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Went to see my girl in LA for the weekend and the last day I was there we went out to a bar and she got wasted. She ended up going into the bathroom to throw up and stayed in there.

I had to walk around the entire place which was big and try to find her and than I had some girl go into the bathroom and see if she was in there. She was in there but the girl said she started asking for her and no one answered so I didnt know she was in there.

Than she comes out and just wanders outside and sits on a bench and starts puking. Right on Sunset Blvd. We get back to the hotel and when I'm taking my backs out of the car she wonders into the hotel before me and I'm thinking she is going to the room. I get to the room and she wasnt there. I had to walk around the hotel and ask the serurity guys if they seen a girl wondering around....he said he thinks she went into the lobby bathroom.

So now I had to go into the ladies room and talk her into getting up off the floor and come to the room. She wonders off again without me up to the room and when I get up there she is in the bathroom again.

I hear the bathtub water go on and I guess she thought she was taking a bath so I went in and shut the water off and tried to pick her up off the floor but she fushed her arms and body so I let her stay on the floor while I went to change out of my clothes.

Than she decides to lock the door and I hear the water running. So I'm telling her to open up but no answer so I had to kick the door in and pick her up and put her on the bed.

We were using someones elses hotel room that night cause they were staying with someone else so now I'm going to have to pay for the broken door.

The entire time she wasnt able to speak and was just a limp noodle. I probbly should have been more supportive and been nicer about the situation but I was extremely drunk myself and couldnt over look the fact that she didnt watch her limit and realize that it was my last night with her for a longtime.

I was pissed cause it was 3:30 am and I had to be up at 7:30 to catch my flight back to NY and now I was going to have to stay up to make sure she doesnt vomit and coke or some shit.

Her girlfriend who was out with us said that I should have been nicer and that I wasnt taken care of her and that I was an ass for kicking the door in.

When I got up this morning I was so annoyed I wasnt even going to say goodbye and was just going to leave. She said I told her that things were over between us. If I said that I guess I over-reacted about her only getting sick, but the way I saw it was her being thoughtless and not trying to keep herself in good shape to spend the last night with me. I understand that maybe she was just having fun drinking with me and didnt expect to get that bad and sick.

Otherwise my weekend with her was good, I hadnt seen her in over 2 months before this weekend.

I regret not being more thoughtful and just accepting the situation and taking care of her when she was sick.

If you read the entire post here, thanks for the time I took away from your life. Just needed to vent and her some feedback about me being a selfish asshole.
 
GoldenDelicious said:
take another flight out there in a few weeks and reconcile
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we made up already but I beat myself up over things I do wrong. Plus she'll be back in NY in 2 weeks. It happened and I should have just dealt with it like a normal person and kept my emotions aside and not got myself angry about wondering if she does this a lot and the fact that it ruined my last night with her. I was drunk also so thats why I acted the wrong way, but I suppose thats no excuse.

The entire time she was sick she was unable to talk which I couldnt understand, she was walking fine going to the bathroom and than lying on the floor but everytime I tried to talk to her she wouldnt speak.

So her not being able to talk as she lied on the bed I said some fucked up shit to her because I was angry and wasted.

I don't like to be seen in bad light in situations and I can't help but wonder if this would make her question being with me and thinking I'm uncaring for the way I handled the situation.

Most people would be caring and understand....I wasn't and now it's eatting me up inside.

I'm on PCT clomid now and having to deal with stuff is much harder when on this stuff because it makes me more depressed about things
 
If I hadn't seen my b/f in 2 months, I wouldn't have been getting completely wasted. I would have wanted to have good quality time with him. I think you had every right to be annoyed. What she did was thoughtless. How did you leave things? I hope you didn't leave mad... kinda like going to bed mad, it just isn't good.
 
I cut off a girl who did about the same thing

I kinda took care of her a little bit but like gambino said it was a turn off and by that I mean a major turn off... I was just like what the fuck... not to say I've heard the dumbest shit come outta her mouth that night. I wasnt even pissed just kinda disgusted, she was hiding in some closet and I had to send my friends girlfriend to talk to her... hella weird

than shes like "I've never ever puked, this is my first time... well technicly its my 3rd... no wait its 5th" and I'm just like stop when you can thank you very much

of course I've only known her for 2 weeks so it wasnt that big of a deal to me so I dont know how much she means to you.

next day she called and apologized but I never called back
 
Hmmm... well if you were really drunk too, I guess you can't really be too mad at her. Didn't see that post when I responded before.
 
lucidBlue said:
Hmmm... well if you were really drunk too, I guess you can't really be too mad at her. Didn't see that post when I responded before.
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yeah but at least he could function...getting that fukked up were you are passing out in public restrooms is adolescent at best...
 
