Given the choice would you...

[velvett]

Hopelessness suggests that your love for the person is more than thier love for you.

When that HUBA HUBA flame goes out and I'm an old crotchety fart I want someone that I'm friends with and I can sit in the porch and kvetch about the neighbors with into we laugh ourselves to sleep.

Everyone that's in that honeymoon lovey dovey phase speak of true love just some time before they start bitching and complaining while they secretly contemplate divorce.

 

[strangebrew]

Hopelessness suggests that your love for the person is more than thier love for you.

When that HUBA HUBA flame goes out and I'm an old crotchety fart I want someone that I'm friends with and I can sit in the porch and kvetch about the neighbors with into we laugh ourselves to sleep.

Everyone that's in that honeymoon lovey dovey phase speak of true love just some time before they start bitching and complaining while they secretly contemplate divorce.

Exactly. IMO, love is nothing but a different word for "care", that special little feeling you get when you're first with someone doesn't last very long.

 

[superqt4u2nv]

Hopeless bad choice of word head over heals is more what I meant.

 

[onebigab]

Marry your true love. Someone that you are hopelessly in love with.

Or

Someone that you are 100% compatible with but not hopelessly in love with.

What would you do and why?

I would hope that the one your "hopelessly" in love with is 100% compatible.

 

[danielson]

I didn't say you didn't love the compatible person your just not so head over heals for them.

a question....define the difference between loving someone, and being head over heels in love with them

would you tell say a long term bf you loved him, but not mean the head over heels type? I am confused because I thought there was only love (for say a friend) and romantic love and obviously nothing (the lack of either)......




as for the question.....I'd go for the woman I truly loved (i.e. couldnt imagine myself without her)...not saying the compatible type isnt wrong but also like Velvett said I dont just want someone who looks gorgeous and fucks when I ask her to ages 25-30 and then gains 50lbs, laments about how I dont spend enough on her and is unable to sustain a conversation of any merit.

There are so many guys out there that go for the girl who looks good and then realise when she decides to let herself go all that is left behind is the A-class bitch she might be (if that is all she has decided to rely on in life), and probably has an affair

Same as all the women who go for a guy because he has the right mix of rich family/upbringing/family background/career and then realise when they get nto the marriage hey are with a guy they never truly loved and each day becomes about making it through to nighttime, evenworse realising the fantasy of married bliss placed in their heads by parents etc probably will never happen with a guy they never loved. of course by then they will have children tying them down as others would have advised them 'thats a GREAT way to stabilise a sinking ship'

I hope I get to find someone where I can genuinely enjoy their company. For that reason I hope I marry a friend, ideally a best friend. I just hope it goes that way and I dont end up in a marriage which I regret.

 

[wootoom]

does my left hand count?

 

[Ulcasterdropout]

A) Someone that you are 100% compatible with but not hopelessly in love with.

Don't know jack about love n' shit, but someone who's "100% compatible" with me, LOL, I'd have to meet them.

 

[PBR]

have to have Passion......if its missing, you will go looking for it....sooner or later.

 

[BileStew]

Do you always answer a question with a question?

Why ask why?

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[superqt4u2nv]

Why ask why?

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