Guess What bitches

[theoak01]

Im getting married November 10th,we book the hall on wed,already have the church booked ,lots of work to do until then but we are both really excited.

alot of people think we are nuts and rushing things but things have never felt so right before, so neither of us see the point in waiting a year or more,and we are both religious and wont start a family until we are married so that on top of many other factors has lead to us getting hitched.

 

[jh1]

You want to hear my story?

 

[the_clockwork]

COngratulations but people tell you are crazy b/c you are.. don't rush into things as you will regret them

 

[cindylou]

5 MONTHS is plenty of time if it feels right.


congrats

 

[Megalomaniac]

You want to hear my story?

Tell him your story and then have him fly over and I'll introduce him to some asian ladies. No relationship would stand a chance after that, I think it should be mandatory before marriage.



However oak if you do go through with it best of luck. I hope you only do it once.

 

[Ilk]

Congratulations!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[gotmojo]

Im getting married November 10th, we are both really excited.

Congrats bromanhimen!

I wish nuthin' but the absolute best for you and your soon to be new bride!

 

[theoak01]

thanks guys Ill definately post the pics up here afterwards.

JH-I hear ya about your story man,but you didnt see that coming right and you cant go through life afraid to take a chance,any marriage can fail but unless you try you wont ever know.

 

[Nathan]

You are nuts, there's no denying it. I think you'll be a lot more successful in both life and marriage if you stop denying that. Nuts implies you aren't exactly being normal and I would say this qualifies. You = nuts. Nothing wrong with it or anything, just do things your own way.

The last post I remember reading of yours was very much different from this one. This couldn't have been more than a few months ago either. In all honesty though man, congratulations and I sincerely hope this is exactly what you guys want and are looking for. Good luck. How old are you again?

 

[alien amp pharm]

If it is with the right girl and one that would be great in a marriage then it's not too soon. Unfortunately that is only about 1 percent of the female population.

Good luck. I look forward to your bitter divorce stories.

 

[puddlemonkey]

If it is with the right girl and one that would be great in a marriage then it's not too soon. Unfortunately that is only about 1 percent of the female population.

Exaggeration!!! Your estimate is way too high, no way its as high as 1%.

 

[feisty11975]

Make it in August and we can have a double wedding thingy


Congratulations buddy. Terminally single is out of our vocabulary now.

 

[chewyxrage]

Holy shit dude.


....not much else to say but good luck.

We better not be hearing about how much a fuckup this is a year from now



Congrats though, don't want to be a complete downer. You should be celebrating.

 

[string_bean00]

congratulations


you have one vagina for the rest of your life

 

[Raptorex]

most insane thing i've heard here in a while:

1) Don't do it
2) Move in together for a couple years
3) Spend all your money in the meantime

 

[calveless wonder]

thanks guys Ill definately post the pics up here afterwards.

JH-I hear ya about your story man,but you didnt see that coming right and you cant go through life afraid to take a chance,any marriage can fail but unless you try you wont ever know.

most people saw it coming bro. i was rarely on the boards back in the day but i remember thinking to myself "that's a disaster marrying a chick that young".

you're crazy bro. you're one of my bros so just telling you like it is.

why rush shit man? it takes years to find people's true colors, no matter how close they may think they are. take a look at me, jh1 or clockwork for examples lol. I mean this when i'm telling you, i was you!! Except i knew i was wayyyy too young to get married. i thank god i didn't because i would have been fucked 20x worse than i was.
you're not thinking clearly bro...seriously!

i really wish you the best bro and hope it works out, but rash decisions always come to bite you in the ass.

 

[calveless wonder]

congratulations


you have one vagina for the rest of your life

ROFL....you must be spread karma around for giving it to string_bean00

 

[ceo]

guys, he's going to do what he's going to do. Best of luck to ya bro. I hope you're still together in 60 years and loving it.

 

[Lestat]

good luck bro. i'd wait a bit, but good luck!

 

[jh1]

congratulations


you have one vagina for the rest of your life

Or... in my case, 10 weeks.

