girls with boyfriends

[MattTheSkywalker]

Hi

When you meet a girl and she says she has a boyfriend, does this derail you from asking her out/wanting to hang out with her?

or do you not give a shit?


In the past I'd leave it alone, but I am re-evaluating that...

how about you?

 

[gettinlarger]

Eh, I did that once, and got screwed over.

Then again, I'm VERY nice. I must learn to be a dick sometimes.

 

[slickdadd]

I suggest you stop hitting on little "girls." heyo!!!

 

[Paulos]

Don't give a shit, chances are she isn't going to keep the boyfriend, so keep her on the back burner until then.

 

[the nature boy]

if I'm getting a vibe of some sort, or if she's giving me a blowjob, I will disregard the fact that she has a boyfriend.

it's not like they're married.

 

[Y_lifter]

Why would she tell you she had a "Boyfriend" unless she was not
interested in getting with you ?

Not You specifically, but in general...

If she was open to multi-tasking why mention him ?

 

[alien amp pharm]

If she's saying that, perhaps she actually doesn't have a BF. That's just her easy way of saying she's not interested. Why chase someone if they aren't interested?

And if she does have a BF, then you should back off IMO, unless she is giving you strong vibes.

Some of these guys that use to hit on my exfiance looked like tools whenever they couldn't take the hint that she had someone and wasn't interested.

 

[MattTheSkywalker]

Paulos is my man....the rest of you are talking crazy shit.

 

[MattTheSkywalker]

I suggest you stop hitting on little "girls." heyo!!!

hater. she's actually a Miami grad. Does that make it OK?

 

[plornive]

It doesn't make a difference to me, unless it is obvious she is extremely close with and loyal to him. Most aren't, though.

 

[fistfullofsteel]

it depends on how long they have been together and who the guy is and weither or not she is happy in her current relationship. if she says to me, "I've been with him for 3 years and we are getting engaged soon," then I back off.

 

[hardrock]

Depends. If I am really into the chick and I think there is a chance somewhere down the road, I'll stick around. Otherwise, I'm out.

 

[HUGHJORGEN]

play it for later. When she breaks up she's already in the scopes.

Karma can be a motherfucker. If she did it once she wouild do it agian, so no way she can ever be GF material.

 

[FreeballinDC]

Since you didn't ask, I will give you the gay perspective:

If a guy says he's in a closed relationship, but is interested in you, HIT IT!

If a guy says he's in an "open" relationship, but can't tell his partner about his affairs, HIT IT!

If a guy says he's in an open relationship and also does three ways with his partner, HIT IT!

I guess what I am trying to say is, HIT IT!

 

[sigweed]

only time i can really relate to this is when i liked this chick who had a boyfriend, but she never mentioned it to me once, and it wasnt long before we were together and the old boyfriend was gone... so as long as she doesnt talk about him nonstop, or prefeably hasnt even mentioned him to you... go for it

its funny that i say this though, because if my girlfriend did this to me i'd be really pissed! lol

 

[Kaksback]

Matty, whats up bro..

here's the reality of our times...it doesnt matter.

A girl may say that at first, but if you are the shit, she will eventually sway your way..

monogamy, commitment..those are outdated terms these days..sad really....

but go 'head playa


however, me and alphaxi are very traditional in our relationship so there are SOME exceptions

 

[gettinlarger]

I dont really think its a great idea. If she will fuck around with another guy while with her boyfriend, whats to stop her from doing it to you as well?

 

[primetime21]

I dont really think its a great idea. If she will fuck around with another guy while with her boyfriend, whats to stop her from doing it to you as well?

that's presuming you want to date her, as opposed to just getting some.

 

[Kaksback]

that's presuming you want to date her, as opposed to just getting some.

bingo

 

[ariolanine]

It derails me from asking her out, but I'll still hang with her. You never know what might happen. I once met a chick who said she was married and even showed me a picture of her family. After a few times hanging, out I fucked her.

 

[Kaksback]

women cheat more than men do, by an exponential factor.


they just dont celebrate or talk about it and keep in on the severe D.L.

plus they are smarter and more cunning at it also

 

[gettinlarger]

that's presuming you want to date her, as opposed to just getting some.