Gambino said:
yeah but at least he could function...getting that fukked up were you are passing out in public restrooms is adolescent at best...
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True, but we've all been there. Stuff like this happens, unfortunetly, and I'm sure she feels bad about it.

flex, have her make it up to you when she gets back into town.
 
lucidBlue said:
If I hadn't seen my b/f in 2 months, I wouldn't have been getting completely wasted. I would have wanted to have good quality time with him. I think you had every right to be annoyed. What she did was thoughtless. How did you leave things? I hope you didn't leave mad... kinda like going to bed mad, it just isn't good.
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She passed ou and I slept. There were two beds in the room so I didnt even sleep in the same bed. In the morning she was trying to talk to me.At first I was nasty and just said "Shut Up and let me sleep, I have to be up and get ready to catch my flight in 30 mins and I need to get some sleep" When she kept saying I was fucked up and trying to talk my responses got worse and I just said "I don't care, let me sleep"

We ended up making up a bit but once I'm bothered it takes me awhile to get over shit. She fucked me and than I went and got my cab....We always say "i Love you" a lot so she said it and I told her I loved her back and kissed before I got into the cab.

I guess I said and was acting like I didnt care and wanted to end the relationship. She said she always feels like she has to be the savior of the relationship because I'm so quick to end things over dumb stuff.

It's not that I actually want to end things....I've never loved anyone like I do for her and she has everything that I would picture I wanted in a girl when I was in past relationships and thought about what type of person I'd want to be with. I guess my quick toend things is an attempt to get a response from her and reassured that I mean a lot to her and that if I did leave she would feel like she'd die.

probbly looking her to say that to me to truely know she is obssed with me as much as I am about her.
 
Gambino said:
yeah but at least he could function...getting that fukked up were you are passing out in public restrooms is adolescent at best...
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I kind of blamed myself for her getting that messed up because I was drinking that heavy and she was just keeping up with me. We started out with a mix drink that was a pint and a 1/2 and had equvilant of 3-4 shots in it. Than a Pint and a 1/2 beer and than 4 shots between all this. This was bettween 11:30 when we got there and 1:30 when we left.

At one moment she didnt remember taking a shot and was saying we didnt....so I asked the bartender to tell her and he poured another one on the house and said take another and maybe she'll remember than....I probbly should have realized she was done when she didnt remember the shot and when she said she was pretty buzzed after the first mixed drink.
 
it's only your own fault if you get too drunk... everyone should know their limits.
 
flex123 said:
I regret not being more thoughtful and just accepting the situation and taking care of her when she was sick.
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SICK?!


She was f**king wasted.
Is this normal behavior for her?

What does she do and who when she's so wasted that she can't care for herself you're not there to pick up the pieces?

You didn't do anything selfish - what if she had drowned herself in the tub - who knows what someone could do when they're that limp and without having control of themselves.

Or less dramatic - what if she let the tub water over flow - that would be a nice bill to pay for.

Do yourself a favor - learn to know the difference between a great buzz and being stupid wasted - try and teach your girlfriend the same and tell your girlfriend's friend to grow the hell up.



ps. I'm sorry if I'm coming across bitchy but one day all of this will make sense and you'll ask yourself what the hell was I doing.
 
sounds like she had a bit more than just alcohol...

see: xanax
see also: valium
see also: klonopin
 
Yeah Velvett I her you...I know totally that kicking the door in was the right thing to do. But her response was that she always takes a bath cause it makes her feel better. I said yeah ok a bath....you'd fucking drown in there and she just said no she wouldn't.

What I'm disappointed in is how I started to say dumb shit about how it was over and that God knows what the hell she does when she goes out and gets drunk when I'm not around. I didnt like the idea that she can get like that and end up being on some floor of someplace and some sick fuck takes advantage of her. But she just said she only got that way because she was with me and having fun and went over her limit.

When I got to NY I called her and she was mad that the first thing I mentioned was the door and what her friend said about it. I don't like to look bad, and I could see my girl not explaining that I had to kick it in because I was stopping her from getting in the tub.

But that is just how I am...If somethings on my mind it's there I cant think of anything but that. I'll go over and over the thoughts in my head and build them into something bigger than they are. So the entire flight home I felt sick to my stomach and depressed that I might have possibly turned the relationship to bad because I wasn't caring and understanding.
 
flex123 said:
Went to see my girl in LA for the weekend and the last day I was there we went out to a bar and she got wasted. She ended up going into the bathroom to throw up and stayed in there.

I had to walk around the entire place which was big and try to find her and than I had some girl go into the bathroom and see if she was in there. She was in there but the girl said she started asking for her and no one answered so I didnt know she was in there.

Than she comes out and just wanders outside and sits on a bench and starts puking. Right on Sunset Blvd. We get back to the hotel and when I'm taking my backs out of the car she wonders into the hotel before me and I'm thinking she is going to the room. I get to the room and she wasnt there. I had to walk around the hotel and ask the serurity guys if they seen a girl wondering around....he said he thinks she went into the lobby bathroom.

