female needs male advise!!

[mynameis!]

Hi!
I am having probs with my boyf whos a body builder. He refuses to admit he is on steroids because i said i would leave him. He tore his pec whilst i was away from him and when we were back together after holidays he was taken some tablets. The tablets were called naposim, or metadienone(?!!). Of course i looked it up and i found out that they were anabolic steroids! (no disrespect to u users!!). I confronted him and he promises me they are not steroids and that he was taking them for his torn pec and referred to them as "anti inflammatories" and tried to tell me that they were from heis local chemists!!! Could he be telling the truth about this.???????
Also after being away from each other again he is taking more pills called something citrate. I think these may have been used to clear him up etc... He has taken them before but stopped because he said he loved me and that he would do anything for me----so he did--PLEASE HELP!!!

 

[feelin_kinda_saucey]

everything he is taking is OTC , no need to worry about him

 

[rugger]

Why...

would you leave him?

Why not let him do what makes him happy. If you make him miserable, he'll likely do the same to you. He will likely resent you.

Do you wear makeup? Want or have any plastic surgery? Have/keep friends with implants?
Those are unnatural things that women often do to better themselves.

Just think about how you feel about him, don't make excuses to leave him or create unneccessary drama.

Rugger

 

[rugger]

oops

Now, on the otherhand if he has ever raised a hand to you or emotionally harmed you EVER, that's another story.

But, if he has, it would likey occur with or without juice.

I believe that guys that rage and hit women, are women beaters without the juice.

And in that case, castrate the fucker.

Rugger

 

[mynameis!]

Cheer for your help!!
I would leave him but i worry about him cos he did too much last time and infected his leg real bad!!! etc...... He also has real high blood pressure and hes only 20 and plus i want his babies and i dont wanna risk any of that cos i love him so much. He doesnt resent me for it i have done a lot of things for me and at the end of the day he offered to give it up. It is hard on him cos he has friends which take "juice" and he trains with them he says its hard watching them get stronger when hes not and he always was stronger but i have told he can but i would have lost respect fro him. ITS JUST COS I DONT WANT ANYTHING TO HARM HIM.
Im no bitch dont be mean!!!!

 

[Nathan]

I don't understand this. You told your boyfriend that you would leave him if he was using steroids, then asked him if he was using? Did you expect an honest answer? I don't mean to be impolite here but I'd lie if I was him - not that he is lying necessarily.
What's the problem with him using steroids anyway? You should do some research on them to get an idea of what they are and how they affect the body and forget about all the stereotypes you've heard. Make you're own informed decisions. Hope you can work it out with him so that everyone's happy.

 

[Bootyshaker]

I would not freak out on him. He is not taking anything bad there. If you said some other names I will tell you what they are. Unfortunately when you say citrate I cannot specifically tell you what it is(since there are a lot of citrates.(but I definitely would not worry about a "citrates".

The naposim is a drug,but it is over the counter used for many different muscle injuries etc... Therefore he very well may be used for muscle tears.

I do suggest speaking(I am no family love doctor or anything) to him about this. People that are not informed do not know that drinking a few glasses of whiskey a week will do more harm then steroids(which none of the names you mentioned are) do.

Just communicate and I am sure everything will work out!

Cheers

 

[Deepsquat]

so do you take birth control pills ? They are just the female equivalant to male testosterone .....before you leave your boyfriend over something so stupid how about educating yourself on the use of steroid ...real education not some half baked article in Time magazine ...and definatly not some thing iout of Cosmo.
BTW why do you want to leave him if he is useing steroids..(and yes the naposim will help with his torn pec...HMMMM muscle building drug ....hurt muscle ....might ift help with a hurt muscle??????????????????????????????????)
Don't think with your emotions on this subject think with your brain...use logic...he is not useing Heroin or Crack....
Please post a respone to my question .

 

[Jimsbbc]

I agree, why are you trying to control him and run his life? He will do it anyway. I think you should be supportive of his bodybuilding efforts. By the way, there are things in your cabinet at home that are much worse than any steroid, for example,

What happens if you take 100 dianabol at one time?

Nothing, maybe some water retention, gain a pound


What would happen if you ate 100 aspirin?

You would fucking die.


Steroids are made out to be these harmful substances, when there are many over the counter meds that are much more harmful.

 

[mynameis!]

