fell in love with a hottee.. help!

[satchboogie]

we have a lot in common....

both gym freaks.
both love hard rock/metal.
both love to chill at home.

except that i always respected that she had a boyfriend so i didnt make a move on her nor hint that i like her more than a friend.

what now?

 

[PHATchik]

Is the boyfriend out of the picture now?

 

[satchboogie]

nah..
they're going out.

i dont know much about their relationship as we never really talk about it.

 

[casavant]

Save it then.

 

[PHATchik]

Then you have hit upon a very hard situation. It is incredibly hard being in love with someone who is seeing someone else or just in love with someone else. Unfortunately, there is nothing you can do. You have to show respect for her and her boyfriend and stay out of it. You may think she'll be happier with you, but it's up to her to decide. It's not fair to her if she is dating this other guy, and you start making all these attempts at her. Sorry hun.

 

[sermon_of_mockery]

best not be my ho.

 

[lucidblue]

Then you have hit upon a very hard situation. It is incredibly hard being in love with someone who is seeing someone else or just in love with someone else. Unfortunately, there is nothing you can do. You have to show respect for her and her boyfriend and stay out of it. You may think she'll be happier with you, but it's up to her to decide. It's not fair to her if she is dating this other guy, and you start making all these attempts at her. Sorry hun.

I definitely agree. If they break up at some point, make your move then. For now try to be her friend.

 

[satchboogie]

easier said than done.
we're like a perfect match.

anyhow, gonna take all's advice and chill back.
that means not seeing her that much cause i get all emotional when she's around.

cant win em all right?

 

[Rio 2001]

Once that happened to me, and since she was a very good friend of mine, it got real hard to be with her and hear she talking about her boyfriend and stuff...I used to get close to her when she wasn´t looking just to smell her scent, I could not sleep, eat, it got to a point when I said to her that we could not be friends anymore, and I explained to her why... She cried a little and said she was suspicious of something like that but wasn´t shure...
Anyway we stop seeing each other for a month or so, and then she called me , we went to the movies, she told me she broke up with the guy, we got together for a few years, if this had happened later in my life I´d have married her. She said that after I told her about my feelings she just started to think of me more and more...
But I was sincere when I talked to her, I was not trying to screw her relationship, I was just protecting myself...

DRAMA!!!!!

 

[biteme]

I would let her know of your interest. The guy's only her boyfriend. All's fair in love and war.

 

[gettinlarger]

we have a lot in common....

both gym freaks.
both love hard rock/metal.
both love to chill at home.

Shit. That is my dream girl.

 

[lucidblue]

Maybe you should subtly try to find out how strong the relationship with her boyfriend is... If it's not that serious or they're having problems then tell her how you feel.

 

[Rio 2001]

I have been in the EXACT same situation!


She would spend more time with me than her other man and tell me when she was "with" him she was thinking about me. It was a goddamn difficult situation!

I don´t think that is the exact same situation, and unless the girl was married with children, this would be resolved in a blink, I mean, if she lures you, why wait, dump the bozo and come here babe...

 

[anabolicmd]

we have a lot in common....

both gym freaks.
both love hard rock/metal.
both love to chill at home.

except that i always respected that she had a boyfriend so i didnt make a move on her nor hint that i like her more than a friend.

what now?

She is grooming you as a possible safety net. Thats the simple honest and blunt truth.

 

[casavant]

As Chris Rock says:

"A woman's best guy friend is like a dick in a glass case- In case of emergency, break glass."

 

[lucidblue]

As Chris Rock says:

"A woman best guy friend is like a dick in a glass case- In case of emergency, break glass."

HAHAHA

 

[MeatHead57]

i agree with biteme! I would let her know of your interest. The guy's only her boyfriend. All's fair in love and war. i


tell he how u feel she might feel the same but isnt sure about what u think!!

im the same way i kno a grl who likes 2 wrk out, likes rock ,is a christian and isnt goin 2 loose her verginity till marriage, and a bunch more things so im n da same boat u r!

hang in there if its gods will it will happen if its nit then u werent ment 2 b. If u already havent pray about it!

 

[Rio 2001]

im the same way i kno a grl who likes 2 wrk out, likes rock ,is a christian and isnt goin 2 loose her verginity till marriage, and a bunch more things so im n da same boat u r!

Is this English?

 

[MattTheSkywalker]

I am in the same boat. I am using $hock and awe.