 

[all the whey]

most people saw it coming bro. i was rarely on the boards back in the day but i remember thinking to myself "that's a disaster marrying a chick that young".

you're crazy bro. you're one of my bros so just telling you like it is.

why rush shit man? it takes years to find people's true colors, no matter how close they may think they are. take a look at me, jh1 or clockwork for examples lol. I mean this when i'm telling you, i was you!! Except i knew i was wayyyy too young to get married. i thank god i didn't because i would have been fucked 20x worse than i was.
you're not thinking clearly bro...seriously!

i really wish you the best bro and hope it works out, but rash decisions always come to bite you in the ass.

Read this again Oak! This is the truth!~

 

[all the whey]

most insane thing i've heard here in a while:

1) Don't do it
2) Move in together for a couple years
3) Spend all your money in the meantime

Read this again oak~!

 

[digimon7068]

Im getting married November 10th

alot of people think we are nuts

you are!! but it helps. . .trust me. . .15 blissful years on 06/27

congrats!!

 

[alien amp pharm]

Exaggeration!!! Your estimate is way too high, no way its as high as 1%.

Well I was counting cross-dressers and trannies in my calculation.

 

[theoak01]

thanks guys for all the well wishes and warnings,id definately agree with you if she was some girl fresh out of college who has no idea what she wants,but shes 31 been through vet school,4 years into a successful practice,we both want kids but believe in being married first and times slowly running out for her,she doesnt want to be late 30's popping out kids and really things seem to fit,my income pays for our place and entertainment,she looks after the rest,it gives me the freedom to work 3 days a week and raise a family when that happens.

I get where everyone is coming from though,if I was one of my buddies id be telling me to run like hell,but this is one of those things you can only understand if your in the relationship

 

[jh1]

thanks guys for all the well wishes and warnings,id definately agree with you if she was some girl fresh out of college who has no idea what she wants,but shes 31 been through vet school,4 years into a successful practice,we both want kids but believe in being married first and times slowly running out for her,she doesnt want to be late 30's popping out kids and really things seem to fit,my income pays for our place and entertainment,she looks after the rest,it gives me the freedom to work 3 days a week and raise a family when that happens.

I get where everyone is coming from though,if I was one of my buddies id be telling me to run like hell,but this is one of those things you can only understand if your in the relationship

When you live in a bubble you never realize you do, until it's gone.

 

[blueta2]

Very nuts. You've known her only 5 months...ugh!!!
But it's been done many times before and sometimes it works out and sometimes it doesn't. Most times it does not!
It's a gamble, good luck, I hope you come out a winner

 

[theoak01]

I know that the likelyhood of this being a successful marriage isnt that high,but no marriage has much of a chance anymore, we are however going to be smart,take premarriage counselling to clear up some issues we may have missed in discussions

 

[alien amp pharm]

How many times have you argued thus far ?

 

[Nathan]

How old are YOU?

 

[theoak01]

How many times have you argued thus far ?

prob 6 or 7 times about serious shit,but we both talk as opposed to sitting around pissed off or avoiding the problem all together

Nathan,im 23 in a couple weeks

 

[jh1]

You're as crazy as a shit house rat.

But, congratulations and good luck.

 

[theoak01]

lol thanks bro

 

[Raptorex]

Why Not Just Live Together!!!

 

[theoak01]

Why Not Just Live Together!!!

we are,however shes 31,bio clock is in OD and we want to start a family,we are both religious and want to be married before having kids,its not everyones thing but its how we feel

 

[Tytan]

Congrats man, good luck to you and your lady...

 

[cindylou]

omg i totally did not live together with my bf before we got married.

I got married at 23 too and I'm still ok. I guess we will see. It will be 3 years in october. lol. Its still too early to tell! But I'm happy right now that all that matters I guess.

Starter husband. lol

 

[theoak01]

I wouldnt have been into this at all had we not lived together,I believe thats a good way to tell if you can live with someone,things are very comfortable here.

cindy-good luck sounds like things will work out