Okay, the false credit charges happened a couple of days ago. The email incident happened a few years ago. Yes, the ip address was resolved as coming from my computer in the case of the email. In this case, I had been on a dating site a long time ago and had cancelled and deactivated my account. A few days ago, someone got into my account and started emailing a bunch of women and even sent something to my ex fiancee.
When found out about it, I immediately went in and saw that my account had been opened up again. So, I shut it down again and then contacted the site and had them completely remove my account. Then asked them if they would find out if they could how and where this came from. They said it looked like it was coming from me directly which is then why I asked for the ip address because if it appears to be coming from my computer I am screwed because no one will believe me that I had nothing to do with this shit. Then to top it off, as soon as I shut down my old account, another one was opened up using my information again within a few hours.
So, as you can see, I would like to be able to prove that I didn't do this, but it is looking like there is no way I can and I hope only that the dating site will generate a letter of explanation that I can use to exonerate my self at a minimum to my ex because I still need to get my ring back.