Feel free to lol at my misfortune

[puddlemonkey]

Pudd, does this ho have any other kids?

One

 

[puddlemonkey]

lol@ people blaming her. Ummm, his dick was fully responsible as well
Puds, grow the hell up, be a man and take care of this.

Oh I'm taking care of it, no need to worry your pretty little head about it. Its being addressed.

 

[the_alcatraz]

Oh I'm taking care of it, no need to worry your pretty little head about it. Its being addressed.

 

[puddlemonkey]

...It takes two right?!

lol exactly what she said to me, right before I called her out on lying. We started out using condoms. Went to the nuvaring later, she told me about it and then I did some research. Even though I could feel it in her, the first couple months I actually made her randomly take it out and show me she had it in. Its a tricky thing cause there is that one week a month you don't have it in, so some trust is necessary using this method.

Fast forward, multiple weeks went by and I couldn't feel it anymore. I asked about it, she said it was messing up her cycle and went on the pill. It was too late by then, she was already prego. She cannot produce any documents or paperwork or even birth control pills, I even offered to go with her to get some sort of paper receipt to show she actually filled a pill script or something. Can't be done. Why? Cause she was never on them.

 

[puddlemonkey]

Puddle, you can't force a woman to terminate a pregnancy.

No force will be used.

 

[puddlemonkey]

Okay puddle i didnt read this thread - just the first page!

is this true?!?!

Yeah


I'm sorry

 

[-SD-]

What she did was wrong.

However, I would feel super creepy about trying to talk someone into an abortion.

In retrospect, I could have aborted little devin. It was a really bad time for me, financially, to be having a baby, etc. Then, I wouldn't know the greatest thing that has ever happened to me.

Who knows, maybe it will be the best thing that ever happened to puddle.

If you never knew it was the greatest thing that would happen to you......then you never would have known what you were missing so ignorance is bliss. The time I talked someone into aborting I think I can say it was for the best given the trajectories of our respective lives and how they both turned out.

 

[heatherrae]

lol exactly what she said to me, right before I called her out on lying. We started out using condoms. Went to the nuvaring later, she told me about it and then I did some research. Even though I could feel it in her, the first couple months I actually made her randomly take it out and show me she had it in. Its a tricky thing cause there is that one week a month you don't have it in, so some trust is necessary using this method.

Fast forward, multiple weeks went by and I couldn't feel it anymore. I asked about it, she said it was messing up her cycle and went on the pill. It was too late by then, she was already prego. She cannot produce any documents or paperwork or even birth control pills, I even offered to go with her to get some sort of paper receipt to show she actually filled a pill script or something. Can't be done. Why? Cause she was never on them.

What she did was shitty. She should have told you that she was going off nuvaring (i tried nuvaring, and it SUCKED) so that you could go back to using condoms.

Ah...just make the best of it.

 

[Pat_McCrotch]

what are a man's legal responsibilities if he says he doesn't want the kid? does he still have to pay child support?

you can sign over your rights if the mom allows it or oks it or somthing like that.

 

[heatherrae]

If you never knew it was the greatest thing that would happen to you......then you never would have known what you were missing so ignorance is bliss. The time I talked someone into aborting I think I can say it was for the best given the trajectories of our respective lives and how they both turned out.

It's a very personal thing. No doubt. I wouldn't try to talk someone into one or out of one.

I don't know.

Heck, it really isn't any of my business.


I feel dirty now.


I need a shower.



Mommy.