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I just moved to a new city and haven't met friends yet...good post I'm going to give this going out alone thing a try this friday!!! I say what do you have to lose?
Going out alone
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A few years ago, I got frustrated with my friends and their drama when we would go out, so I started doing my own thing and going out alone. I thought it would be weird and I'd go right back to the group thing, but I actually like it. I've been living here for over 10 years, so I'm always see people I know out - friends, bartenders, bouncers, etc. - so it's pretty rare that I'm not talking to anyone. I even had a woman tell me once that she always saw me out with all these friends at the bars, which was kind of funny because I would be out alone.The best part is I can choose to go wherever I want, as opposed to dealing with a group consensus when you are out with friends, or people wanting to go to a bar that you don't like or whatever. It's nice to have complete control over the night.
So, I'd say it depends on your situation and your personality, but it works for me. 'Course, I have a GF now, so I usually drag her out with me. Heh.
A few years ago, I got frustrated with my friends and their drama when we would go out, so I started doing my own thing and going out alone. I thought it would be weird and I'd go right back to the group thing, but I actually like it. I've been living here for over 10 years, so I'm always see people I know out - friends, bartenders, bouncers, etc. - so it's pretty rare that I'm not talking to anyone. I even had a woman tell me once that she always saw me out with all these friends at the bars, which was kind of funny because I would be out alone.The best part is I can choose to go wherever I want, as opposed to dealing with a group consensus when you are out with friends, or people wanting to go to a bar that you don't like or whatever. It's nice to have complete control over the night.
So, I'd say it depends on your situation and your personality, but it works for me. 'Course, I have a GF now, so I usually drag her out with me. Heh.
DJ_UFO
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How old are you?
I guess it depends on the area of the country. I go out alone all the time. I'm used to it. If I'm hungry I go for example to hooters and have a nice talk with the hottie behind the bar. If I wanna drink I go to a titty bar and sit at the bar; have a lot of fun with the babes, not to mention getting pussy at the end of the day.
If I'm looking for clothes or something I go to a mall, try what I like, and then look for that size at ebay.
I just can't be a sheep.
I am 37. I guess I grew up with people around all the time so I never had to go out and do things solo. I have NYC at my disposal, so there is always someone who would be up for going out to party/dinner etc. Of course I go shopping, mall etc by myself that is no big deal. I am married and have been with my wife a total of 12 years. No need to go out alone and no desire.
To the OP though, being in a new city, you really have no choice at that point and if I were him, I would. Again, you have no choice in that situation.
Hellawulf
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HellaLoneWulf, even when I go to a club with friends, I normally split from them. I like to meet new people, so I'll just go up to a group of 3 or more girls and start talking. I'll cross paths with my friends a few times during the night. But I go lonewolf to bars frequently, if I'm not going on a date that night or working or resting, I'm at a bar flirting up the older girls. This is probably also due to my inability to find a good wingman though.
Makeover25
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I wouldn't! No fun w/o friends.
wolfman87
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exactly what i do too. i'll go with friends, but i always end up getting a call from them wondering where i'm at cause they are ready to go home and i'm nowhere to be seen lol (i usually drive for this reason). i'm kinda forced to leave them cause they don't get up and do anything, they just sit there. everytime i'll bring a girl back to the table for them to hold on to for me while i go for more and when i come back she's gone! it's like wtf you can't keep one girl interested between all of you!? i'm already trying to hook yall up too, help a bro out! shit. i've since learned that i get better results on my own as well even though i don't do it very often.
