Ever think you're TOO nice?

[ZKaudio]

I just bought my X-gf ticks to see red hot chili peps front row for over 200 bux =/. Note the X in front of her name. I always end up spoiling my gf's even after we break up. I think I have a serious problem. Anyone else?

 

[Stryc-9]

Well as long as you're not doing it in hopes that it will win her back....and if you've got mad cash like that. It'll make you look like a sugah daddy in the eyes of all of her hot friends.

 

[calveless wonder]

i'm too nice to people in general, at least initially and especially my friends. I'm always really polite and try to look out for people but sadly you find out that alot of people dont appreciate or deserve that privledge. I've had problems in the past with being too generous/available to friends and then having them betray. Because of that I've learned that trust is earned not given and its not really a problem anymore.
...but i also think if you live a ruthless environment long enough you learn to adapt (i.e. miami).


that sucks about the Ex ZK....thats only causing you problems and making you look like a sucker in the end, I hate to say...In reality theres absolutely no advantage to doing what you're doing other than feeling a little gratifaciation for doing a "good deed".
in Response to Stryc, her friends probably dont see you as a sugardaddy but as someone who cant let go of a situation and probably have a derogatory view because of that. Not that that matters but i'm just saying.

Honestly bro i seriously think you need to really do somethign about that...you are under no obligation ESPECIALLY since you're not in a relationship any longer wth them. That type of shit is gonna bite you in the ass later on and you're gonna have tons of EX GF leaches all over. Just curious, what's your reasoning for it? maybe i can help, i'm good at this stuff lol

 

[ZKaudio]

honestly, I still retain a GOOD friendship with her... I just knew how stoked she would be, as they are her fav band, and I went for the opportunity. It's like, once I'm with a cool chick, money is no longer an option. I need to stop this shit. AHHH

 

[jackangel]

Dude, you never do anything like that for me. Fucker.

 

[calveless wonder]

honestly, I still retain a GOOD friendship with her... I just knew how stoked she would be, as they are her fav band, and I went for the opportunity. It's like, once I'm with a cool chick, money is no longer an option. I need to stop this shit. AHHH

Well...as long as she reciprocates this and does things for you. it may be material or just little things but as long as she does things for you and doesnt take advantage of the situation you're not *that* bad off. If that's not the case, you;'re getting played. Evn still i'd be weary because lets face it, wouldnt you be chill or nice to someone you know, alll the time if you KNEW were gonna get something out of it?

being with ex GF"s is just trouble, especially if she's not the only one you're close to. You never know what certain experiences with each other can envoke and sometimes shit can get messy or complicated.....
especially if the chick has a tendency to get crazy. just telling you from exp bro...
i learned the hard way and since then i just completely cease all communication. thats the only way to do it

 

[dusty2]

I guess I can be too nice at times. That's my weakness.

 

[Citruscide]

Sometimes I think I'm being too nice... then other times, I think I'm just being me.

C-ditty

 

[Ceebs]

I've been accused of this, but I don't think there's such a thing as too nice - there is such a thing as too nice to people who don't deserve it.

 

[longarms]

If you ever get that need-to-be-too-nice feeling, you can always build me a hot tele!!

thanks in advance

 

[calveless wonder]

I think its pretty ironic, actually.... i've been reading this board for along time (despite what my profile says)...and i've noticed that alot of people on this board seem to have or claim to have that being too nice characteristic. Just shows how bullshit the stereotypes about bodybuilders are. Granted, there's always that one juicehead who thinks he's god walking around and just trying to intimidate people and abuse his size but i think most of us are really kind, polite and good people in general and other people tend to jump to conclusions because of a certain physique or look. Perhaps we try to be extremely nice to compensate for that misconception? just a thought

 

[ZKaudio]

I would do the same for any of you whom I had loved.