Girlfriend might be pregnant, need abortion options

[Star]

Again Men stating my opinions for me.............Please read my statements for what they are..........I have continually........probably 5 to 6 times said CHILDREN DESERVE BOTH PARENTS. That means both capable parents. You men have to admit that you always get the fuckin best of it.......when it gets hard you leave your woman and think the every other weekend you see your kid makes up for the life you have taken away from both the child and mother. If you are gonna do it stick with it and dont give me that BS custody shit. YOU DECIDE and it's YOU that leave the kid to be raised by the mother 12 out of 14 god damn days. If you don't think you have not abandoned the child by allowing that bs YOU ARE CRAZY and to top it off you abandoned the mother too. When you start taking the responsibility that goes with having that kid then you will have the right to your preachin til then shut your yaps. AND DON"T YOU DAMN WELL give me the "but the judge said" the judge doesn't say shit YOU STOP FIGHTING. It's amazing that you only hear this from the men.

 

[spongebob]

Again Men stating my opinions for me.............Please read my statements for what they are..........I have continually........probably 5 to 6 times said CHILDREN DESERVE BOTH PARENTS. That means both capable parents. You men have to admit that you always get the fuckin best of it.......when it gets hard you leave your woman and think the every other weekend you see your kid makes up for the life you have taken away from both the child and mother. If you are gonna do it stick with it and dont give me that BS custody shit. YOU DECIDE and it's YOU that leave the kid to be raised by the mother 12 out of 14 god damn days. If you don't think you have not abandoned the child by allowing that bs YOU ARE CRAZY and to top it off you abandoned the mother too. When you start taking the responsibility that goes with having that kid then you will have the right to your preachin til then shut your yaps. AND DON"T YOU DAMN WELL give me the "but the judge said" the judge doesn't say shit YOU STOP FIGHTING. It's amazing that you only hear this from the men.

is it just me, i have a feeling someone left you and your baby and doesnt live up to his responsibilities. this is the second post where you continually bash deadbeat dads. which is fine because i agree with you, but you seem to be making generalizations. who on this whole thread are you refferring to? i'll state my opinion and i can back it up. for me its life, thats my chioce. if these two people want to have an abortion thats fine, because although i couldnt do it i still feel its thier decision. but dont tell me it cant be done, yes it may be harder but it can be done.

when i didnt have a pot to piss in i was told by my gf that she was pregnant. niether one of us had great jobs, fancy cars or the higher education. we were piss fucking poor. well after a year or so of that i decided to go to school so i could get the great job and have things in life. it took 5 years of working and going to school and changing shitty diapers. it was tough alot of times. but we made it and now have things we need and want. niether one of my kids were planned but im glad they showed up.

 

[theoak01]

you can say whatever you want about me,bring up my past what the fuck ever,none of your opinions mean shit to me,that was just my opinion on irresponsible people,you disagree big deal people disagree everyday,but ill argue what i believe in for all im worth

 

[paradox]

Originally posted by Star [/i
PS. Paradox, You really showed your immaturity by giving me bad karma for expressing my opinion but since I am a adult I won't retaliate. I think people are allowed to believe differently and hopefully when you grow up you will realize that also. [/B]

I don't consider your opinion a opinion, I consider it a cop-out bullshit excuse for killing a innocent life who doesn't even get to have a say in the matter deciding if he or she will even get the CHANCE to be somebody in this world & overcome life's obstacles. Stop your bitching about how a child should be aborted if it cant be given the best of everything.,....... life never was intended to be perfect, so get over it.

 

[68GT350]

First, i'd like to say taht i'd prefer a baby to be aborted than live a life in poverty and filth that only careless youths having babies will likely provide. Hell, If my mom wasn't as responsible as she was, I would have preferred her to abort me. Sometimes, life is just not worth living.

Maybe i'm evil or whatever, but i put very little value on human life--especially my own. If I die tomorrow, a few people cry, I maybe get a small part in the paper and life goes on.

In the whole scheme of things, it matters very little. Do we weep evertime a tree is cut down? No? Well, that's a life too! That's why i remain religious. I know i'm insignifigant but I seek god's grace so he can make my shitty life more bearable. So far, it isn't so but I'll try to make the best of the short term I have here on earth.

Maybe some of us are better off aborted. Why live only to suffer?

 

[paradox]

Why live only to suffer?

Life is a gift. Pain, sorrow & hardships can be overcome. But, once your dead, your dead. If that unborn child had a way to say if it wanted to be aborted & not go through the hardships it would have to face in life, or say if it wanted to live & try to overcome some hardships in life we wouldn't be having this discussion, but the unborn cant make that decision & it ateast deserves a chance at life in this world, despite all the pain it can bring.

The saying; it cant rain forever are words to live by.

 

[dballer]

but ill argue what i believe in for all im worth

This is what will carry you for the rest of your life. No matter what people say.. NEVER stray from your beliefs. It is what makes you.

 

[bigguns7]

BIGGUNS, next time I suggest you read my statements as is and stop trying to read between lines that aren't there so that you may somehow twist them to fit your inexperienced opinions. As far as I am concerned Damn Straight every child in the world deserves an ideal life, with ideal parents, in an ideal surrounding.........Is that necessarily possible NO but it is possible for a fuckin crack head living on welfare that already has 4 kids she can't feed to NOT have the fuckin kid in her belly to become another damn statistic with no father. Stop spouting your BS ..........Your close minded BS.........and think........just for a minute THINK...........when you have your child do you or do you not what it to have the best of everything you can give it.........2 parents, a home, education, love, and happiness? I damn well hope so! And to do that wether YOU like it or not it means waiting until you are able to provide that because EVERY CHILD DESERVES IT!!!!!!!!

How incredibly arrogant of you to assert that I'm inexperienced in these matters. I don't recall ever having a conversation with you.

You just explained to me exactly what I wrote about you. Thanks, you've confirmed that you are as disgusting as I thought.

You can go ahead and pretend to believe that a child would be better off dead than having a hard life without braces, dirtbikes, private schools, and a brady bunch family. If that's what makes you feel better, go ahead and do it.

 

[fallenangel]

its tugh mate but i don't think i could ever get a girl to go through with an abortion but this is an issue that polarises people they'll either say yes or no and i'm no the no side

 

[Star]

YOU again prove your ignorance................I HAVE A LIVING CHILD.....................Read what people write you fools. Secondly, No man EVER deserted my child and I to become a dead beat dad. THe Assumations I hear are amazing...........IF ONE of you had read what I had written you would of seen that my childs father was taken away by FATE. That is a nice term to use when you are saying he is DEAD. A drunk driver killed him.........so sometimes fate gives a raw deal but that sure as hell doesn't mean to give the fucking raw deal before fate can. ALSO I challenge each one of you meatheads to find one sentence where I EVER said to KILL a child, fetus, or anything else. Really unfuckin believable!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Paradox: I will stick with my statement of unexperienced opinions with you...........because it meant is you have yet to experience enough about life to form concrete opinions. You have showed your young age with every one of your posts. I bet you are barely out of your mommy's house let alone her womb.