You have a good point.

I'm the kind of guy that would like to date a girl though, rather than just a fling on the side deal.

 

[Taps]

If she had a boyfriend, I'd still hang with her....chances are she has single friends -- if I can't bang her, chances are I can bang them.

 

[gotmilk]

I thought all Southern Florida girls had "boyfriends".

Maybe you will be her "boyfriend" when she is hooking up with someone else?

 

[The Ranger]

Personally, I never cross that line...married, BF, engaged...etc. Generally it leads to trouble in the end....for one or both parties....Too many unattached chicks out there to prey upon....

Just my opinion though......Seen the results of such far to many times....Heh heh heh

Ranger

 

[guards]

If i found out my girl went out with someone behind my back...........death, very slow death to them both

 

[SV2]

If she tells you she has a boyfriend, but doesnt make it clear she is s not interested in you... that makes her a player... if your ready for a game, then by all means go for it.. if you dont need the drama, Matt "I dont wear a watch" Skywalker, then find another victim.

 

[fl8meplz]

women cheat more than men do, by an exponential factor.


they just dont celebrate or talk about it and keep in on the severe D.L.

plus they are smarter and more cunning at it also

Truer words have never been spoken.

I'm gettin' close to 40 guys and I know for a fact that women cheat more but they are so much better at not getting caught. And they don't feel the need to share the details with anyone so to them it's like cheating never happened. Think about how damn hard you may try to hook up for bumpin' and think about how damn easy it is for women to do the same thing.

 

[fl8meplz]

I thought all Southern Florida girls had "boyfriends".

Maybe you will be her "boyfriend" when she is hooking up with someone else?

LMFAO!! Not just Florida women, but ALL WOMEN worth your time are either married or have boyfriends. Women are never really single. They go from boyfriend to boyfriend.

 

[joack]

Hi

When you meet a girl and she says she has a boyfriend, does this derail you from asking her out/wanting to hang out with her?

or do you not give a shit?


In the past I'd leave it alone, but I am re-evaluating that...

how about you?

Back in the day I put my feelers out there to see if she would cheat on him. Usually I would meet some chick at a club or outside of the club gettin my parkin-lot-pimpin on sippin on Henny or somethin else straight.

Now, I wouldn't mess with someone who's taken. I guess I've matured with age. Its just too many women in this world, plus thats bad Karma...

 

[MattTheSkywalker]

Goes around comes around, so true.

I think she could use the upgrade. AHHH YEAHHH!!!!

 

[Jimsbbc]

Personally, I never cross that line...married, BF, engaged...etc. Generally it leads to trouble in the end....for one or both parties....Too many unattached chicks out there to prey upon....

Just my opinion though......Seen the results of such far to many times....Heh heh heh

Ranger

I agree. It can be tempting but not worth it in the end.

 

[Baoh]

If a girl says she has a boyfriend, I wish them well and move on to someone who does not.

My girlfriend told guys she has a boyfriend even when she didn't at the time. She felt it was an easy way to let guys down.

I say, "I am not attracted to you."

In the old days, you respected people and relationships. I still do.

 

[Lestat]

I usually back off when I here that... go for an easier fish.

 

[-SD-]

Matty, whats up bro..

here's the reality of our times...it doesnt matter.

A girl may say that at first, but if you are the shit, she will eventually sway your way..

monogamy, commitment..those are outdated terms these days..sad really....

but go 'head playa


however, me and alphaxi are very traditional in our relationship so there are SOME exceptions

LOL, of course, its always different when its yourself right bro.

 

[supersizeme]

Matt - don't be that guy.

If she told you she has a boyfriend, that was her way of letting you know that your efforts are better directed elsewhere. Befriend her(not to the point of best friends obviously) if you want, but don't interfere in the relationship.

 

[MattTheSkywalker]

Matt - don't be that guy.

If she told you she has a boyfriend, that was her way of letting you know that your efforts are better directed elsewhere. Befriend her(not to the point of best friends obviously) if you want, but don't interfere in the relationship.