So now I had to go into the ladies room and talk her into getting up off the floor and come to the room. She wonders off again without me up to the room and when I get up there she is in the bathroom again.

I hear the bathtub water go on and I guess she thought she was taking a bath so I went in and shut the water off and tried to pick her up off the floor but she fushed her arms and body so I let her stay on the floor while I went to change out of my clothes.

Than she decides to lock the door and I hear the water running. So I'm telling her to open up but no answer so I had to kick the door in and pick her up and put her on the bed.

We were using someones elses hotel room that night cause they were staying with someone else so now I'm going to have to pay for the broken door.

The entire time she wasnt able to speak and was just a limp noodle. I probbly should have been more supportive and been nicer about the situation but I was extremely drunk myself and couldnt over look the fact that she didnt watch her limit and realize that it was my last night with her for a longtime.

I was pissed cause it was 3:30 am and I had to be up at 7:30 to catch my flight back to NY and now I was going to have to stay up to make sure she doesnt vomit and coke or some shit.

Her girlfriend who was out with us said that I should have been nicer and that I wasnt taken care of her and that I was an ass for kicking the door in.

When I got up this morning I was so annoyed I wasnt even going to say goodbye and was just going to leave. She said I told her that things were over between us. If I said that I guess I over-reacted about her only getting sick, but the way I saw it was her being thoughtless and not trying to keep herself in good shape to spend the last night with me. I understand that maybe she was just having fun drinking with me and didnt expect to get that bad and sick.

Otherwise my weekend with her was good, I hadnt seen her in over 2 months before this weekend.

I regret not being more thoughtful and just accepting the situation and taking care of her when she was sick.

If you read the entire post here, thanks for the time I took away from your life. Just needed to vent and her some feedback about me being a selfish asshole.
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Dump her ass, she's no good.
 
You had every right to be pissed. Time is precious in a long-distance relationship, and her inability to control her alcohol intake ruined some of that valuable time.
 
flex123 said:
Than she comes out and just wanders outside and sits on a bench and starts puking. Right on Sunset Blvd. .
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what club??? I think I saw her...LOL!!

dont be mad flex.. at least she didnt puke in your car :sick:
 
Well like I said I overacted and acted like an ass about this myself. in the morning we were talking and she was talking about how if I was so quick to end it that the last 7 months must have been a waste and I took it the wrong way. I was already a bit jumpy and angry about shit so when I heard that I thought she was saying that it was a was for her.

So next the the bed she had a card I sent her that was filled with like a 200 word note I spent a lot of time writing and poured my guts out to her about how I felt about her. She said she would read it before she went to bed every night and use to red it when she was upset to get her in a good mood.

Well I was a total fucking moron cause with my impulsive angry mentality I grab the card and immediaty started tearing it into peices. The second I finished doing that I felt nasaues and like I wanted to cry....because I was that much of an ass to rip up something that meant so much to her.

I guess I just knew I poured myself to her in that letter so if she felt that everything was a waste than I was hurt that she had on paper knowing I felt different and that I held her as the most important thing in my life.
 
Well Flex you need to plot out a romantic stay for her when she comes in a couple weeks. Don't go out drinking.
 
chaos mage said:
do you still hate everyone, or is that phase over?
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no, still feel like shit. im only being nice to lull people so i can take them for everything they got :)

adam had the life before eve was made, i tell you want. i mean, wtf did he have to worry about?
 
flex123 said:
Well like I said I overacted and acted like an ass about this myself. in the morning we were talking and she was talking about how if I was so quick to end it that the last 7 months must have been a waste and I took it the wrong way. I was already a bit jumpy and angry about shit so when I heard that I thought she was saying that it was a was for her.

So next the the bed she had a card I sent her that was filled with like a 200 word note I spent a lot of time writing and poured my guts out to her about how I felt about her. She said she would read it before she went to bed every night and use to red it when she was upset to get her in a good mood.

Well I was a total fucking moron cause with my impulsive angry mentality I grab the card and immediaty started tearing it into peices. The second I finished doing that I felt nasaues and like I wanted to cry....because I was that much of an ass to rip up something that meant so much to her.

I guess I just knew I poured myself to her in that letter so if she felt that everything was a waste than I was hurt that she had on paper knowing I felt different and that I held her as the most important thing in my life.
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I've heard so many stories like these, one of them happen to be my own personal experience. Bro, if she is not willing to get any help, things will only get worst...
 
sounds like it was a one of binge....unless she has a history wait to see if she does it again and explain to her you were afraid she would hurt herself and thats why you got angry

her friend is your A-typical over interfering closet lesbo bitch by the sounds of it, had to fucking stick her oar in about the door.....keep her sweet or she'll be talking shit about you when your not there
 
danielson said:
her friend is your A-typical over interfering closet lesbo bitch by the sounds of it, had to fucking stick her oar in about the door.....keep her sweet or she'll be talking shit about you when your not there
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OMG!

