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Good-looking people, do you lower standards sometimes?

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I consider myself too picky sometimes.
People always ask me why I don't have a girlfriend, and to be honest, I really can't find a girl that fits my qualifications.

I mean either they are not my type in the attractive category, and the few that are are either in a relationship or they'll ruin it by personality, whoreness, wildness, start smokin, etc.

This didn't use to be a problem whenever I just wanted to mess around, but the older I get the more it becomes important to find a suitable mate.

Do any of you 'lower your standards' just to have a GF or BF?
 
Yeah definitely.. I wouldn't lower my standards to have a GF.. but just to get laid.. sure.
 
naturally anabolic said:
although, i am also not good looking so i guess i shouldnt have even posted on this thread....sorry.
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I don't know, you look failry suave in your avatar:D
 
You should try a bit Older Women... 30-33 or so
More Stable and able to take care of themselves Physically, Mentally and Financially.

I see more and more HOT women lately even in their late 30's...
 
It depends what you call standards. As you get a little older, you come to the realization that pussy is pussy. Also, you become secure enough to not have to have the trophy by your side. You have to find someone that you're really cool with and enjoy spending time with.
 
I don't know that I'm good looking anymore, but I have a hell of a body. No, I would not lower my standards. If I can't get what I want, I will remain single until the day I die.
 
Hey Joker,

That was the sweetest thing I have ever read!


Anyway, no one should ever have to lower their standards, if their standards are reasonable. You have to be with this person for the rest of your LIFE!!! Remember that. If you are looking for someone who is good looking, takes care of themselves physically and mentally and has a good job or is in the process of securing a good job in the future, well then I don't think that's unreasonable. Physical attraction is extremely, extremely important, to me anyway. I waited until I found the right person. My husband at the time we met was 80% perfect. He was hot, had a great body, but he delivered pizza for a living. I saw potential in him and I was patient. He finished school and now has a really good job, and he still looks amazing so now he's 100% perfect.
 
I'll tell you what Holmes,after being with a beautiful woman who behaviorally is a fucking nightmare,I would have no problem being with a plain jane gal who knew how to take care of a man any day.Beauty is nothing more than skin deep.
 
Hey King John,

You are the funniest human alive!!! I just have to tell you guys how awesome you are!! I love reading all the threads and all the replies. It makes my day go so fast. I work with mostly men, but they aren't as funny as any of you. Okay so you really want me to answer your questions?

-did you and your friends ever order a pie and he showed and you were embarassed?

No way! He was always the hot pizza guy that you wanted to come by and deliver your pizza. Remember I'm from Long Island. It is so boring here, the highlight of our Friday night sometimes, was ordering pizza and seeing if the "cute" guy showed up.
-did you ever go on deliveries with him?

Yes I did! Believe it or not, those were the good old days. He worked Friday and Saturday nights and I usually went on deliveries with him on Saturdays. We would sit in the car for hours and there is nothing much else to do but talk. We got really close, really fast. I miss those days, when all you had to worry about was how much money the last person tipped you. Now it's bills, mortgage, work, etc....
-are you ever like, "honey, pick up a pie on your way home from work. You're better at it then me."

hehehhe...lol, no but he did bring home food for my mom all the time. That was one of the sweetest things ever. The quickest way to my heart is through my family!

-what toppings does he recommend

Protein powder and bars only!

-how much was his biggest tip?

Who knows...

-Did he work for a guy named Mario or Luigi?

No
I'll think of more.
 
HUCKLEBERRY FINNaplex said:
I'll tell you what Holmes,after being with a beautiful woman who behaviorally is a fucking nightmare,I would have no problem being with a plain jane gal who knew how to take care of a man any day.Beauty is nothing more than skin deep.
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I hear THAT one...

But we are talking about dating people that aren't as good looking as we are... :)

C-ditty
 
True,not sure I could handle coming home every evening to some snaggle-toothed,zit faced,dick-nosed,bull-dyke-hairdo sporting ogre...But a very average,non-striking gal with a decent frame(don't mind thin or even a little chubby,as long as there is a figure 8)who knows how to treat a man right and puts him at the top of her list of priorites instead of the opposite would do me just fine.When I split up with this one,the LAST women I will be trying to go out with(other than just a bone-fest)will be beautiful broads.I've learned many hard lessons in life,that being one of the biggest.
 
I certainly hope the good lookin broads lower their standards often or else I'll be stuck with Ms.Bogus.
 
HUCKLEBERRY FINNaplex said:
I'll tell you what Holmes,after being with a beautiful woman who behaviorally is a fucking nightmare,I would have no problem being with a plain jane gal who knew how to take care of a man any day.Beauty is nothing more than skin deep.
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yeah, most girls I have dated that were good looking knew they were and expected guys to treat them like a higher-power or something.

The ones that knew how to make a relationship work were never that attractive physically.

Why can't there just be a medium?

My last GF was a knock-out, but she was also a bitch most of the time. I also will not make that same mistake again.
 
alien amp pharm said:


yeah, most girls I have dated that were good looking knew they were and expected guys to treat them like a higher-power or something.

The ones that knew how to make a relationship work were never that attractive physically.

Why can't there just be a medium?

