Got a job in Ft Worth

[chesty]

It pays 55/hr, 10 hours average ot and has per diem split of 23 bucks.

Can we say YEEEEEEEEESSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS!


I get the money, I get the hell out and she is stuck living with her decisions to stay with this guy who is less than honorable!. He knew the situation and used it to his advantage and played her like a harp! She can't see it. Guess what? I can and she can have it. She will come out of this worse than I have. Maybe then she will realize what she threw away and had better pray that it was not too late.

 

[Dial_tone]

dang, get a job for me in Austin.

 

[WODIN]

Damn....you go big brain!

 

[Becoming]

good for you man - I would just move on and making as much cash as you can for you and your kids...

cut your losses and move on... if she ever tried to come back if I were you I wouldn't take her back - she will just take advantage of you again...

 

[supersizeme]

good for you, chesty. glad to hear it

 

[alien amp pharm]

What do you do? Hire me!

 

[gotmilk]

How bout them Cowboys?

Stick your wife with the house...and take the rest..hahahha

 

[chesty]

Thanks. Nah, I cant' stick it to her. The best way to make your enemies or those that wrong you know they are wrong is to be good to them. Reward them when they wrong you, be kind to them. Always take the high road, in the end they may make it, but they will always have doubt about because you never lowered yourself to their level.

 

[gonelifting]

$143,000/year. Not bad for a rebound. lol

Good for you bro. Get outa there and start living your life again.

 

[chesty]

Thanks, I am an aerospace engineer!

 

[glennds]

congrats chesty! maybe a move would be a good thing. it is scary to change but it can make such a huge improvement in your life...

 

[bran987]

you're in DFW? maybe we can meet up and you can teach me something about married life and the world afterwards, or anything else in general

was hoping sh4dowf4lcon was putting some of this together since he is the resident badass

I'm at 75 and LBJ buddy
-Brandon

 

[chesty]

Have no idea where that is. But sure, I could give some pointers on being married.

 

[bran987]

Have no idea where that is. But sure, I could give some pointers on being married.

when you say ft. worth do you mean TEXAS? or am I off...

 

[chesty]

Yep, Texas the west side where Bell Helicopters is

 

[bran987]

Yep, Texas the west side where Bell Helicopters is

I know exactly where you are
are you relocating from another state?

I have been semi-following your threads about your relationship, but not to the point where I could contribute meaningfully, please forgive me if I am uninformed as to your current whereabouts!

if you are a new texan, we sure as hell could use a soul like you

 

[chesty]

Yep, I will be a new Texan. Well a transplant as a contract employee. I will still have my home of record farther west of there.

If you ever want advice I can give you my experiences and fuck ups and what not to dos and what to dos. I haven't figured it out yet, but I have an idea.

 

[bran987]

I haven't figured it out yet, but I have an idea.

If you ever REALLY figure it out, don't worry, I will be your manager giving speeches for 10% of the profits

what I mean is you are a great guy I can tell, and that I think you can teach us all a lot. It's also good you don't think you know everything.

-Brandon

 

[chesty]

Thanks!. Glad I can help. Anything you want to know. Let me know where you at in Ft Worth and I'll see when I get some free time to swing by. I just need to know where the gyms are and the ultra hot babes are. I got 6 months before the wife has to come to a decision that I hope I will embrace. I will remain faithful, but I would like to see what is out there.

 

[canadianhitman]

Glad you hear you're moving ahead...but...PLEASE tell me you've at least consulted with a lawyer, given the $$$ involved. You really need to make sure you don't get screwed. Moral high road is good, and leaving her with the house and vehicle/insurance to take care of the kids is great...and the fact that you still hold out hope for a reconcilliation is duly noted..but I can't help but be concerned. You have to hope for the best...but also be prepared for the worst.

 

[bran987]

Glad you hear you're moving ahead...but...PLEASE tell me you've at least consulted with a lawyer, given the $$$ involved. You really need to make sure you don't get screwed. Moral high road is good, and leaving her with the house and vehicle/insurance to take care of the kids is great...and the fact that you still hold out hope for a reconcilliation is duly noted..but I can't help but be concerned. You have to hope for the best...but also be prepared for the worst.

I have to side with quoted here.. there's a reason howard stern and donald trump both gave up tens of millions to ex-wives.. and the reason is not because of ex-wives or greed.. but because lawyers convinced them to take the green and MAKe them greedy!!!! have your representation at the very least.. although I'm sure you have this covered.. just another opinion bor

 

[chesty]

I have already taken care of that. She knows that if she attempts to bilk me she will be left with nothing. So she had better inform her friends as well. The way it is set up she would end up with nothing but 600 a month instead of 3200 month that she is getting right now.

 

[Aerojaxx]

Congrats chesty...you are going to love the Metroplex...!! Arlington is my home town...damn I miss it...

