here's my story, (very on topic!)
well guys, I wen thru what anybody would be hurt by but I have now overcome it and am fitter than ever before.
Firstly, I made the mistake of marrying a Russian girl, why a mistake?, well it would seem that she was really after status, a British Passport etc.. she was very convincing for 6 years.
Now we met under normal circumstances, at the work place and i got to know her for quite a while before we went out and anyways, soon after, she was moving into my apt, I might add, immediately after kicking out my previous girlfriend.
so it got to the point where she would have had to leave the UK (her right to stay,work permit was due to expire) so of course dumbo (me) asks her to marry, (mainly because i didnt want to lose my girl friend at the time and i was not against the idea of helping her, maybe even getting her family over here after time etc.
Now for a long time things were seemingly fine, she enjoyed having a nice home, she didnt work for around 3 years and I was happy to pay for everything including her very big phone bills. At that point no complaints from me, I had a very good job in the currency & futures markets.
However, i ran into problems a couple of years ago, big probs, was over invested in stuff, had started a business which went wrong and resulted in my official bankruptcy, and I had developed a neurological movement disorder which was a particular form of Dystonia, basically my neck stuck over to 1 side, severely.
She was working by now, and I learnt what happens when a female is put under financial stress, and we had a baby boy who i looked after at home during his first year.
Within weeks she was back in Moscow, with my son. i also hacked her email and found some very serious stuff going on between her and some smarmy arrogant male.
She had been making out that i was some sort of monster and how terrible I and things were. She was basically giving it the big sympathy pitch, big time. this guy was giving her advice and all sorts, she made herself appear very cheap, they had met at hotels etc... etc...
So, I threatened this guy very badly and he had it on tape and went to the police like a wimp. i was going to get some genuine Mercs (ex-special forces, Sth African & Israeli) with whom i had done large financial business, to sort him out but the problem was that my name was very much in the frame because of my emotional reacton of calling him that time, in fact if this guy had even slipped over on the ground, the police would have been round to see me in 1 minute flat.
Anyway, to conclude, I terrorised the guy for a bit, sent copies of their silly emails to both of their work places with threats to go to the press because my ex works for a big name etc...
All of a sudden, I took control of myself in a big way and stopped everything, this made me go back into my weights in a bigger way than ever before and I had by now completely over come the health probs, had got back into my Martial Arts like never before and i am the better person for it, the only big downside is that i may not ever see my son again, she has dissapeared in Moscow.
Bottom line here, is that females are all fine when everything is ok but place them under pressure and they snap like a chicken bone and will run. bTW this other guy, needless to say, is rich. Gee, I wonder why the attraction??!
sorry for length of post but didnt know which bits to cut