. a wife wrote in asking about it. i was so proud - i shoved it in my wife's face.

2 things - men have a buildup of testostorone and need a release, or flat out you will be affected negatively some how. the article had a doctor explaining how men need a release at least 3 times a week, sometimes more.

apparantly, its also good for your heart.

on the lighter side - when you whack off, you can imagine everything, even the taboo stuff. its fun and its always an orgasm..

 

[Longhorn85]

why are you hiding it?

when ilived with my fiancee, i'd do it whenever i wanted. i didn't care. You've already seen each other naked.

-= nav =-

That's a good question. She is well aware that I do it but she would be probably shocked to know how often. I enjoy sex with her and I don't want her to think that I have other options that will give her an excuse to sleep when she's tired.

 

[Friscochick]

FOR ALOT OF WOMAN ITS MORE EMOTIONAL, ALOT OF WOMAN FEEL THAT WE AREN'T GOOD ENOUGH AND THAT IS WHY ARE MEN ARE HANDLING IT FOR THEMSELVES. SOME WOMAN GET IT, SOME DONT.. I THINK GOOD OL' COMMUNICATION IS WHAT YOU NEED HERE. EXPLAIN TO HER EXACTLY WHY YOU NEED YOUR ALONE TIME. ALOT OF WOMAN, DONT ADMIT THIS BUT WE MASTERBATE MORE THAN YOU MEN THINK HEE HEE...

SOME WOMAN JUST DONT WANT YOU TOO! THE REALITY OF IT IS VERY STUPID, BUT WOMAN WANT YOU TO ONLY WANT THEM..


SOME JUST TAKE IT FURTHER THAN OTHERS.

AS FOR ME, I DONT MIND.. I MASTERBATE MYSELF AND NEED THAT ALONE TIME TO THINK OF OTHER THINGS...

 

[Longhorn85]

I THINK GOOD OL' COMMUNICATION IS WHAT YOU NEED HERE. EXPLAIN TO HER EXACTLY WHY YOU NEED YOUR ALONE TIME.

Don't get me wrong, I'm just throwing this out there to see who has similar experiences. I wouldn't change a thing, I have crazy sex with my wife and also choke the monkey when it suits me.

 

[Friscochick]

well then rock on!