 

[chesty]

Cool, but will someone tell me about the phillies? (girls that is)

 

[Aerojaxx]

Cool, but will someone tell me about the phillies? (girls that is)

Hey bor, I have lived in 5 states and many different cities...there is positively no place with more hot phillies than the Metro-plex...I'll be surprised if you are there a couple weeks without having a new steady...great girls to guys ratio...

 

[alien amp pharm]

Thanks, I am an aerospace engineer!

You could hire me. I would carry your books, papers, etc around for you. I'd follow you around and constantly give you compliments, positive reinforcment and an occasional pat on the back. Plus I'd also come around and open the car door for you daily.

Just think how awesome that would be.

 

[chesty]

Yeah, but that might look a bit strange!

 

[Werd]

Good for you Chesty..... DO NOT LOSE CONTACT WITH YOUR KIDS.

The only advice I have for you (AND HEAD IT WELL OR YOU WILL GET FUCKED) is to have VERY VERY SPECIFIC LEGAL DOCUMENTS THAT CLEARLY STATE YOUR CUSTODIAL RIGHTS TO YOUR CHILDREN AND YOUR INTENTIONS AS A PARENT.

If you need any guidance (I am not a lawyer but have been royally FUCKED in this regards) my old cell # is still the same. I'll be glad to tell you how I got fucked in the hopes that you will not make the same mistakes. I can really see that your heart is in the right place. You have to understand because of my personal situation, how much that means... But I can see that you and my ex ARE NOT THE SAME.

Seriously, call me.

YOU SERIOUSLY NEED TO GET SHIT IN WRITING WHEN IT COMES TO YOUR KIDS ESPECIALLY BECAUSE OF THE WAY YOU GOT FUCKED THE FIRST TIME.

You can well imagine that if I am telling you to consult a lawyer for ANYTHING it is truly to protect your kids.

 

[alien amp pharm]

Seriously, call me.

I have a few things I'd like to call you

 

[chesty]

I have all legal stuff in place, spelled out etc. If she chooses to make this permanent after the 6 month cooling off period, etc. Then she will either tow the line wrt kids and house and such or she goes from 3400 a month free income to 600 a month and a bridge and loss of kids.

 

[Werd]

I have all legal stuff in place, spelled out etc. If she chooses to make this permanent after the 6 month cooling off period, etc. Then she will either tow the line wrt kids and house and such or she goes from 3400 a month free income to 600 a month and a bridge and loss of kids.

As long as she can not keep those kids from you. This is my only concern... the children.

 

[chesty]

Nope and the counselor is quite concerned about her behavior, especially after they talked to her last night. Jami is on a downward spiral and just can't see it cause she got spermi all up in her right now.

She is even using xenydrine to stay awake like candy right now. She isn't even working out and that has got be some stressful shit on your heart with all the stress going on anyway.

 

[Werd]

Nope and the counselor is quite concerned about her behavior, especially after they talked to her last night. Jami is on a downward spiral and just can't see it cause she got spermi all up in her right now.

She is even using xenydrine to stay awake like candy right now. She isn't even working out and that has got be some stressful shit on your heart with all the stress going on anyway.

BE DAMNED LEGAL SURE THAT SHE CAN NOT.

I mean this Chesty, that is what I *thought* too and I am the one that until we go to court (I have been waiting nearly ONE FULL YEAR) is kept from my kids - I laid down and gave him EVERYTHING so he couldn't use them to hurt me anymore... I did it to spare the kids and now WE ALL SUFFER because he is a fucking psycho.

I'll fix this just the way that I allowed it to get fucked up because even though I had no love for him, I didn't want to admit what a fucker he really is... He puts on a really good show and has managed to fool many people... for a short while. But in the interim, who gets fucked? Me?

NO...

IT IS MY KIDS.

Just please be 100% sure that this will not be used against you in the future. I can see how the spirit of the law can very easily be manipulated, especially in YOUR personal situation, to HURT YOU if that is what she wants.

My question to you Chesty... and don't answer me because I am no one. But ask yourself and ask in counseling - IS SHE A GOOD ENOUGH MOTHER THAT REGARDLESS OF HOW HURT SHE IS BY YOU THAT SHE WILL BE ABLE TO SEPARATE HER FEELINGS OF HURT AND ANGER AND REJECT THEM WHEN IT COMES TO HER FEELINGS OF LOVE FOR HER CHILDREN AS A MOTHER.

If you aren't 100% sure of this... and honestly, I don't think that you can make that assessment properly just now without some serious professional guidance (and I am NOT talking lawyer here... I am talking mental health professional) - GET EVERYTHING IN WRITING PERTAINING TO CUSTODY OF THE KIDS.

I mean it, Chesty...

 

[Y_lifter]

Good for U....

2 words:
Angelo's BBQ

At the Ft Worth Downtown end of White Settlement Road..
Brisket Sandwich... Nothing fancy, just dang good

 

[chesty]

I just love the name of that place. White settlement.