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traddum

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Well so me and this great girl start dating and what not...She told me she was Penocostal if thats how u spell it! but i didnt know what it meant .. she is super fine and a great girl and everything ... so last night we r laying in bed and of course ima try to do some shit ! well she is like no i dont do this... keep in mind she has told me she has been with 3 dudes and all that .. i found out that 3 months ago she dconverted to penocostal or whatever and they feel u shouldnt even get urself off cause its wrong. let alone have sex before marraige.. in some way it pisses me of of course but she is a great girl and i just dont know what to do ... stay or get the fuck gone? ADVICE?
 
how long have you been dating her?
If you are serious about her and are ready to be commited then stay with her and ride it out....
If you are unsure of whether or not it is worth it then it sounds to me like you are not ready to be commited and need to move on.
 
traddum said:
Well so me and this great girl start dating and what not...She told me she was Penocostal if thats how u spell it! but i didnt know what it meant .. she is super fine and a great girl and everything ... so last night we r laying in bed and of course ima try to do some shit ! well she is like no i dont do this... keep in mind she has told me she has been with 3 dudes and all that .. i found out that 3 months ago she dconverted to penocostal or whatever and they feel u shouldnt even get urself off cause its wrong. let alone have sex before marraige.. in some way it pisses me of of course but she is a great girl and i just dont know what to do ... stay or get the fuck gone? ADVICE?


You like her?

Then respect her beliefs. :)
 
Play it like a mission man. Get her so hot for you she can't refuse. If you can't crack her you either have no game, or she really is serious about her beliefs.
 
fucking run bro, the chick is fucking wacked and has personal issues....

no chick that doesn't have issues will go from sex to sex free
 
Angel: 3 weeks lol and i dont think im ready but i dont want to be such an asshole and be like well i like u so much but since u wont give it up im out! u know

Erzulie: i do like her and do respect her beliefs ... although i am a man witrh needs and i dont cheat but that would prolly happen if i decided to stay so i tghink ive already made up my mind to let her go its just finding the best way to do it

Ortiz34 : ur a trip bro thanks for the effort opinion though

tommy2tone : thats prolly gonna happen soon man
 
Angel said:
how long have you been dating her?
If you are serious about her and are ready to be commited then stay with her and ride it out....
If you are unsure of whether or not it is worth it then it sounds to me like you are not ready to be commited and need to move on.

heh
 
traddum said:
Erzulie: i do like her and do respect her beliefs ... although i am a man witrh needs and i dont cheat but that would prolly happen if i decided to stay so i tghink ive already made up my mind to let her go its just finding the best way to do it

Be upfront and honest with her... best way to be. :rose:
 
traddum said:
Angel: 3 weeks lol and i dont think im ready but i dont want to be such an asshole and be like well i like u so much but since u wont give it up im out! u know

Erzulie: i do like her and do respect her beliefs ... although i am a man witrh needs and i dont cheat but that would prolly happen if i decided to stay so i tghink ive already made up my mind to let her go its just finding the best way to do it

Ortiz34 : ur a trip bro thanks for the effort opinion though

tommy2tone : thats prolly gonna happen soon man
well then i guess your mind is made up then....
you dont need to tell her that you are breaking up because she wont put out.....tell her that you dont think it is going to work because your beliefs are different...and that you are not ready to be involved in a long trerm thing
 
Angel said:
well then i guess your mind is made up then....
you dont need to tell her that you are breaking up because she wont put out.....tell her that you dont think it is going to work because your beliefs are different...and that you are not ready to be involved in a long trerm thing
good answer ! but it just sucks cause this girl is the best one ive found in a long time and would consider a long term thing with her if it wasnt for the sex problem
 
mountain muscle said:
Just a question for those who say she should respect her beliefs.
If he believes in pre-marital sex, should she respect his beliefs?


sure but doesn't mean that either of them have to go against their beliefs to please the other...
 
traddum said:
i dont think I myself can

then it's settled

you will either:

1. Have it your way and disrespect her beliefes
2. Respect her beliefs and be miserable all the while, eventually dumping her, or forcing her in the end to give it up

Number 2 seems likely, so in order to save you/her a great deal of time/suffering, end it now.

Unless she is lying about the whole "belief" thing and it's just using sex as a bargaining chip, but GASP, whoever heard of wimin doing that before
 
traddum said:
it basically means it will neva work ! :(

Tell her what you want bro. She may seem like her mind is made up now, but if she interested in you like you are her, then you never know what might happen. People, give up on religion like it's their job if it's for own self-interest.
 
traddum said:
it basically means it will neva work ! :(


not unless one party is willing to make the sacrifice without holding some anger twords the other party for having to do so.

So basically... you're dealing with a female.. um.. yeppers it will never work

LOL

You can stick around for the sake of thinking maybe she'll see a long term relationship possiblilty and give in... But if she is gungho about her religion that may never happen.

You say she's LTR material? why not give it a shot?
 
Erzulie said:
not unless one party is willing to make the sacrifice without holding some anger twords the other party for having to do so.

So basically... you're dealing with a female.. um.. yeppers it will never work

LOL

You can stick around for the sake of thinking maybe she'll see a long term relationship possiblilty and give in... But if she is gungho about her religion that may never happen.

You say she's LTR material? why not give it a shot?

another thing is if i do end up seducing her to doning something ...will she resent me for making her disregard her beliefs ? prolly so ..so im fucked either way now that i think about it so i think ill be ending it soon
 
traddum said:
another thing is if i do end up seducing her to doning something ...will she resent me for making her disregard her beliefs ? prolly so ..so im fucked either way now that i think about it so i think ill be ending it soon


exactly!

Sticky situation either way you go.
 
Like Pintoca said earlier, don't put it past her that she was just testing you to see how you would react to the notion of no sex. Play it cool, get her hot, and slip it in. :artist:
 
tell her that you used to spend a lot of money on your last 3 girlfriends but now you don't believe that a guy should spend any money on his girfriend.
 
ortiz34 said:
Like Pintoca said earlier, don't put it past her that she was just testing you to see how you would react to the notion of no sex. Play it cool, get her hot, and slip it in. :artist:


If she is starting out by playing games like this, how will it be down the road?
 
i bet you find out the girl is banging a new guy after you break up. she'll be angel like then you'll find out she's pregnant and getting married.
 
tommy2tone said:
i bet you find out the girl is banging a new guy after you break up. she'll be angel like then you'll find out she's pregnant and getting married.
lol then it would be a good thing i got the fuck outta there eh?
 
traddum said:
lol then it would be a good thing i got the fuck outta there eh?

lol fuck ya otherwise instead of sex you'd be having prayer sessions.

her: please god take away the burning lust i have coming from my pussy right now

you: please god forgive me forgive me for what i'm about to do to this pussy and allow her to enjoy every minute
 
Just marry a pagan. Chances of divorce will increase greatly though. THere are not very many people who take their religion that seriously.
 
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