Dont you hate it

[theoak01]

when friends from long term relationships get single then naturally assume because your single you want to go out and party with them every night of the week?

happening to me right now with a good buddy,Im reluctantly going out again for a few drinks because I know if he sits at home he will worry and get down on himself because his girl left him. but damn,I put this lifestyle behind me long ago,I hate bars and trying to show interest in girls friends he is trying to pick up.

I guess it make me a good friend but blah I dont wanna get sucked back into those demons, I promised to keep bad mongo caged

 

[eat big]

when friends from long term relationships get single then naturally assume because your single you want to go out and party with them every night of the week?

happening to me right now with a good buddy,Im reluctantly going out again for a few drinks because I know if he sits at home he will worry and get down on himself because his girl left him. but damn,I put this lifestyle behind me long ago,I hate bars and trying to show interest in girls friends he is trying to pick up.

I guess it make me a good friend but blah I dont wanna get sucked back into those demons, I promised to keep bad mongo caged

What I dislike even more is when a single friend of yours isn't single anymore. Then they think you are on call for them and have to hang out with them when THEY want you to because they don't have as much time for you anymore.

 

[theoak01]

lol thats like all my friends,Im use to that pretty much,I never pull that shit with them,yet they seem to think its ok for me

 

[Scotsman]

Yep it irks me when a friend is single and suddenly wants to start spending time together again like nothing ever happened. I have news for them I kept on living my life whilst they abandoned me to go play house or whatever. If you can't find time for your friends when you are in a relationship then you aren't their friend anyway so don't insult them by acting that way when it's over.

Cheers,
Scotsman

 

[hanselthecaretaker]

when friends from long term relationships get single then naturally assume because your single you want to go out and party with them every night of the week?

happening to me right now with a good buddy,Im reluctantly going out again for a few drinks because I know if he sits at home he will worry and get down on himself because his girl left him. but damn,I put this lifestyle behind me long ago,I hate bars and trying to show interest in girls friends he is trying to pick up.

I guess it make me a good friend but blah I dont wanna get sucked back into those demons, I promised to keep bad mongo caged

Willpower bro. You've already moved past that lifestyle, doesn't matter if you're around it or not. Besides, if you go you get to look at it from a new and improved perspective.
Bars never made a good impression on me either, even in school I couldn't have cared less about going out. I much preferred chilling with a few people doing fun shit vs smokey loud bars trying to find a place to walk. That and I don't like one night stands.

 

[theoak01]

I worked in a bar for the past three years still do fri nights,just doesnt interest me.

I just cant let someone sit there and deal with this alone,this girl broke his heart so I feel bad.

I gotta stop being so nice I think.

scots-I agree 100% man

 

[EnderJE]

Give him a loaded gun and tell him to make a choice.

 

[theoak01]

Give him a loaded gun and tell him to make a choice.

cruel.. I like it

 

[EnderJE]

cruel.. I like it

I remember back when I was really down on myself about this chick and told my friend that life wasn't worth living, he took me to a bridge and told me to go ahead.

"Either drop the fucking bitch or die for it. Just quit your bitching about it."

I dropped it then and there.

Then we went to a strip bar.

Good times.

 

[Scotsman]

I worked in a bar for the past three years still do fri nights,just doesnt interest me.

I just cant let someone sit there and deal with this alone,this girl broke his heart so I feel bad.

I gotta stop being so nice I think.

scots-I agree 100% man

Yep, I cut loose a couple of friends for that shit. When I was dating I still made time to see my friends, because I don't keep many friends so they are important to me.

Cheers,
Scotsman

 

[theoak01]

Yep, I cut loose a couple of friends for that shit. When I was dating I still made time to see my friends, because I don't keep many friends so they are important to me.

Cheers,
Scotsman

thats how I am,I have about 5 people I call a friend,the rest are aquaintences,nothing more

 

[EnderJE]

thats how I am,I have about 5 people I call a friend,the rest are aquaintences,nothing more

 

[theoak01]

lol what?

 

[seizer]

thats how I am,I have about 5 people I call a friend,the rest are aquaintences,nothing more

I hear ya bro.

For me, in all honesty, If I dont feel like I would get hurt or die for you, I wonder consider you my friend. And there are only a few people, non-family, that I would do that for.

 

[awittyusername]

when friends from long term relationships get single then naturally assume because your single you want to go out and party with them every night of the week?

happening to me right now with a good buddy,Im reluctantly going out again for a few drinks because I know if he sits at home he will worry and get down on himself because his girl left him. but damn,I put this lifestyle behind me long ago,I hate bars and trying to show interest in girls friends he is trying to pick up.

I guess it make me a good friend but blah I dont wanna get sucked back into those demons, I promised to keep bad mongo caged

I agree it is selfish of newly single friends to suddenly expect you to hang with them.

Also, I understand why you don't want to "get sucked back into those demons".

But, you have a responsibility as a man to make sure your newly single friend doesn't "get sucked back into his demons". (His GF)

 

[Sub-Zero]

I hear ya bro.

For me, in all honesty, If I dont feel like I would get hurt or die for you, I wonder consider you my friend. And there are only a few people, non-family, that I would do that for.

yeah, peeps use friends too liberally these days

 

[theoak01]

I agree it is selfish of newley single friends to suddenly expect you to hang with them.

Also, I understand why you don't want to "get sucked back into those demons".

But, you have a responsibility as a man to make sure your newly single friend doesn't "get sucked back into his demons". (His GF)

thats why im going out,he is ruined over her,so he needs to keep busy until he gets over it

 

[awittyusername]

thats why im going out,he is ruined over her,so he needs to keep busy until he gets over it

Your a good friend.

Get him some strange, and he will be fine. (Don't let him get P-Whipped)

 

[theoak01]

lol im trying to be a good wingman,but i already told him Im not fuckin randoms just so he can get laid

 

[awittyusername]

lol im trying to be a good wingman,but i already told him Im not fuckin randoms just so he can get laid

I agree you don't have to.

But, just being a wingman is ok. Because, a random is exactly what he needs to get that bounce back in his step

 

[theoak01]

another thing I hate is people who cannot be straight forward, this girl Ive been on a couple dates with is pulling this,says she wants to get together ,but dances around the topic,I told her im sick of games if she wants to go on a date tell me,if not fine,but dont lead me on and dance around the topic

 

[theoak01]

I agree you don't have to.

But, just being a wingman is ok. Because, a random is exactly what he needs to get that bounce back in his step

for sure,I had my share of them once I got out of a 3.5 yr relationship,his was almost 5 so he needs to get new ass i think