EF, the reason I fail you.

[fyxgel2]

Folks, I am the man who...

asks questions, gets tons of good responses and never takes their advice, and never is successful, but just keeps on asking quesitons.

Why am I this man? Why do I dissappoint everyone? I think the answer is rather simple:

Its not that I dont take your advice. Its that I have no willpower to get off the computer and go out an practice it. And another question comes to my mind and I get distracted by that, and I post it, looking like a fool.

Seriously, I lack willpower with everything in life, and including the area of making myself socialize with girls on a regular basis.

I lack willpower at finding my own hobbies, going to bed on time, eating healthy, getting my exercise in daily, and making new friends and meeting new girls.

Dont take offense people. If my motivation was stronger, I would be out there and using all of your advice. The strange thing is, I want my motivation to be stronger, but it isnt stronger.
I need to change this, if I can.

 

[Ulcasterdropout]

You will never reach my level of worthlessness....cheer up

 

[SoreArms]

 

[The Red Dragon]

Harsh

 

[awittyusername]

Bro, we all get like this sometimes. Just take action. Start eating good and working out religeously. Then, start taking some of the advice the guys gave you.

We are all jealous of you. We wish we were a good looking College kid your age.

 

[RADAR]

Folks, I am the man who...

asks questions, gets tons of good responses and never takes their advice, and never is successful, but just keeps on asking quesitons.

Why am I this man? Why do I dissappoint everyone? I think the answer is rather simple:

Its not that I dont take your advice. Its that I have no willpower to get off the computer and go out an practice it. And another question comes to my mind and I get distracted by that, and I post it, looking like a fool.

Seriously, I lack willpower with everything in life, and including the area of making myself socialize with girls on a regular basis.

I lack willpower at finding my own hobbies, going to bed on time, eating healthy, getting my exercise in daily, and making new friends and meeting new girls.

Dont take offense people. If my motivation was stronger, I would be out there and using all of your advice. The strange thing is, I want my motivation to be stronger, but it isnt stronger.
I need to change this, if I can.

One day you're gonna look back and say "Damn!" if only i knew then what i know now!

Quit making excuses & do it! Practice makes perfect.


RADAR

 

[hanselthecaretaker]

I think you just need some real world encouragement. The sad thing is that finding someone, male or female, to understand what you're going through and to give you this encouragement to improve yourself is next to impossible.
It all has to start with you.

 

[fyxgel2]

Bro, we all get like this sometimes. Just take action. Start eating good and working out religeously. Then, start taking some of the advice the guys gave you.

We are all jealous of you. We wish we were a good looking College kid your age.

heh, well thanks for the support, and compliments.

All the stuff u told me to do is MUCH easier said than done. I dont know if I can eat good or workout religiously, I dont know if its in me. But I'll give it a shot, hey I will give life a shot.

Hopefully these obsessive thoughts will die away, and I will get up off my butt and get outside and enjoy the real world. There is a world waiting to be explored, I just wish I was less depressed and able to explore it.

maybe I do need therapy.

 

[tiger88]

my sister is looking for a nice guy type

same age as u ( bit younger though i think

u live in west coast?

 

[HumorMe]

 

[hanselthecaretaker]

In a way I'm like fyxgel2; if I ever get married, I want to marry a virgin. Looks like I'll be staying single for a long time.

Don't give up fyxgel2; I'm sure there are some hot virgins left out there.

 

[Buddy_Christ]

heh, well thanks for the support, and compliments.

All the stuff u told me to do is MUCH easier said than done. I dont know if I can eat good or workout religiously, I dont know if its in me. But I'll give it a shot, hey I will give life a shot.

Hopefully these obsessive thoughts will die away, and I will get up off my butt and get outside and enjoy the real world. There is a world waiting to be explored, I just wish I was less depressed and able to explore it.

maybe I do need therapy.

go join the Marine Corps. that'll teach you some discipline and make a man out of you.

in seriousness, you control your life. either take control of it or you'll let your life slip away. it's better to regret something you did than something you didn't do. i still don't regret the time i took that family hostage and tortured them for 36 hours before i turned myself in. i'd actually question who i am had i not done it.

anyway, go join the Marine Corps.

 

[fyxgel2]

my sister is looking for a nice guy type

same age as u ( bit younger though i think

u live in west coast?

heh, midwest more like it.

 

[RADAR]

OM Man!LMAO! I thought i was gonna wake everyone up when i saw this................BWHAAhahahaha!



RADAR

 

[The Red Dragon]

Meh, we've all been in ruts but the important thing is learning from it and trying not to repeat the same mistake. I think I screwed my relations with a girl in a similar way you did. Maybe you should focus on something else other than girls maybe a hobby/project/dreams etc. Once you have your those running you'll have something to be proud of and girls will flock to you due to your new found confidence and possible success. With girls, you always have to bring something to the table or be able to offer something as it seems.

 

[Board]

ok what you need to do is go to club when there's somethin big goin on and just get DRUNK. go wit one of your buddies. that should help with the confidence thing