biteme said:You are captured by evil people. You must choose between your death and the person closest to you. The death will be the most painful, slow death imaginable. Who do you choose?
The death of the person closest to me. It would be awful to know that person died. I am selfish and independent, though.biteme said:You are captured by evil people. You must choose between your death and the person closest to you. The death will be the most painful, slow death imaginable. Who do you choose?
plornive said:The death of the person closest to me. It would be awful to know that person died. I am selfish and independent, though.
Such a thing would be liberating while agonizing.
primetime21 said:I would probably go with killing myself. but who knows what our reactions would be withthe "gun to our heads."
I can understand dying for one's child. That, to me, is noble. Dying for anyone else seems masochistic. Then again, I relate a lot of things to sadism and masochism.biteme said:
At least you're honest. There's no way I could choose my child. But that would suck to die a horrifying death.
biteme said:Here's a tough one that I've posted b4.
You have the choice of saving 1 million people from death or 1 loved one. Once again, for me, if it's my daughter, 1 million people will have to die.
biteme said:Here's a tough one that I've posted b4.
You have the choice of saving 1 million people from death or 1 loved one. Once again, for me, if it's my daughter, 1 million people will have to die.
I like the "known quantity" analysis. My consciousness is the only thing I can verify. I also agree with your "self-loathing" comment. I totally agree with you.Lumberg said:This is a very good question. They would have to read my mind to see who was most important to me though because even I don't know.
I don't have kids so I'm with plornive on this one. Fuck dying.
I had this conversation with my friends one day only much more watered down. I have this theory that I have to be happy in order to make other people happy. The easiest way to make other people happy is to be happy yourself and have a smile on your face. SO there is no point in subordinating my happiness to the happiness of others, especially if I don't know them.
SO anyway I asked my friend, if you had a choice between delivering a punch to a completely random stranger, or being punched yourself, which would you choose? He and my other friend both responded with "I would choose to be punched." I think that's crazy. Moreover, they think I am crazy because I would choose to punch.
I am a known quantity. I know I am a good person and have the ability to spread happiness. The stranger is an unknown quantity. I think that there is no way of knowing for sure but overall what is best for the world is to punch the stranger. To decide to be punched shows a level of self-loathing that I do not understand. It's almost like you are selling yourself short.
Does this make sense? plornive?
plornive said:Either way, someone is going to die. It might as well not be me.
Lumberg said:This is a very good question. They would have to read my mind to see who was most important to me though because even I don't know.
I don't have kids so I'm with plornive on this one. Fuck dying.
I had this conversation with my friends one day only much more watered down. I have this theory that I have to be happy in order to make other people happy. The easiest way to make other people happy is to be happy yourself and have a smile on your face. SO there is no point in subordinating my happiness to the happiness of others, especially if I don't know them.
SO anyway I asked my friend, if you had a choice between delivering a punch to a completely random stranger, or being punched yourself, which would you choose? He and my other friend both responded with "I would choose to be punched." I think that's crazy. Moreover, they think I am crazy because I would choose to punch.
I am a known quantity. I know I am a good person and have the ability to spread happiness. The stranger is an unknown quantity. I think that there is no way of knowing for sure but overall what is best for the world is to punch the stranger. To decide to be punched shows a level of self-loathing that I do not understand. It's almost like you are selling yourself short.
atlantabiolab said:
Being happy aids in affecting the emotional state of others, for others do not like to be surrounded by unhappy people, but being a selfish animal, you act good towards others, not for altruistic reasons, but because you selfishly derive pleasure from the happiness of those you act upon. When you realize that acting "good", -doing good acts, giving gifts, saying pleasant things, -rewards you with the pleasure of seeing and knowing others' happiness, then acting "good" no longer is conceived as a chore or inconvenient. You realize that the act is the means to the end, pleasure.
You must act to derive pleasure from life, it is not an innate state.
I do not agree. Sometimes doing what is best for others may cause you pain, not pleasure. And besides, everyone benefits from a selfless person.
plornive said:The death of the person closest to me. It would be awful to know that person died. I am selfish and independent, though.
Such a thing would be liberating while agonizing.
biteme said:atlantabiolab said:
Being happy aids in affecting the emotional state of others, for others do not like to be surrounded by unhappy people, but being a selfish animal, you act good towards others, not for altruistic reasons, but because you selfishly derive pleasure from the happiness of those you act upon. When you realize that acting "good", -doing good acts, giving gifts, saying pleasant things, -rewards you with the pleasure of seeing and knowing others' happiness, then acting "good" no longer is conceived as a chore or inconvenient. You realize that the act is the means to the end, pleasure.
You must act to derive pleasure from life, it is not an innate state.
I do not agree. Sometimes doing what is best for others may cause you pain, not pleasure.
And besides, everyone benefits from a selfless person.
atlantabiolab said:
I do not agree. Sometimes doing what is best for others may cause you pain, not pleasure.
biteme said:You are captured by evil people. You must choose between your death and the person closest to you. The death will be the most painful, slow death imaginable. Who do you choose?
DcupSheepNipples said:
I choose the person closest to me! Sorry anabolicmd but it looks like you will have to be disemboweled!
biteme said:You said earlier that the selfless person benefits by feelings of happiness for sacrificing for others?
atlantabiolab said:
Being happy aids in affecting the emotional state of others, for others do not like to be surrounded by unhappy people, but being a selfish animal, you act good towards others, not for altruistic reasons, but because you selfishly derive pleasure from the happiness of those you act upon. When you realize that acting "good", -doing good acts, giving gifts, saying pleasant things, -rewards you with the pleasure of seeing and knowing others' happiness, then acting "good" no longer is conceived as a chore or inconvenient. You realize that the act is the means to the end, pleasure.
You must act to derive pleasure from life, it is not an innate state.
Your decision is made from emotion, not ethics. It is similar to the way animals exist. You don't want the pain of the blow, but this has nothing to do with what is "good", for your decision has made you "bad", by becoming the person who is commiting an immoral act. To prevent personal pain, you have become an inflicter of pain.
You cannot be a "good" person by commiting "bad" actions. Ethics and morality are derivations of actions, not your opinion of yourself. Each person IS a known quantity, they have known rights, of which you would be violating if you choose to be the deliverer of pain. If each person were not equal, then our system of law is based on lies, and then we could all, with impunity, act towards others in any manner we wished. Your concept allows for all manner of corruption and evil to spread, all for the sole purpose of reducing personal discomfort.
To decide to be punched is the ethically correct answer, for you retain the authority of moral law by not becoming a criminal to reduce your personal discomfort. By taking the blow, you have the authority of moral law on your side, which in a society that respects the rule of law, permits you to take actions against the immoral person, with the full force of society on your side.
I see all of your points. But I still disagree because I have a different set of premises --- a completely different paradigm. In reality, I don't feel bad after being selfish. And I do feel bad after being selfless. And I don't always think in "good" vs. "bad". One can also think of ethics in the context of social functionality or individual functionality. Not everyone is wired with your moral circuitry.atlantabiolab said:
Since the purpose of living is to "be" happy, this action acts counter to this idea. You save your life, by intentionally handing over your most valuable possession to death. So you have killed a major source of your happiness and compounded it with the lifelong realization that you enabled it.
This is irrationally selfish.
The person that is closest to me is not my most valuable possession. I doubt it will ever be that way, but acknowledge that it is possible.atlantabiolab said:
Since the purpose of living is to "be" happy, this action acts counter to this idea. You save your life, by intentionally handing over your most valuable possession to death. So you have killed a major source of your happiness and compounded it with the lifelong realization that you enabled it.
This is irrationally selfish.
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