My last GF was a knock-out, but she was also a bitch most of the time. I also will not make that same mistake again.
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EXACTLY...My wife knows she can walk into any store and have every guys head turning,and she is the most arrogant asshole because of it.She truly believes she is not only superior to me,but MEN in general,and to a degree she's right,because of the way all these dudes trip over their own hardons.
The friends and family members I've known who have been the happiest are when they are with an average looking gal who knows she is lucky to have the man she has,and treats him accordingly.They have the most loving,give and take relationships,and really LIVE for one another.I hope to have that one day before I decist,lol.
 
Hi,

There can be a happy medium. When I was growing up I was an ugly duckling. As soon as I hit 17 everything changed. My body, my face and the way men treated me. I never, ever felt pretty and I never acted like some of the women I see. If you are born beautiful you are basically worshipped all your life and you can develop a chip on your shoulder. If you sort of fall into your looks then it's a little different. I don't have a superior attitude over anyone. My husband and I treat eachother with mutual respect because we both realize how lucky we are to have eachother. I hope this makes sense. :)
 
HUCKLEBERRY FINNaplex said:


EXACTLY...My wife knows she can walk into any store and have every guys head turning,and she is the most arrogant asshole because of it.She truly believes she is not only superior to me,but MEN in general,and to a degree she's right,because of the way all these dudes trip over their own hardons.
The friends and family members I've known who have been the happiest are when they are with an average looking gal who knows she is lucky to have the man she has,and treats him accordingly.They have the most loving,give and take relationships,and relly LIVE for one another.I hope to have that one day before I desist,lol.
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Wow man.. do I sense some resentment here of your wife?
 
tonemeup said:
Hi,

There can be a happy medium. When I was growing up I was an ugly duckling. As soon as I hit 17 everything changed. My body, my face and the way men treated me. I never, ever felt pretty and I never acted like some of the women I see. If you are born beautiful you are basically worshipped all your life and you can develop a chip on your shoulder. If you sort of fall into your looks then it's a little different. I don't have a superior attitude over anyone. My husband and I treat eachother with mutual respect because we both realize how lucky we are to have eachother. I hope this makes sense. :)
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This happened to me at about age 21... doors opened that I never thought would. I've discussed this in detail on past threads.. maybe I'll see if I can find one and bump it.
 
I was talking to a buddy today. There's this girl who's totally in love with him, even though they're just friends. She's pretty much the shit (perfect body, perfect face, great job, 19 yrs old and almost done her degree, NOT crazy), and while my buddy isn't Woody Allen, he's no Jack Nicholson either.

So here's the problem: He's a very religious guy (not a bible freak, just very faith-oriented), and won't date a girl who isn't christian. And he's totally committed too -- no wavering at all. He's actually kinda sad about it...she really is an amazing girl and he knows he'll be missing out.

That's some fucking willpower right there.

Fortunetly, I am not burdened by the good Lord's influence, and am free to wallow in my sins. :)
 
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HUCKLEBERRY FINNaplex said:
I'll tell you what Holmes,after being with a beautiful woman who behaviorally is a fucking nightmare,I would have no problem being with a plain jane gal who knew how to take care of a man any day.Beauty is nothing more than skin deep.
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Fuckin word,

Same here, I'm considered really good looking(sounds conceded, but I'm not at all).

Honestly, I have no trouble getting beautiful women. But I usually only go for girls that are cute.

I've found that USUALLY the better looking you are, the more empty and shallow you are on the inside.

I'll take a cute girl with a nice figure and great personality over a "beautiful " women any day.
 
TC2 said:

I've found that USUALLY the better looking you are, the more empty and shallow you are on the inside.
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Not HI.
 
I have the exact same problem Alien.

I'm just too fussy and simply will not lower my standards for the sake of having a girlfriend.

It's not fair on the girl either if i just go out with her for the sake of it. If i'm not really into someone, it will become quite obvious fairly quickly.

As for having sex, i can't do it unless there is a genuine attraction there, be it physical, emotional etc.

Having a girlfriend for the sake of having a girlfriend is a waste of time. I've got too many things i'd rather be doing than wasting my time with someone i'm not really into.
 
not really
i have fair standards considering my looks and hers, but my intellectual standards are really high in girls.
Like you, I go with month-long gaps inbetween relationships, but you know what, when the right girl comes along and she's at your standards or above, it makes it that much better.

Perhaps my standards have dropped a little, because i used to be EXTREMELY picky in the smallest, stupidest things, which I have now learned to get over
 
alien amp pharm said:


yeah, most girls I have dated that were good looking knew they were and expected guys to treat them like a higher-power or something.

The ones that knew how to make a relationship work were never that attractive physically.

Why can't there just be a medium?

My last GF was a knock-out, but she was also a bitch most of the time. I also will not make that same mistake again.
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I don't think there is a medium. If you think about it the women that have been hot all their life have been basically been treated like queens all their life so they feel like they can be a bitch all they want. I have yet to meet a knockout woman that has it all. Out of all the knockout's I've met maybe 1 has had their shit together and she's married. They are always dumb as rocks, whores, psychos, golddiggers, or just complete bitches. Hot women that have the complete package are VERY HARD to find. Sometimes it's so hard to find that perfect woman it gets depressing and you have to lower your standards.
 
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