Ever spend long amounts of time alone?

[HighIntensity]

I wonder if it is healthy or not, these days I am more or less in a situation the entails me to by myself a majority of the day. Now this is not a pitty thread, I am a big boy and I am quite adapted at enjoying the days alone. But I do wonder if it is healthy, because regardless of my strong will I do find myself getting lonely from time to time. When I was in school in a long-term long-distance relationship I spent virtually two years alone, but of course I had her in spirit and it was my choice to spend the week alone. Now it is a different story, I have no girlfriend and my friends from the school year have all left for the summer.

I did not anticipate it being this baron and most students left here are either foreigners or to be blunt slightly askew or weird. So I have my studies the gym of course and for better or worse my supps and aas habit. I see friends from time to time but not many, just enough to make on the go plans for a night or so. But I digress to my original question have you ever spent a month or to without that much human contact and can loneliness sneak up on you in a bad way?

 

[BoneCruncher]

Hold me.

 

[HighIntensity]

Hold me.

can I

 

[Newbie2building]

i know for me, if im alone for more than 2 weeks i get a little scary. me alone with my thoughts 24/7 is not a good thing. is there any way you can meet up with some people? Do you tlak to people at the gym? why dont you work up some courage and ask a girl out...thatll take your mind off being lonely

 

[Frackal]

Its good for you boy, up to a point. Use the time to grow as a person.

 

[Austin316]

yea and when i do I end up feeling shitty and depressed but lately Ive been with someone the majority of the day cuz of work so im not left to my thoughts

 

[3Vandoo]

Yes 3 weeks in Camp Lejeune, but didnt had any time to enjoy the lonyness of me myself and I

Maybe it good you know, you develops friends name Wilson

 

[HighIntensity]

like I said Newbie2building

I see friends at the gym, maybe 4 -5 at most...as for courage to ask out a girl, thats never been the problem.

a. I messed up in school after my last relationship ended so I owe my parents a good two months of studying., if a cool girl were to enter my life then I would ask her out to dinner but I need to keep the distractions to a min.

b. I see some friends both girls and guys from time to time like I said and we make plans, but overall like I posted its just a sit. of being with my thoughts alot...this is the card delt

 

[Citruscide]

Alone is good. I live with my fiance, and it is great... but I wouldn't mind having time to myself... when I go to the gym, it is like time to myself, like I'm in my own world...

Shhhiiiittt and people ask me why I'm talking to myself... "Hey, 'Citruscide', are you talking to someone in your head?" ... Me -- "No, I'm just a little crazy."

C

 

[Newbie2building]

like I said Newbie2building

I see friends at the gym, maybe 4 -5 at most...as for courage to ask out a girl, thats never been the problem.

a. I messed up in school after my last relationship ended so I owe my parents a good two months of studying., if a cool girl were to enter my life then I would ask her out to dinner but I need to keep the distractions to a min.

b. I see some friends both girls and guys from time to time like I said and we make plans, but overall like I posted its just a sit. of being with my thoughts alot...this is the card delt

understood. maybe if you try studying at a coffee shop or something?....

i know that sometimes no matter who were with, we are still alone with our thoughts....

 

[rippedtrojan]

your own thoughts, and them alone, is scary.

 

[vinylgroover]

I enjoy having time alone, much more than most because i enjoy my own company. Funny thing to say, but i genuinely do. If you have an overactive mind like mine, you tend not to get lonely.

I actually even go clubbing alone sometimes. I'll go out, dance for 5 hours, let the beat take me to another place and just zone right out.

 

[MrMuscle]

i stay mostly to myself as well. Well, except i got my brothers around me most of the time. I rarely meet people. Only at work/the gym. And i dont mind it. Im very used to being alone.

 

[Liberator]

The only time being alone is bad is when you use it to think negatively which many people do

If you cant handle being alone then your insecure, its as simple as that, you need others influence. Are you an individual or are you just some shadow?

Independence is a good thing

I personalyl do not need people to motivate me, so I dont care alone or not.

But when I am alone, I look at where I have come and try and make new goals and plan ways to achieve them or I use it to relax and wind down.

Dont diss it, enjoy it.

 

[WODIN]

We are by nature social animals. If you starve yourself of social interaction and contact then you will begin to feel a need, or craving even for a group experience. Use electraglide.