Sound advice. I usually tend to think that a lot of times if she mentions she is seeing someone, it is a polite way of saying "don't hit on me".

I also know that women are insane and they are equally likely to mean "try it, you might like it".

Combine that with the fact that women have ex-boyfriends, and I am back to square one.

 

[Huge Brother]

what about boys with boyfriends like hulkster?

 

[MFMan]

I couldn't tell you. I never meet any women.

 

[Testosterone boy]

Sound advice. I usually tend to think that a lot of times if she mentions she is seeing someone, it is a polite way of saying "don't hit on me".

I also know that women are insane and they are equally likely to mean "try it, you might like it".

Combine that with the fact that women have ex-boyfriends, and I am back to square one.

Eh...so you have done more than work. It is great fun to say, "Thats OK, so do I. Aren't boyfriends great?" Then sit back and watch them stammer and stutter.

Just remember to leave your thinking cap at home when playing, they will short circuit the logic chips in it.

 

[vinylgroover]

I cool off.......it's happened to me 3 times this year and i just back off and keep looking. There's enough single girls out there and i'm at an age where i'm really not interested in playing games with 'taken' women.

 

[MattTheSkywalker]

Eh...so you have done more than work. It is great fun to say, "Thats OK, so do I. Aren't boyfriends great?" Then sit back and watch them stammer and stutter.

Just remember to leave your thinking cap at home when playing, they will short circuit the logic chips in it.

Well, I met her through work associates. She's stunning. 27, so maybe a little bit older than I thought I would want, but....damn!

Seems kinda smart too.

I guess we'll probably just be friends, and we will see if the relationship slips up. Of course, I may have to "inadvertenly" point out how her life would be better if we were dating...but hey, that's why i work sohard.

 

[manny78]

Hi

When you meet a girl and she says she has a boyfriend, does this derail you from asking her out/wanting to hang out with her?

or do you not give a shit?


In the past I'd leave it alone, but I am re-evaluating that...

how about you?

Depends the way she's acting. It might just be a virtual shield she's creating in order to give her the time to judge you and see if you fit in what she's looking for. The boyfriend might result in being just a fuckfriend. I've seen this before.

Now it could also be an attention whore. Worst scenario.

The key is to see her with her boyfriend and see how both act. As I said, she might just be looking for a replacement solution.


My advice ? Take your ticket and wait, you'll probably end up with her...

 

[Testosterone boy]

Well, I met her through work associates. She's stunning. 27, so maybe a little bit older than I thought I would want, but....damn!

Seems kinda smart too.

I guess we'll probably just be friends, and we will see if the relationship slips up. Of course, I may have to "inadvertenly" point out how her life would be better if we were dating...but hey, that's why i work sohard.

Did they perhaps tell her you are rich and your preferences?

I hate dealing with folks who have recieved advance info on me. I like to think I am indescribable. Everything and of course nothing.

Beautiful women tend to suffer from depression when their looks fade....around 40. Something else to think about. My personal theory is that lookers cheat considerably more too.

I recommend a woman who will age well. Snag a 19 year old with good genes/jeans.

 

[ZKaudio]

Have some respect, there are plenty of women out there. Don't ruin people's lives. If you really feel like you have something with a girl who's involved in another relationship, tell her and let her break up.

 

[Testosterone boy]

Have some respect, there are plenty of women out there. Don't ruin people's lives. If you really feel like you have something with a girl who's involved in another relationship, tell her and let her break up.

Have something? Hell....Matts just horny.

 

[MattTheSkywalker]

Did they perhaps tell her you are rich and your preferences?

I hate dealing with folks who have recieved advance info on me. I like to think I am indescribable. Everything and of course nothing.

Beautiful women tend to suffer from depression when their looks fade....around 40. Something else to think about. My personal theory is that lookers cheat considerably more too.

I recommend a woman who will age well. Snag a 19 year old with good genes/jeans.

That's the best part. She knows just about zilch about me.

27 is older than I am typically interested in....but like I said, exceptions.

I like Manny's advice on this one.