Good girl update...need advice

[Bobber]

Afetr going out 2 times I was going to pick up my new bike on Friday when she calls and asks what I am doing. I tell her and she goes on to tell me that if I buy it she will not date me because she refuses to invest her emotions in someone that is "going to die". I go to the dealership and set everything up and when I leave I call her like I said and she goes on to tell me how immature I am and how I wilol be perfect in 5 years. This reeally pisses me off and I say fuck you, hang up the phone, and take her name out of my phonebook. 5 seconds later her nosy ass best friend, the one who introduces us calls me and starts bitching about hoe rude that was and how I need to calm down and yadd yadda yadda.

Well i get off the phone and think that I am completely done with the both of them when the next day she calls. She calls all perky and is like "well are you going to appologize?" And I tell her I have no plans to ever appologize and that I see no reason wehy she called me again and hang up again.

That night I went out with a friend that lives by her so I gave her a call and she was all pissy and made plans to go ver there and talk to her. I get over there at about midnight and when I get there she is all pissy so I pull a rose out of my pants and the moood changed instantly. Up untill this point she would not even kiss me but by the end of the night we had done pretty much everything but fuck.

So I leave and the next 2 nights we don't even see each other. Every night she says she won't drive down here since it ios about 35 minutes away or she is too tired. I don't understand cause in person she is so much more affectionate and on the phone she is completely different. It is driving me crazy and what I am wondering is if it is even worth the mental anguish. What would yall do?

 

[spin721]

Drop that crazy Bitch!

She is psycho! Leave while you still can! Otherwise, she may begin to show up wherever you are...and all types of shit! Soon you'll be living out a real life Fatal Attraction!

Oh yeah....Call block her ass too!

 

[flex123]

she called you immature for buying a bike? You should tell her to grow up and tell her not to try and change you to her liking. She's not your wife, she shouldn't be telling you if you can buy a bike or not.

And for the phone and person personality difference, she could possibly be intimitated by you and feels she has to be extra nice to you in person. On the phone she can get away with what she really wants to say.

You seem like a guy that gets woman often. So why waste your time with someone who is going to try and make you a Goodie Goodie, just cause she is one herself.

 

[flexygrl]

Do you have a car or is the bike your only form of transportation? If you only have a bike how are you going to take her out on dates? Obviously she doesn't like motorcycles. As far as her being all weird on the phone, it's probably because when she isn't near you she can be rational and remember why she's mad at you and when you are together she can't. How long have you been dating? Are you guys serious? If you are not in a serious commited relationship then I thinks it's kind of weird for her to be saying anything about your purchases. The only reason why I think she would is maybe she's scared for your life, or my first reason that she is thinking of how you are going to take her out.

 

[Bobber]

Flex - Getting women is not a problem. With this one it's just that she IS a goddie goodie and I like the idea of what she can do for me. I have not had a good girl in a very long time.

Flxygrl - Yes I do have a car as well, the bike is for recreational purposes. I have known her for about 6 weeks and I used to hate her but we have gone out 3 times in about 10 days. As far as the rational part she is not mad at me anymore. I really enjoy hanging out with her. I have not been able to just sit around with someone and not be bored or get figity in a long time. She always says how she requires a lot of attention, I am the sdame way so I don't mind it, but when I say come down and see me she does not accept my invitation and doesn't invite me up. Very perplexing.

 

[fistfullofsteel]

Drop that crazy Bitch!

exactly, but shag her silly first then drop her. might as well get something for your troubles.

 

[slickdadd]

She sounds looney and bratty. I'd let her be.

 

[velvett]

She's not a "goodie goodie" - she just wants to feel superior to you and in her mind unavailable and more attractive to you.


Next time you talk to her - tell her you'll call her when she matures into a woman and stops acting like a little girl.

 

[from zero]

she's trash.

 

[Bobber]

she's trash.

I must be blind or something cause I really do not see her the way yall do. I guess it takes a third perrson sometimes to see things clearly.


FFoS - At the risk of sounding gay, I am trying to stop thise ways and just have one girl right now......you horn ball.....plus unfortunetly things aren't functioning properly down there, they will be soon.

 

[fistfullofsteel]

I must be blind or something cause I really do not see her the way yall do. I guess it takes a third perrson sometimes to see things clearly.


FFoS - At the risk of sounding gay, I am trying to stop thise ways and just have one girl right now......you horn ball.....plus unfortunetly things aren't functioning properly down there, they will be soon.

Is she that hot, because after you shag her then you will lose interest in her quickly? It always happpens that way, especially if they play hard to get.

What's wrong with your man jewels?

I am not a horn ball. I met 2 super hot chics over the summer that I would have started a relationship, unfortunately they weren't hearing it. It's not me, it's them. I am a product of super hot chics denying me.

 

[Bobber]

Is she that hot, because after you shag her then you will lose interest in her quickly? It always happpens that way, especially if they play hard to get.

What's wrong with your man jewels?

I am not a horn ball. I met 2 super hot chics over the summer that I would have started a relationship, unfortunately they weren't hearing it. It's not me, it's them. I am a product of super hot chics denying me.

She has a very beautiful face and a skinny yet good body. The man jewels are out of commision thanks to the lingering effects of Deca. Always happens.