I have spoken but he gets very defensive-but that prob me being paranoid.
Another thing is when he was taking the naposim he was constanly on the horn!!! Is this normal???
When he finished taking them we hardly kissed!!!! His hard one die all the time too couild this be the tabs????

 

[karson]

THE TRUTH ++++++++++++++

those are true steroids. I took them to get big last summer and they worked great. you can get them in pills or injectables. Mexico sells a good version of those products too. It seems your bf is a true anabolic steroid user. Your not alone, my girlfriend left me for using them. I tried to lie as well, but you always get caught. I havnt talked to her in months now, so she was serious. Decide if you can handle dateing a juice monkey because he will never quit, he will just learn to lie better. once a liar, always a liar, and once a juicer, always a juicer.....good luck

 

[mynameis!]

Deep squat!
There no need to get nasty.For starters he offered to give them up! He can take them if he wants. I have educated myself by visiting many webs sites including this one!!!! He also has educated me and many of my friends take them!Also studying medicine and uni helps!!!
Yes im on the pill---thats only cos when he was on he was spunking up me every 10 mins!!! ha ha ha ha

 

[Bootyshaker]

Re: THE TRUTH ++++++++++++++

those are true steroids. I took them to get big last summer and they worked great. you can get them in pills or injectables. Mexico sells a good version of those products too. It seems your bf is a true anabolic steroid user. Your not alone, my girlfriend left me for using them. I tried to lie as well, but you always get caught. I havnt talked to her in months now, so she was serious. Decide if you can handle dateing a juice monkey because he will never quit, he will just learn to lie better. once a liar, always a liar, and once a juicer, always a juicer.....good luck

What are you looking for a girlfriend?

Bootyshaker

 

[karson]

dude

I already told you, hes a roid abuser. he will never change, hes a junkie. now, pm me your phone number and well work together night and day to put your junkie ex boyfriend in the past.

 

[nuh_mizer]

I told my gf i was taking steroids and she made me stop because it's illegal. Other than that, no good reason. Then I find out she has other friends that smoke pot and she drinks and drives all the time!! Fuck that double standard shit. Are you sure you're not just trying to control what he does? Why is is such a big deal? Unless the guy doesn't know what he's doing, whats the harm? Maybe he wants to look better for you.

 

[Wrongun]

Put it this way if you kept on at me like that i would leave you!

 

[nuh_mizer]

Hi!
I am having probs with my boyf whos a body builder. He refuses to admit he is on steroids because i said i would leave him.

You say that you would leave him and then you say he can take them if he wants.

???

 

[Bootyshaker]

I think people use steroids as an excuse to put down people that have worked hard to get a good body. They always blame it on steroids but have never lifted a weight, sat at home watch ophrah and take it up the ass!

Bootyshaker

 

[Jimsbbc]

user does not = abuser, get that straight Karson!!!!!

 

[karson]

dude jimbc

Yo jimbc, Im just give her a hard time. You want the true definition of steroid abuse: spilling it on the ground.....................

 

[Jimsbbc]

HHAHHAHA!!, that's cool bro

 

[MaGilicuti]

why would you leave him? what kind of relationship is this? you are being very narrow minded from what i read so far

 

[§äñît¥ Pôí§ðñ]

no offense, but you sound like a COMPLETE idiot

you either love him or you don't, for who he is. Jimsbbc said it best in one of his earlier posts. Why are you trying so hard to control him? Why put the relationship in jeopardy because of something you are ignorant of, yet expect him to respond to your ultimatum of quitting "steroids" or leaving him.

So, if he admits it are you still going to leave him? I'd say you were a real cunt if you did that. Why don't you ask for his side of the story (in honesty) if you have any sort of trust between each other you should be able to have an intelligent conversation about his goals with steroids and why it is important to him before you start going bonkers and threatening to leave. in my opinion. that sounds a lot better than your whacked out version.

point being, just talk to him, and LISTEN. For once, be the quiet one, learn to keep your mouth shut, whatever, until he tells you straight out what is going on and how he feels before you tell him what bothers you about him taking steroids. If you actually knew anything about steroids (and hopefully he does too if he is taking them) then this wouldn't be an issue at all.

I don't think you should be worried about having babies with this guy if the thought of him doing something that you disagree with with such enthusiasm (steroids) is simple,, yet enough for you to leave him.

if the relationship means anything, learn to compromise and support your mate.