I thought the same thing - I just didn't have the heart to say it.

...even though I now just did..
 
flex123 said:
But that is just how I am...If somethings on my mind it's there I cant think of anything but that. I'll go over and over the thoughts in my head and build them into something bigger than they are. So the entire flight home I felt sick to my stomach and depressed that I might have possibly turned the relationship to bad because I wasn't caring and understanding.
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fuck...U my my twin brother or something? That's how I've felt all week.

Ye you did exactly the right thing...especially about kicking the door down to stop something serious from happening.

Good luck bro, u sound like a pretty decent guy.
 
danielson said:
her friend is your A-typical over interfering closet lesbo bitch by the sounds of it, had to fucking stick her oar in about the door.....keep her sweet or she'll be talking shit about you when your not there
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Her friend shares the room with her and it's paid for by their Manager, who when he finds out about the door is going to be extremely pissed off. She can't exactly explain that she went out and got hammered to her manager because he'll be more pissed than if he just thinks the door was kicked in because they locked it and needed to get in to piss in the middle of the night.

I hear you on the keeping her sweet though. I know how woman are and if she starts bad mouthing me to my girl than those thoughts will lead her to change things between us.

Woman are screwy like that, they always think their friends no whats right for them and listen to the friends. But in reality the friend usually hasn't a clue to whats really going on and only puts in their two cents based on the bullshitted one sided info the girlfriend will usually tell. And when a girl complains she'll never be understanding of their boyfriends side but only complain about what they think is wrong and that they're right and dont understand
 
I think you need to either be more confident in your actions, or less impulsive. Either way, you would worry less...
 
Gambino said:
I think you need to either be more confident in your actions, or less impulsive. Either way, you would worry less...
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I hear you exactly man. I sometimes say to myself I wish I didnt have thios head of mine cause it drives me insane.

I was thinking of going to some doctor and explain that I have extreme anxiety and when I'm bothered by something I cant stop thinking about it and I build it up in my head to be something more devastating than it really is.

It might only be because I care so much, so I also say that I wish I didnt care so much cause than every little thing I get frustrated over would just blow over my shoulders and I could careless.
 
tiger88 said:
did u do the right thing?
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I truely think I did do the right thing with the door.. I dont think I did the right thing about how I handled her being drunk. I didnt sit and take care of her like I should have. I kinda stood back and talked to her friend and her boyfriend while she was on a bench throwing up. I was just to pissed off and drunk myself to deal with it.

and I got a bit out of hand after I kicked in the door because after I did that my adrenaline was pumping and I was super pissed about having to do that. So I was like 'fuck I canttake this shit" and I walked out of the bathroom and as I walked out i kicked the bootom of the wall next to the door so it has a hole also.

which will need to be paid for.
 
flex123 said:
I truely think I did do the right thing with the door.. I dont think I did the right thing about how I handled her being drunk. I didnt sit and take care of her like I should have. I kinda stood back and talked to her friend and her boyfriend while she was on a bench throwing up. I was just to pissed off and drunk myself to deal with it.
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sounds to me u played it right

took care of her

i mean did she expect u to hold her hair while she vomit
 
tuc biscuit said:
lmao, I can picture this girl perfectly, still calls her father daddy, has a trust fund etc.
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nope very far from it. Very independant girl who always paid her own way and moved out of her parents house right after college.

If you want to talk about spoiled snotty brats than we can start discussing my last girlfriend. :lmao:
 
She's gotta be sensitive enough to stay sober on your last day so you can get some goodbye booty. I'm not into sloppy drunk girls at all. Mine can probably drink me under the table as it is.
 
Dial_tone said:
She's gotta be sensitive enough to stay sober on your last day so you can get some goodbye booty. I'm not into sloppy drunk girls at all. Mine can probably drink me under the table as it is.
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We're on perfect terms again. This was the only thing that has happened in this relationship and everything before this was perfect. Never thought I'd find a girl I cared for so much and was able to express my love openly to her without being scared that I wasnt being loved back.

The morning I left after we talked she could see I was extremely stressed and about to have a nervous breakdown for no reason and she came over to comfort me and that turned into her riding me like never before. But even after the sex before hauling my ass off to catch my plane on-time I still felt like things weren't left good before I left. But after some phone conversations it is behind us and thats that.

In my eyes stupid shit might happen and I know I always evaluate things to much and build them into bigger things than they are...so I'd rather have small things than something major.

It could be worse, like my friend and his wife. They seperated and now she is sleeping with the crack dealer they use to but stuff off of. And he's got a 6yr old daughter
 
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