ahhh i hate to sound bias but i really think you should check out
www.kokushi.com
the school is located in westwood nj
it is a judo school but they do just as much ground work as standing.. and they have a good group of guys that are there just for jujitsu stuff
the instructor is unreal sensei ogasawar currently has 2 olympic athletes training with him and a good amount of very helpful black belts that will offer you a ton of one on one instruction.
also if you pay 78 a month you can go to his judo/jujitsu and karate classes as much as you want.. he has 4 judo classes a week 2 jujitsu and 2 karate classes
judo and bjj are very similar just judo focuses more on standing then bjj and bjj focuses more on ground work then most judo places.. the techniques are in both arts as original ju jitsu is what both arts are based off of
i really believe that the instructor and the students in the class is more important, especially for a beginner then choosing one style over a nother..
there are a lot of jujitsu guys training with ogasaware because they know he will make them great and that his class is great..there are some really super players at his club right now and i think you should take advantage of that.
i used to train there btw so i know first hand that he is top notch and the same can be said for his students/co-instructors..
dont rob yourself by not checking it out.
but regardless check out a few schools and see what you think is best for you.
good luck!