Girlfriend might be pregnant, need abortion options

[paradox]

Re: Re: Girlfriend might be pregnant, need abortion options

Sadly, you weren't aborted.

Would you go out and kill someone who made fun of you? No? Then why kill a child who has done nothing - not even decide to be created. You made that choice - not him.

Asshole.

-Warik


Well said Warik. Good karma for you.

 

[madbomber31]

They have already made the choice by beginning the pregnancy (if the girl is actually pregnant). I simply don't see how an intelligent person could have careless sex and expect no consequences.


Why don't you tell me when life begins, madbomber? Now, is it ok to abort the day before that?



And what's wrong with passing judgment? Do you condone the acts of murderers and rapists? I don't condone this. It's wrong. You have as little, or as much, right to pass judgment on a cold-blooded murderer as I do to pass on these two people. You know just as little about the circumstances of a murder as I do about this proposed abortion. All I know is that two people had sex, got pregnant, and are willing to choose the execution of an innocent lifeform over taking responsibility for their actions. If murder will get you 20 years, this should get you more.


-Warik

point A- i agree to a point... it is careless and reckless and consequences will be faced.

point B- i believe life begins when the EMBRYO start to form the brain stem... the key to all thoughts, feelings, emotions, etc... everything that is human lies within the brain. here is where you chime in with a slippery slope.... what if so and so lost his brain in a freak medical experiment? well, i'd reply by saying that since he once had a brain then he maintains his humanity... and we'd argue for a few hours and nothing would be solved... so shut up now and save us the trouble of typing.

point C- accepted.

and finally, i leave you with this- a what if question...

what if you applied rawl's theory of justice to every situation in life... imagine this, you are under the veil of ignorance so you know nothing about your place in society.... i ask of you "should abortion be an option?" you, since you dont know anything about yourself would have to consider everything... what if you were a pregnant female who could not afford to care for a child, who had no resources, no family to help... NOTHING..... or, you could be a father to be and be without a job, car, any means of support... wouldnt you then be more likely to accept abortion as an option?

since you are not under the veil now you will still disagree, but it does not matter, for if you were under it... you'd accept abortion as an option and you'd decline the death penalty.... (a whole nother scenario)

 

[theoak01]

HI your a good guy and im not trying to be a prick towards you but im so fed up of these little assholes fucking around thinking with the wrong head and then bailing once they knock up their girl,its just foolish

abortion should only be for women who have been raped,or have some disease that will effect the child at birth

other than that it should not be available

as the thread about character was posted last week,this is a prime example,back in the good days when people had character a real man took responsibility for his actions and raised the kid

 

[Staind]

This is Staind's Girlfriend ( fiance)

Ok you guys need to chill, I asked him to post that...There are many reasons I would choose an abortion, I am recovering from bulimia and anorexia, smoke about 12-20 cigarettes a day yes we use condoms you dimwitts, and I was switching birth control medicines you lackwitts...
I am about a week late and he told me yesterday if I want to I should keep the baby, but I am also on 5 different prescription meds that probably would cause retardation or DEFORMITIES if I did have the baby...I didn't mean for him to word it so STRONGLY, but thats the way 20 yr olds can be sometimes. We are not stupid as you think, but living with someone you love does make it hard to stay abstinent, and NEWSFLASH RETARDS CONDOMS ARE NOT 100%!!!!!
I haven't even begun to contemplate why pple could be so freakin cruel to some guy asking for advice, not Republican Bible Belt Baptist views and critiscim, living in the South gives me plenty of that...anyway, thanlk you for your input those of you who give the benifit of the doubt and who realize I am only human ( guess what so are you!) and for opening my eyes....Wait a minute...aren't about half of you USING illegal drugs???! Hypocrites. What would you do??

 

[Doktor Bollix]

A week? That's it? And all this drama. Until you take a pregnancy test it's all just talking shit, and not something you should be tormenting this poor guy over.

 

[Delinquent]

Re: This is Staind's Girlfriend ( fiance)

Ok you guys need to chill, I asked him to post that...There are many reasons I would choose an abortion, I am recovering from bulimia and anorexia, smoke about 12-20 cigarettes a day yes we use condoms you dimwitts, and I was switching birth control medicines you lackwitts...
I am about a week late and he told me yesterday if I want to I should keep the baby, but I am also on 5 different prescription meds that probably would cause retardation or DEFORMITIES if I did have the baby...I didn't mean for him to word it so STRONGLY, but thats the way 20 yr olds can be sometimes. We are not stupid as you think, but living with someone you love does make it hard to stay abstinent, and NEWSFLASH RETARDS CONDOMS ARE NOT 100%!!!!!
I haven't even begun to contemplate why pple could be so freakin cruel to some guy asking for advice, not Republican Bible Belt Baptist views and critiscim, living in the South gives me plenty of that...anyway, thanlk you for your input those of you who give the benifit of the doubt and who realize I am only human ( guess what so are you!) and for opening my
eyes....Wait a minute...aren't about half of you USING illegal drugs???! Hypocrites. What would you do??

Good reply to the dumbasses.

The guy asked for advise not a fucking lecture. Whatever they want to do is their choice and bitching at them isn't gonna change their mind. Looking back, if my ex and I would have had the runt, who knows if we would still be together or not but our lives would have been fucked. Seeing how she did have a kid a couple years ago and is barely able to afford to feed him, it only proves that it was the best thing to do.

 

[Norman Bates]

Aborting an embryo that is a few weeks old is nothing more for me than killing a few cells.
Emphasis on a few weeks.

 

[Staind]

who said he was being tormented? Just trying to be safe.

 

[MuscularWarrier]

Hey bro,

Youre are looking for cheap ways out of this but what if you found a cheap way out of responsiblty and also got a free ticket to hell dude.

Fact is bro you only got two options:

1. KILL THE BABEY.

2. Take responsiblty for what you done.

Bro, you creamed her pussy and she got the kid, why not just stand up like a man and be responsble? Why not be a real man. Be a real man is not just muscles or cock its takeing responsiblty for your actions.

Life is life. If you pay to have her babey killed its murdar.

Muscular Warrior

 

[Lao Tzu]

You misspelled your own name, MuscularWarrior.







I say do what you have to do staind. Don't listen to all the 'be a man' stuff, that shit only works on tv. In real life there are too many factors to take into account. Get a college degree before you have kids, if not you could be fucked for a long time.