 

[biteme]

I am in the same boat. I am using $hock and awe.

Just tell her that the size of your cockldoodledoo is the same size as your ego. Then you've got her. J/K

 

[MattTheSkywalker]

Just tell her that the size of your cockldoodledoo is the same size as your ego. Then you've got her. J/K

impossible. no cock could be that big.

but asking her to help decorate my house is a good one...when I pull out the quarter million dollar kitchen plans.

woo hoo! superficiality!!

 

[casavant]

impossible. no cock could be that big.

but asking her to help decorate my house is a good one...when I pull out the quarter million dollar kitchen plans.

woo hoo! superficiality!!

There's nothing wrong with staring truth in the face. Good luck to ya (seriously).

 

[MattTheSkywalker]

There's nothing wrong with staring truth in the face. Good luck to ya (seriously).

well, for a little extra drama she is a coworker...though in another section way down the food chain.

But yeah why liveone way when you can live another?

 

[Rio 2001]

Umm sorry I don't know what you mean by this? lol

Why, isn´t that clear......babe?



ROTFLMAO... I mean - TELL HER : Drop the bozo and come here, babe...

That was funny..........

 

[satchboogie]

set up a date with her wednesday afternoon.
we're hitting the gym together then going out for coffee...
(i'm gonna have em mix my myoplex with some coffee, ice, and milk).

i plan on letting her know that i cant see her anymore as my feelings for her are intense and it eats me inside that i cant have her.

fuck it!

 

[fistfullofsteel]

i plan on letting her know that i cant see her anymore as my feelings for her are intense and it eats me inside that i cant have her.

fuck it!

NOOOOOOOOOOOOO, do not do that. That is not fair to her. Read carefully, Who gives a flying fuck about her bf? She might not be that happy with him and they can always break up. Don't burn any bridges!!! Repeat do not!!!!

 

[Frackal]

I am in the same boat. I am using $hock and awe.

LOL


Bor - you hit me up last night when I was 15 min late for school and I had to take off

 

[WODIN]

NEVER! Get involved in a love triangle and worse yet never start one.

If a girl is willing to leave someone for what you got then you'll be on the loosing end of the same stick someday with her.

 

[gettinlarger]

st?t??]Originally posted by WODIN [/i]
NEVER! Get involved in a love triangle and worse yet never start one.

If a girl is willing to leave someone for what you got then you'll be on the loosing end of the same stick someday with her. [/QUOTE]

DUS...er...WODIN's right on this one.

 

[slickdadd]

Just put your business card on her boss's car.

 

[Nathan]

I was there recently myself. I did nothing cause I'm stupid. I don't see her anymore but if I saw her frequently I would probably say something like, "It's too bad you have a boyfriend. We'd be great together." Though of course I'd make it sound so good she'd call all her hot friends and we'd have a mega orgy. Man, now you got me bummed again. Thanks pantloads satch.

 

[Nathan]

I was there recently myself. I did nothing cause I'm stupid. I don't see her anymore but if I saw her frequently I would probably say something like, "It's too bad you have a boyfriend. We'd be great together." Though of course I'd make it sound so good she'd call all her hot friends and we'd have a mega orgy. Man, now you got me bummed again. Thanks pantloads satch.

 

[alien amp pharm]

NEVER! Get involved in a love triangle and worse yet never start one.

If a girl is willing to leave someone for what you got then you'll be on the loosing end of the same stick someday with her.

I did this exact same thing a few years back.

It worked well for a while then became a total nightmare as she went looking just as Wodin said.

She even went back to the first guy trying to make me upset after our breakup.

 

[Lift Chief]

NEVER! Get involved in a love triangle and worse yet never start one.

If a girl is willing to leave someone for what you got then you'll be on the loosing end of the same stick someday with her.

Good advice...

But at the same time most women are so weak that they don't leave one relationship without having another one lined up...

Therefore i'd let her konw you're interested but that you respect her relationship and wouldn't want to mess anything up- so you're fine with being friends.

Damn i'm good.
Peace--

 

[Nathan]

I was there recently myself. I did nothing cause I'm stupid. I don't see her anymore but if I saw her frequently I would probably say something like, "It's too bad you have a boyfriend. We'd be great together." Though of course I'd make it sound so good she'd call all her hot friends and we'd have a mega orgy. Man, now you got me bummed again. Thanks pantloads satch.

 

[slickdadd]

best three identical posts ever Nathan